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writes:hey guys just wanted to know! if my gf tellin me bout a fling she had in the past which was meaningless no sex btw she told me voluntarily, is this a sign of honesty so i don't find out from someone else?? it did really hurt me tho, and i am the first guy she has been completely naked with is that big thing for her and is me being the first she let finger her and touch down there a big thing????? she say she feels very comfortable around me!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (9 April 2007):
 She obviously trusts you very much to be able to tell you intimate things about her past. She was being honest with you and she must feel comfortable with you to be able to open up to you in that way. That is a good quality to have and don't feel hurt about her past, (for all it was), be proud that she has chosen you and that she feels comfortable enough to open up to you the way she has. Some men are never able to get their partners to open up to them in that way! Embrace it, don't give her a hard time about it!
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (9 April 2007):
 Hey, if she had no sex and no touching below the waist it wasn't really all that much of a "fling" now, was it? Be glad your girl was willing to share that with you, but don't blame her too much for what is really a big nothing in her past.
You're her first real guy. Be kind and very loving, take very great care of her, put her physical needs FIRST (even before your own ... it's hard to do, but remember, YOU now have the responsibility to help determine how this woman will feel about sex for the rest of her life ... it's a truly awesome responsibility that she's entrusting to you) and be thankful that you're the guy she has chosen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): well i dont know ur situation but for anyone to tell there partner they have cheeted is a good sign as its honestly to try re bulid the relationship, i fully inderstand that u are hurt but hun u need to talk to her..
as for her to be only comfrtable with u then maybe she was just trying to be honest.
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