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writes:my boyfriend doesn't like saying i love you even when i say i love you to him. it seems like if ever he says i love which is once in blue moon, he's under pressure to say it. i always feel that he's with me for wrong reasons. i say i love you to him everynight b'fore i go to sleep, most of the time he never says it back and when i asked him why can't he just say those three li'l words, he got mad and wanted to get off the phone right away!!! i have no way to find out how he really feels about me....and it kills me to think that if he's with me only for sex? please help!!
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reader, paranoid007  +, writes (8 April 2007):
First thing, how long have you been with your boyfriend?? Iv been in the same situation and i know it hurts..sometimes he'd say it, then the next thing, he would be saying no its too early to say it.
I dont think he is with you just for sex..as you've said, he has said it before. The first time my boyfriend said it, he was drunk and we had been going out for 4 months, but i didnt believe him.
Honestly hun, if you have been going out for a while then he shouldn't mind saying it, but if its only like 2-3 months, then i'd wait. Don't pressurise him into saying it, and he might just tel you how much you actually mean to him and you will be suprised.
Good Luck. x
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