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anonymous
writes:Is there a way a married guy can send signals to a single girl in which he may be interested in something shady without telling it directly? If that is so, what kind of signs are there?I ask this cuz I met a guy a year ago, and being keeping in touch by email. AT the beginning he was rather polite and have always beig friendly. He mentions he's 3 years married ( his 2nd one)has kids from both relationships, and to me he's happily married. But....He flirted with me when we met, he emails me although short notes but he's a veru caring person.Had send me pics of him not his family,jokes, thoughts, says I'm one of his favorite ladies, etc.I see him as a friend really, the other day I send him a note thanking him for being nice and he said not to thank him cuz he enjoys our friendship and communications, as we live far from each other.But, it still this thing I feel, I don't know his wife and she don't know me or about me. He writes me notes asking me how's my weekend or how am I doing and stuff.How to recognize if this is going shady at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): The man is married and you are enabling him to be a scum-bag. Would you want another woman to do this with your husband? It is time women start sticking up for each other and become each other's allies instead of stabbing each other in the back!
You have nothing to gain here, leave him alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): The man is married and you are enabling him to be a scum-bag. Would you want another woman to do this with your husband? It is time women start sticking up for each other and become each other's allies instead of stabbing each other in the back!
You have nothing to gain here, leave him alone.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (6 July 2008):
 If his wife is not aware of the relationship then it is shady anyway. I would go mad if I found out my husband was emailing another woman. Fair enough if they were friends before but to make a new lady friend and be in contact with her without my knowledge would make me think he was up to something.
Find a nice unattached man before anyone gets hurts, especially his wife and kids x
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