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writes:things were good with me and my bloke hes 22 in im 21 we both fell in love..lately he been having a lot of fights with his parents not sure what they were about but i do know that his mum doesnt like me so it could of been about me...my bf said to me today that hes had enough of the arguments he cant take it no more that hes moving out with a mate in a near by town, he doesnt know whats going to happen , but he said that he doesnt know how to say this but he said bye to me and asked me to forgive him...the only way i can contact him is by phone (and thats switched off, i dont know if he still has it or what not) i got one txt saying that he had enough and was leaving and that he was saying bye to me....okay i know only he can answer the questions i need..but i just need to make way in my mind about all of this1, okay hes leaving home, moving to a mates2, hes not coping very well3, hes shut me outwhy has he left me? ive never done anything bad on my behalf is it because he cant cope with everything ? any advice would be good ty xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe got in touch again saying that he was sorry for hurting me and that hes ok he wants to move out and things will be difficult for him since he will have more resposibilities tho he hasnt moved yet as hes poorly..just waiting to see what happens now notsure whats going on but he says he does love me thanks guys for youre help xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): Sorry to hear about this, but it does sound as if with the arguments with his parents, plus the fact his mother doesn't like you, it has made life very stressful for him.
As CD206 so rightly says, he needs some space and time to "clear his head." Its not anything you have or have not done or said; its just too much for him at this point. If you can, send one text or email and let him know you care about him, but don't pressure him to get in touch. Not at this point. Give it a couple of months or so after he has moved, then you might try calling to say hi, how are you - unless he contacts you, that is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you i will i hope he does contact me again xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (21 January 2007):
 You haven't done anything bad. He's just sick of the hassle with his parents and you. Send him a message and tell him you love him and are willing to give him some space to let things settle and to get in touch when he has. Sounds like he's confused and a little time might make all the difference in the world.
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