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writes:im 43 iv been with my partner for 3years he is 34 we used to have a good sex life but all thats gone we only have sex now when he want to which is not very often,i feel like its me that he carnt be bothered.he carnt be touching me during the night in bed he saya he to hot yet hes wrapped up in his little space.he really makes me feel unattractive all the time
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reader, Rhi +, writes (21 January 2007):
 Its not you with the problem its him! Just because he isn't in the mood doesn't mean u r unattractive! I think u need to sit down and talk to him about it! It may turn out that he has a problem that he is embarrassed about like trouble getting an erection. If so u can then seek help from a sex therepist or a doctor. Having this conversation may also get the point across that u enjoy sex and would like to have it more often as you have needs to, he may not have realised that u were upset by his lack of sex drive, maybe he thought he was doing u a favour? What ever the rpoblem u MUST have a chat with him or he'll never put the effort in to satisfy your needs!
I wish u all the luck in the world! xxx
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