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writes: i really like this girl i met online. she lives in a same town as me so it's not hard to meet as we live close, but i've never met her.i told her she was beautiful in the picture she replied with your so sweet, thanks, etc and since than she was talkin really sweet and more nicely.i think she may like me as well, she's seen my picture as well but i'm only judging by the way she was talkin online.i want to meet her, should i ask her to go to the cinema or somewhere else for a first date but i dont want to mention the word date!if she accepts maybe she likes me because a girl would not accept for no reason.Any ideas how I can go about askin this? What places do you guys recommend for two 16 year olds to go to know each other?it's so hard to get the courage to ask, someone just tell me what to do lol. thanks alot
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
Since you two met online, I'd suggest meeting somewhere really public the first time. It will ease any anxiety she (and her parentss!) may have about her meeting a guy online. Maybe suggest dinner together? Miniature golf? The movies would be alright, but you probably want to TALK and get to KNOW each other, right? Go to a sporting event together, maybe!
As for how you ask her, one of these days just say, "hey, I really like talking to you online and if you're not doing anything on Saturday I'd love to take you out to dinner."
Or something like that.
You'll be fine, sweetness. Just remember that she has a family who might be a little wary of her meeting with a guy online. If they're really not into the idea, maybe you could invite her and her family over to your house to dinner with you and your family?
Enjoy, sweetness! Sounds like you're a gentleman.
xxIndia
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