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female
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anonymous
writes: Hey guysHow do i stop myself stressing over something so pointless? The guy i really liked asked me out and we have been going out for three weeks, we get along real well everyone says we are a great couple and im pretty sure he really likes me...but i constently worry that his going to stop liking me!!! Is this normal?? thank heaps Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, cd206 +, writes (21 January 2007):
Sure, it's perfectly natural to be insecure but please try to stop your insecurity ruining the relationship you currently have. I can;t sit here in good faith and tell you he won't stop liking you because maybe he will. Maybe you'll stop liking him, but you can't waste your whole relationship, your whole life even worrying about it. It's like saying you'll never be happy with a guy because he might hurt you. That'd be a shame. Trust him. If he hurts you, he hurts you. It will be bad but it happens to millions of people every day and they bounce back.
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