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writes: Hi, so I've been kinda having this problem for a long time now. This year is my last year in high school and there are three girls that I flirt with in different classes. Now, I'm 100% that they like me by the way they act and talk, but I've never been able to take anything to the next level, possibly too chicken... I don't know what's wrong with me.. everything goes great during classes and school but after we kinda just take seperate ways, but we do say hi in the halls and that's about it... I know I could have probably done something liek ask them to do something outside of school.. or meet with them more.. but how can I say something so blunt as "we should do something outside of school like watch a movie" or "want to get something to eat??" it invokes feelings of "Wth? that came up so suddenly and out of the blue" because here at my school, asking someone something like taht is pretty much indirectly saying that I want to be ur bf/gf because normally, making friends this way just happens .. i don't know if i'm making sense but I hope you guys know what I'm saying..I can't take things to the next level, I never find the situation to do it and peopel are always around.. but so far i've managed to go to a club one of them goes to every 2 weeks and we talk there.. the rest i just talk with a lot at school and i can tell they like conversing. Any response will help, thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontbanks, some lovely advice here
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reader, x..HelpfulWun..x  +, writes (21 January 2007):
 If you 100% sure, all you can do it try.
say 'want to do anything afta skl' and if they say no you've got 2other trys. At least one of them is going to like you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): Talk to them about a particular new movie thats been released or a resturant u want u both havnt been too...then suggest u may aswell go 2ther! eg. for a new movie...if u both think it sounds good jus casually say we shud go n check it out...see how she how she reacts (if positive) say something like "i'll hav a look at the cinema showing times and send u a txt" (get her numba if u havnt gt it) then later that evenin send her a casual txt bout som of the times the movie is showin n ask which one she's free on. OH YEAH..Dont go for all three at once! ask one girl then see how it goes.
Now hurry up and do it b4 som1 else asks her out!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (21 January 2007):
 Why not suggest one of them comes with you to the movies in a group or something? If you have a good time that night ask her if next time she'd like to do something just the two of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks, i feel like having a heart attack and im hypervetilating just reading this haha
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reader, salsere +, writes (21 January 2007):
if you would like to date one of them, then i think you have nothing to lose but all to gain. Go on be a devil ask them out!! Your a 100% sure they like you so go for it.
Next time you see one of them you really like, ask them what they are up to at the weekend, tell them you have nothing planned and it seems its going to be a boring weekend, and then say, fancy doing something?
Gooooo on you know you want to, be brave, breath and go for it.
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