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41-50,
*oxy Angel
writes:I live with my boyfriend and his parents. He is 28, never worked a day in his life, does not have a education and is immature. I am 23, I want to go to school and start working again, but I feel held back by him. I do not see a future at all and want to leave, but not sure where to go. My friend invited me to stay with her, but I don't know if it's a definite thing yet. I never go out, he won't let me talk to my friends or parents because he is mad at them. The only friends I talk to are people I met online. I met a really nice guy and we really care for each other, and i would rather be with him. But i don't know how to leave here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): this guy is bad news he does nothing for you you have nothing to lose by leaving him, he's holding you back think what kind of relationship you could be having with someone who is going somewhere with their life he sounds like he is giving you nothing out of the relationship, not even making an effort so therefore you don't need to make an effort, do it whenever you can just pack your bags and walk out the door don't look back or feel guilty you don't owe hiom anything :)
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reader, cd206  +, writes (21 January 2007):
 Just leave! You're not happy and you have the option to go stay with a friend. There doesn't seem any point staying in a dead relationship.
CD
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