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writes:My g/f and I have been together for 11 years and we have 2 children together,lately she has been accusing me of looking at porn on the computer. she says its found in the cookies when ever she disects the computer. I AM NOT looking at no porn and for that matter it seems to be just one site that ever shows up and no activity follows this. i'm just thinking she is using this as an escape goat to get out of this relationship to get to what ever it is she wants some where else. comments would be nice!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): try and explain to her that u have not and u do get pop up on line! and ask her how she feels!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 Is it only you and her that use the PC? It couldn't be the children? As far as I am aware if a porn cookie comes up then someone must have been looking. I may be wrong though. Check for cookies yourself before you log off and see if any come up. It may be a good idea to have her by your side or at least in the same room when you're on the PC, then before you log off, check to see if any porn cookies show. If they do then let her see them.
Why do you think she wants out of the relationship? Does she seem distant with you of late? Are there other things she's doing to distance herself from you that you've noticed? Do you both still have an active sex life? Maybe she really does think you have been looking at porn and is feeling a bit insecure about it all? Do what I suggested above and see if that helps. If you get back to me with the answers to my questions then we'll see if we can sort this out okay?
Eve
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