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Bf is concerned that if I get braces-I will look ugly and not be able to give him blowjobs! Any advice for me?

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Question - (21 January 2007) 12 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Can I still give a blowjob if I get braces? I'm thinking of getting one, but my bf wouldn't want me to because he says it will make me look ugly and I might not be able to give him blowjobs because it might hurt the both of us. I wonder if I would get hurt or if he would feel pain if I give him a blowjob and I have braces.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009):

Seriously what a fucking loser! Why are you with a stupid jerk like that?? Dump him quick! I cant stand all the nice people out there with significant others that treat them like that! It makes me sick!

Get the braces if you want- theyre pretty trendy these days anyway- with ladies :) and youll have beautiful straight teeth :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009):

get braces if you feel you need them.

dump the bf.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007):

i have braces and have given many blowjobs ( no im not a slut ) i have a lot of morals actually. Other writers are right, braces wont make you look ugly, i have had them for a year and they dont bother me, i look pretty much the same. Screw your boyfriend if he thinks like that, that is very rude and if anyone said that to me i'd dump his sorry ass in a second, but thats my oppinion. The braces will not interfare with it. But from what your boyfriend said i wouldnt give him one because he was an asshole.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007):

Ok. depends sometimes people loose weight when the braces come on and it makes you look a little funny, but oral sex is ok as long as you don't scrape...it should be fine..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007):

is your boyfriend in a rather obtuse manner trying to say you look fine without braces. maybe he is just looking for reasons to convince you braces arent necessary. i mean he cant be that shallow if you really do need them for aesthetic purposes and yet he never cared about that before. whoose to say he doesnt think you look fine as you are and are getting worked up over nothing. though check what as many people you know think, because he might just have no long term interest in you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007):

Nice straight teeth or giving a guy blowjobs. I can't believe you are seriously letting this worry you.

Put yourself first, stop worrying about your selfish boyfriend. Your boyfriend is a loser, don't be a loser too for having such low self-confidence and respect for yourself.

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A female reader, x.Helpful.Cupid.x United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2007):

x.Helpful.Cupid.x agony auntHiya.

Right..ONE...you will NOT look ugly with a brace..and if your boyfriend says you will..then hes not worth it and is a complete loser.

TWO..Who cares if you cant give him a fucking blowjob..Hes the one who should suffer in the first place..calling you ugly!! Hes not bloody worth it girl!!

Go ahead and get your brace, it wont look much different and i suggest you tell your boyfriend to shove it...he obviously just wants sexual favours of you...and its not right!

Good luck xx

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2007):

willywombat agony auntRight....ONE. You may not be with this bloke forever, but the ugly crooked teeth will be around forever unless you get them sorted.

TWO. Unless you are planning on chewing his penis or are in the habit of using your teeth for a blowjob it will not affect them.

Don't be soft. Get your braces on now whilst you are young!

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A female reader, katzkitten United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2007):

katzkitten agony auntno real answer to your question and im sorry but reading your question i was a little shocked by your boyfriends words. does he like you for you or what you look like? And even if he thinks that why say it to yuor gf its mean! lol. my friends has braces and she is one of the pwittiest people i know. anyway anuff of my ranting, good luck! xxx

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (21 January 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntI'd ask your orthodontist. He/she would probably be able to tell you if braces interfere with blowjobs. LOL.

If your orthodontist thinks they are necessary, get the braces. They can prevent overcrowding and other dental problems in the future. Your orthodonist knows best. Boyfriends come and go. Teeth should last a lifetime.

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A female reader, x..HelpfulWun..x United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2007):

x..HelpfulWun..x agony auntAre you postive you need one, they hurt like mad. seriously i had one!

but personally you WILL NOT look ugly, your just the same and in fact ive known people that look prettier with them on, especailly it you get a colour.

anyway i think that your bf is terribly rude and selfish, if want & need braces get them, DONT get any braces because of your bf. infact if want that done he sould get someelse to do his dirty work for him, except you.

(i didnt mean, he could cheat on you by the way)

Good Luck

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntDo you need braces? I would advise against them unless you absolutely need them to avoid future problems because they cause a lot of pain. However if you do need them then get them regardless. I can't believe how rude and selfish your boyfriend is being by saying those things. You won't look ugly with a brace. You'll look exactly the same. As for blow jobs, that's his issue, not yours.

CD

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