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writes:I have just split up with my violent boyfriend but he is asking to come back. I told him no but how can I stay strong? We were together for 10 years and we have a son
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reader, cd206 +, writes (21 January 2007):
 Think of how bad it was last time and think of your son. He has to be your number one priority however you feel about this guy. He needs a safe and happy place to grow up in and I doubt you feel safe or happy with your violent ex.
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reader, kenny +, writes (21 January 2007):
 Im assuming that when you say he violent, you mean he has hit you in the past.
If thats the case i would most certainly stay well clear of him, you are better off without this guy. People like this always say they have changed, untill the next time they lose their temper again and lash out.
You deserve better than this, be strong and don't let this guy back in.
Good luck x
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reader, salsere +, writes (21 January 2007):
You know for your own sake that to go back would be a huge mistake.
Think of your son and what he it does to him when he sees his father act in that way towards you, if you keep them thoughts im sure that will be enough for you to stay strong, if you cant be strong for yourself then be strong for your child.
You deserve so much more than this man can give you and your son, so keep your chin up be brave and dont look back x
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