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writes: i want to ask this girl i really like out on valentines day. before i went on holiday i asked her out on msn, she said she just wants to be friend's right now. i went on holiday for 4weeks. now i'm back. suprisingly every girl who rejects me never talks to me and ignores me. but this girl still talks to me, and respects me even more we still have a laugh. any idea's how i could ask her out on the day to go somewhere. dont forget she said a month ago she wants to be friends. shall is there much point in askin her out?
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reader, cd206  +, writes (21 January 2007):
 I think if she'd changed her mind from last time you asked her she'd have changed her behaviour towards you. Is she suddenly touching you more? Talking to you about personal things? If she is she might be trying to show you she likes you now but if not then she's probs still not ready to date you.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (21 January 2007):
 of course not u'll scare her and she will move on from u as a friend too, leave her alone give her space and then maybe she will come back
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): yea i think asking her out may possibly jeopardise your friendship, has she given you any signals to suggest she may think of you as more than a friend now as opposed to a month ago when she first mentioned just being friends? The fact that you mentioned she said she just wanted to be friends "for now" could mean there is a possibility that she does want to go out with you yet has for whatever reason, such as insecurities or embaressed, felt not ready for a relationship. However it is also very likely that she actually just meant for you guys to be friends, nothing more. I'd say unless you are sure that she feels otherwise, remain as friends. hmm, not sure if i got to wordy but i hope this makes sense and helps you a bit. good luck.
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reader, leana09  +, writes (21 January 2007):
i think that you should be so romantic..like giver her a rose. and tell her and ask her out. then after that, before she answers say that "i dont want to hurt our freindship, if you still want to be freinds, but i rather have you in my life as just freinds then nothing at all, so you wont spoil the freindship. but asking her on msn..isnt the way most girls like it.. or you could just ask her out as freinds, like salsere said..that might work
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reader, salsere +, writes (21 January 2007):
Well, how much do you care for the friendship you have?
do you really want to spoil the friendship by asking her out again?
Maybe ask her out just as friends, rather than a date. And just take it from there.
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