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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My name is Sandy..i am a bisexual..i just got out of a 2 year relationship with my girlfriend..it was mostly because of me and my attitude..we see each other once in a while..i want to make it work,..i love her and i know she loves me but she wants to give it time..she wants to get her life together and get back on her feet before she gets back into a relationship..she keeps tellin me that i need to get my life together too before i also get make into a relationship. What does this mean? i dont get it? does this mean that she is slowly tryin to let me go easily or does this mean that she really does want time to get herself back together and work things out?! please let me know what your opinion is... *Sandy
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (7 July 2008):
 Hey Sandy! You know, one of the great things about being in a same sex relationship is that you can understand the female mind because you have one too! We are complex, and usually, there is always some hidden meaning in everyting we say and do. Perhaps there is something about you she feels needs growing? Maybe she feels like she needs some growing? Most females arnt kind enough to just beat around the bush and lay all issues on the table. The best wa for you to find out the hidden meaning behind these comments is to somply ask. In my opinion, a person is setting up the game board when they say things like that. Get the closer you need, and ask her not to spare your feelings and explain herself. She owes you that much after 2 years of investing into this relationship. Good luck.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (6 July 2008):
Hey Sandy! You know, one of the great things about being in a same sex relationship is that you can understand the female mind because you have one too! We are complex, and usually, there is always some hidden meaning in everyting we say and do. Perhaps there is something about you she feels needs growing? Maybe she feels like she needs some growing? Most females arnt kind enough to just beat around the bush and lay all issues on the table. The best wa for you to find out the hidden meaning behind these comments is to somply ask. In my opinion, a person is setting up the game board when they say things like that. Get the closer you need, and ask her not to spare your feelings and explain herself. She owes you that much after 2 years of investing into this relationship. Good luck.
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