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writes:See also: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-might-love-my-chubby-hairy.htmlMy New Girlfriend is acting werld for the next 3 weeks shes on a job centre course from 1pm - 4pm everyday now wouldn't u think she would agree 2 met me at 4pm till 5pm i know its only an hr but an hr is better than going days without seeing each over she told me if its nice next weekend shes gonna goto her dads in blackpool and she didn't say anything about me going is that normal?she's gonna c me monday because i have easter presentsshe's gonna c me tuesday because shes staying overshe's gonna c me wednesday because i have a test down town so i may as well met her its around the same time we both will be finshed is she thinking .. well we would of saw each over 3 times this week f**k him till the week after?i told her i want her 2 stay at my house once a week but in the next 2 weeks i want her 2 stay over twice a week thats not wrong 2 ask is it?we meant to have sex once a week i've been with her 1 month had sex with her once started have sex about 2 weeks ago. shes only just told her family about me. up 2 now i've met her cousin and nephew but is in no rush 2 show me 2 the rest of the family is that werld?ok and how long do u have 2 be with a girl before u ask her 2 move in with you? i asked my new girl 2 move in with me this month sometime she told me no she likes it how it is now. and than looks 4 her own place is she trying to tell me something?
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (8 April 2007):
 It does sound like you are over thinking things abit. Slow down. Putting the pressure on yourself and her is not going to help anything. It has been only a month which is nothing in the scale of things. Asking her to move in this early would seem quite sudden and frightening to anyone that early in a relationship unless the feelings were mutual. Not everyone moves at the same speeds. As paranoid007 says she has her own life too. Just invite her over once a week as you suggested but don't make it a must, if she wants you then she will make that choice.
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reader, paranoid007 +, writes (8 April 2007):
Sounds like your rushing into things, i mean asking her to move in with you after 1 month..its a bit sudden init. I think you should take a step back. This is all new for her too and she needs to focus on the job she is doing in the city for the 3 weeks she is doing it.
Asking her to stay over once a week is okay, twice is alright but you have to remember she has a life too and has family and freinds to see.
See how is goes over the next 2 months after she has completed the city 3 week job and is back to normal, then see how is goes.
If nothing changes and she is stil distant from you then its not meant to be.
Good Luck. x
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