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female
age
41-50,
*ternalleroze
writes:hi y'allI need to know , how to make friends ?i am new in Belgium , a year now i hv been taking Dutch lessons to learn the language , i take it at a subsidized school for foreigners who come to Belgium to integrate ( these classes are filled with people from Morocco , Russia , etc) i have a few friends among them , but no friends ( couples) i can hang out with ( me and my fiancée)i know this may sound racist or even classifying but we belong to a higher financial bracket than the ones i know , i know that money doesn't matter and all that jazz , but they come from different social bracket thus different habits , cultures , different way brain works leading to difference in opinions , ideas , and mental wavelength!!my fiancée is going thru final stages of a divorce where his jealous ex has brainwashed all his friends against him, she even has socially controlled the clubs he was a member to , so he cant even go there reasons 1) to avoid her and all her so called friends who were his friends before!!!how can we have a better social life and how can we make new friends ,i have invited acquaintances over , and we all have a good time , but no one invites us back , or even calls us once in a while!!!i just don't know what to do anymore !!!! help
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reader, boots_tart  +, writes (21 January 2007):
Get yourself and your fiancee out there. Go clubbing, wine bars, wherever you like to socialize. Then you can make friends. As you may already know friends dont happen straight away. And the friends you already have, maybe you could have fun showing them things you like. Try going to classes with your fiancee ie dancing. Its a great way to make friends
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