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writes:See also: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/so-many-doubts-about-my-relationship.htmlIs This Normal?when i was in high school i was 15 dateing a 14 year old girl and she was on the chubby side and everyone all my mates and family picked on me because of her size. and i dumped her in the end because i wanted sex she didn't but i dnt wanna go therei went of girls till i turned 23 years old and i met my ex girlfriend a 19 year old size 8 good looking girl. no boobs and i was with her 15 months i showed and braged about her for months and months and we tried 4 a kid and we had a miscarriage but i dont wanna go there.and then 3 months after my 19 year old girl i met another girl 16 years old and very very pretty size 6 she didn't eat for days on end. and i dated her for a month but she lived to far away for me 2 date her so i dumped her.now im dateing a 20 year old girl size 14-16 i'm kind of falling 4 her and we have nofthing at all in common and thats y i think where doing so well 1 month 2gether and no fights whats so ever. now i think i love this girl but i still think its horrible when i think about sex with her i know thats cruel but i do. we been 2gether 1 month and we had sex once. is that normal?my new girls as tits but there like milk and dead saggy and it puts me off big style can i ask is that normal 4 chubby girls?my new girl is very hairy in between her legs whats the nicest way 2 say 2 a girl " shave your clit or u dnt get any spit from me "??Help Pleasei really like this girl and im not gonna dump her for no reason but shes putting me of sex is there any way i can get around feeling horrified?ps - my birthday is comeing up and i always go down town for my birthday and i dnt wanna take my new girl im 2 ashamed what sould i do? take her and not dance with her all night or not take her and say its just a family night?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): I am a 24 male and have always been terribly turned on by the sight of a woman's hair at the Y. Dark black and red are my favorites. However, I can do without the hairy underarms and legs. I find many women my age are following the shaving trend and it is getting harder to find those who don't. As such, I have never turned down the opportunity to get to know any older woman on an intimate level. Generally speaking, I find many older women have not fallen into the pubic shaving trend. My first experience was at 17. She was much older and had a most wonderful thick black patch which I spent a lot of time exploring. That may account for my preference. Maybe I am weird, but we all have our preferences. My preference is to have it very furry like nature intended. Somewhere along the line in recent years, people have gotten the idea pubic hair is ugly and nasty. Nature put it there to be enjoyed and I most certainly do. As for boobs, I like any size. If they are big and sag a little, so what. My hands and mouth don't discriminate. They are still nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): If you want her to shave, you should give the example first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): you sad, ignorant, uneducated moron - try celebacy until you grow up and leave the lovely chubby women to those of us that will appreciate them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): You are soooo nasty!
I happen to be bigger myself and we are no different to skinny girls we just have more skin!!!
Someitmes its not our fault we are bigger!!!
And for ur information mate ... 14-16 is not big!
Big is like 28-30!
So grow up and treat your gal with respect!! You dont deserve her
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reader, peppersalt +, writes (11 April 2007):
don't go out with someone you're ashamed to be seen with. she deserves someone a hell of a lot better than you, do her a favour and finish it now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): You seem to be only interested in girls' dress sizes, not the girls themselves. I think that if you feel too "ashamed" to be seen with your girlfriend then carrying on dating her would be a bad idea. I also feel that maybe you need a reality check because if you date girls for their looks/size then it is unlikely that you will be in a steady and stable relationship in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): you never heard the saying "big is beautiful"how disrespectful you are to your girlfriend if i was her i`d dump you as you dont deserve her she`s too good for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): i agree with the response below..... why are you ashamed of her, thats not right! if you have an issue with size then you are shallow and she doesnt deserve you!! someones size doesnt change who they are inside! we can all change our appearances!!think about it!!!!!
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