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writes: Hi all, My boyfriend and I broke up unofficially recently and has had two girlfriends since then. His new girlfriend is feeling hurt that he would go hook up with other women despite their new relationship. My ex leads a very confused life - he wants love, but i think he often confuses it with sex. Also, he's married and my friends see him pretty often but they don't know it's him as i make excuses for not showing them photographs or telling them exactly who he is. right now i'm worried about being called a liar. already i have friends doubting me and some keeps pressurising me about him. some mean well, but some im not so sure about. i know it's wrong - married people are off limits, but that's over now anyway. he wants to feel loved, but he's very confused and thinks people hate him. i miss him a lot and want to help him, but i doubt we would ever be as close as before. i miss him. please help, thank you.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (22 January 2007):
 I think you're under some misguided notion that if you can help him he'll suddenly realise that he never fell out of love with you and want you back. But whether that's true or not the fact is that it's not for you to interfere in any of his relationships. If he's ruining them then that's his problem and noone elses. He has to learn these lessons himself.
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