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My bf trusted me and still--I cheated on him with 2 lads! What should I do?

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Question - (21 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom, *atzkitten writes:

Hi im 14 years old and have a 17 year old boyfriend. i have being going out with him for a week. Anyway i went to my friends brothers 18th and got drunk, as did everyone their. My bf trusted me and i cheated on him with two different lads. it wasnt bad just kissing but i still feel quite bad...But i dont wana tell my bf what i did as he trusted me so much...any advice? xxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007):

firstly, your 14...what the hell are you doing drinking? its illegal,dangerous (especially around older boys who are only giving you drink for one reason) and irresponsible in regards to your health.

secondly, your young and shouldnt be taking relationships seriously. leave the sex and love to the older people. i know you want to experiment but dont do it when in 'puppy love' you'll regret it.

pick a lad your own age, i know 14yo boys are immature and you feel you dont connect, but older men are just the same with the added bonus that theyll just use you for sex. do you want to be used?.

wait till your older for sex, its a special gift not a toy.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntYes. First thing, don't drink- you're too young to be getting drunk at parties. I fully believe in drinking a bit at home to get used to it before you're 18 but getting drunk as early as you are is destructive behaviour. Secondly ask yourself if being with your boyfriend is what you really want. You're young- if you want to go to parties and get off with guys you don't even know then that's fine but it's not fine when you have a boyfriend. You can't have it both ways. You need to make a decision.

CD

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