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writes:hey!ok well...i work with this guy and all the girls think he's just hot and brilliant and i recently found out that he is interested in me and likes me. We've been speaking for a while now but i can't seem to take it a step further. I've been waiting for him to ask me out on a date but he never has, we just talk and flirt but...i'm just wondering if he's holding back and how can i make him take that step further? do i give him a hint...? i'm a bit shy at this so not to sure on how to take it further...thanx ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx kenny! that was really good advice! um...we're in different departments so it's not like i'm constantly with him. I see him, obviously but mostly on tea or lunch breaks...i have given him another hint and gave him my number because i was going to watch him play soccer today..so hopefully from what happened today we'll get to know eachother more!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 It could be is holding back form asking you out because you both work together, and is trying to keep it proffesional. How close are the pair of you working together? are you on the same floor, or is he in another department? and are you both permanent members of staff?.
You already know he likes you, so flirt with him, give him lots of eye contact, look at him then smile and look away. Find excuses to touch him. Be intersted in what he does, or is doing, and laugh at things he says.
If it really got serious with this guy i think one of you might have to consider leaving, or moving to another department. Office relationships are good when things are sweet, but when/if things turn sour it can can get pretty awkward for everyone.
Good luck x
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