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anonymous
writes:hi guys i wrote before about my fella and his mum... u gave so much good advice and im so greatful.my problem is his mum hates me shes done everything to break us us. shes lied and said people have told her im cheating, then shes shown a letter i wrote for him to everyone as it states people whom keep medalling in our realtion ship and she showed everyone! then shes now started handing around with this girl my age telling her that she should be with her son and they'd get on better!now after few weeks, he still does not no any of this about how im feeling as hes away and he is in the gulf right now and I know he does not need the stress but I cant go on any more! I think he knows something as we were meant to move in together soon, and hes pulled out as he feels I would be alone in our house as he works away during the week and only gets weekends which I was aware before but I didnt care! im losing him, and i dont know what to do anymore!any advice would be gratfull Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206 +, writes (10 April 2007):
 The first thing I would say is try not to voice any kind of opinion about his mum. Even though she sounds like a complete battleaxe she is his mother and she will always be there, whereas girlfriends are more temporary. Tel him you feel like you're losing him and get that part of it out in the open but don't say anything bad about his mum. It's his life and he does have his own mind. He doesn't have to do everything she tells him to and deep down you know that. If he's as fantastic as you make him out to be he'll make the right decision with or without his mother's interference.
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