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36-40,
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writes:I recently moved to another state and left all my friends and old relationships ready to start over. I moved and met a guy who made me really realize that i could get over the past and be happy with him. He acted like i was his everything. He told me he hadn't been in an relationship in so long and i was the first one he could see hiself with. now that i have fallen hard he is pulling away saying he doesn't want to be commited etc. do i just leave it at that and not text him or expect to recieve a msg from him etc? what do i do it hurts so bad
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 Maybe you're putting pressure on this guy without even realising it. You may be texting him too often or telling him how you feel about him and it might have scared him off a little, hence the reason he's backing off. Keep things light, enjoy his company and let HIM take the lead and text/get in touch with you more. He certainly seems to like you from what you've written. I just think he's scared of the word "commitment."
Move back a little and give him some space, give him a chance to miss you and he'll be back asking to see you again. Just don't be too in his face too often as that's what's doing it.
Eve
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