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writes:i met my partner when he was a drug user,i was giving support to help him become clear of drugs.only after he was clear of heroin did we become sexually involved. i'd fallen in love with him before any relationship had started. he had lots of sad memory's of the past, including a son which he no longer sees but loves very much. he has gone through all the correct channels to see his son, but because of his past drug use an so on all his effects have got him nowhere. he as decided that there is no more he can do until his son is of age were his mother can not stop him from contact. in the past when he was using drugs it helped to block out the feelings.but now he is clean,he as his feelings. his son as just had another birthday. which as upset him,
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reader, Rhi +, writes (21 January 2007):
 All u can do is to make sure that your boyfriend is persistent in trying to contact his son, as his son must have noticed that his dad is trying to contact him. If your boyfriend just stops then the worry is that the child may think he has given up and doesn't care anymore, and there is nothing worse than a child thinking its parent doesn't care as that may cause a dislike for the parent and he might not be bothered to get in contact with your boyfriend when he reaches age. Even if its just a birthday or christmas card that your boyfriend sends, atleast its something and it'll prove to the young lad that his father really cares about him.
I wish you fellow all the luck in the world! xxx
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