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writes: Today my bf and I went to a class of karate. We had never practiced any kind of martial art, and we were invited and thought we would give it a try. Another friend of his went, and he had invited his gf, but she was sick so she couldn't go. So it was him, my bf the (male) instructor (another friend of them) and me.Now, my bf is upset that I was the only girl there. He's jealous. He said if no other girls enroll, he'd rather I didn't go. And he's upset now. I didn't do anything - of course I was uncomfortable there! And of course I wouldn't be comfortable if he was in a karate class with girls only. But now he doesn't want me there unless there is at least another girl. It sucks, because I really liked it.What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): Just go, if you don't then that's a big warning sign about your relationship.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (6 July 2008):
 he's jealous of you going to a male karate class? bit OTT if you ask me. your not going there to have an orgy, as is no one else. your going there to learn something that in all fairness is very valuable for a woman to have these days. wat does he think will happen? some guy will sweep you off your feet with a black belt move?
i think your guy needs to cop on a bit and grow up. he needs to realise that not EVERY establishment that has men in it is a breeding ground.
if you wanna go, go! its your life and its a great thing to enroll in. if he has a problem with it....kick his ass.
joking, but stick up for yourself, he should trust you, and vice versa of course.
email me if you want good luck! xx
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