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writes:how do u get over a b.f that u can nvr have again ok i bet u want the story in 4th grade i had the best b.f named eric but on his b.f after a yr we dated he died n im 13 now n in 7th grade n its hard for me to date but i do but everytime i think of eric its rele hard for me to go on with my life knowin ill nvr see him again n on the day he died we had a fight so i nvr got the chance to say srry to him n evrytime i kiss my b.f i cant help but think of when me n eric would kiss n it brings back so many memories n i want to kno how to get over it is it possiable to get over him or not i have nightmares sometimes well i did of when the fight started n when he died n how i didnt go to the funeral cuz i would be to sad i sat up all night cryin lookin out the window n listenin to me n his song 'i swear' that was r song bk then cuz we swore to each other no mater wut we would love i each other forever n that we wil be there for each other no matter wut well i need him now n he wont be there n every time i listen to the song i swaer i can hear his voice n i would start cryin n i jst want to kno how can i stop thnikin bout him when im datin n when i listen to r song n when i kiss a b.f n when i go outside n look up n i cant stop thinkin of him so i need advise rele bad so plzz help me Reply to this Question
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reader, zecky +, writes (22 January 2007):
we're all guilty of taking guilt out on ourselves huh? try to stop being so harsh on yourself, find a good friend who would listen to everything. i know it's hard, but it's not your fault that he passed away. i'm sure you know this logically, but let your heart heal by letting it hear it as well. im sure he'll want you to be happy. live life again, even if taking it slow, cause who knows how long it takes to grieve for people? take your time, but mebbe try to enjoy life a bit more again. take care~
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl +, writes (21 January 2007):
heartxbrokenxgurl is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankz for the advise also every time i hear the song from the titanic i cry cuz it reminds me of the good times me n him had together i listen to that almost every day cuz i feel that if i show him how much i miss him then i kno he still loves me n sometimes i feel its my fault that he did die cuz i feel that if we didnt get in a fight on his b-day cuz i was so mad n nvr wanted to see him again which i told him that wel i was liein n i think god made that wish come true that i nvr wanted to see him again so thats y he did cuz of the fight n i just cant believe that i feel that way but sometimes i do
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reader, zecky +, writes (21 January 2007):
the fight was a long time ago but your guilty feelings and longing for him may be what's bringing it all back to you. it's time to free yourself from self torment...i know it's hard and mayseem impossible, but maybe you can write in a diary or write him a lette before 'giving' it to him in some way? be happy and mebbe have atalk with your new bf - find someone who you trust and love wholeheartedly to listen and free you. i'm sure Eric has forgiven you, don't take it all out on yourself, you wouldn't have known. hey you guys were and are awesome buddies - im sure he would want you to be happy. take care ~
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reader, salsere  +, writes (21 January 2007):
the fight you had hurts you because you never got to say sorry or even make amends with him.
But darling, he knows your sorry and never meant it. You said you never got the chance to go to his funeral, but you should go to his grave and tell him all the things you want to tell him, i know it might sound silly but it might help you move on and help you let go
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