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writes:hi i am 30 years old and divorced with 2 kids i met this guy who was 24 at the time but was not from around my area.at first he was really positive and wanted to spend time with me but then for some reason he stopped replying to my texts then when he did text he seemed as though nothing was wrong i thought it was just me being paranoid but it got to the stage where i was hardly seeing him or hearing from him at all when he said he was going to ring me he didnt then when he did he would say things like i fell asleep or was busy.I got sick of it so called it off after about 2 months but its like he wont get the message. I've lent this guy money and know I wont get it back its been 5 months now and he is still in my life and sends me texts like why have I not heard anything from you, you are meant to be my girlfriend. He has even told me he loves me but we never did anything together, anyway I've never met any of his friends and when I did go to his home town I wasnt even allowed to use his toilet. I am now at a stage where I dont know what to do and think he is very shady but now I feel like I love him as he has pursued me for months but then I think because he is so shady does he have another girlfriend and has he just been picking on a vulnerable women, my dad even thinks he might be a conman! Please help
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (8 April 2007):
 This guy sounds very shady to me, your dad could be right he could be a conman. Why did you lend him money if you were not 100% sure you was going to get it back. Do yourself a favour, cut all contact with him, I get the feeling he has the tendancy to prey on vulnerable women especially if they have children. Spend money on them and not lend to these unscruplous guys who are out to get what they want. Save yourself for someone who is worthy of you and will treat you with the respect you deserve, let this be a lesson to you, maybe next time you will be on your guard. Good luck.
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