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*rucebrae
writes:me and my boyfriend were making out toppless and it seems that almost everytime we do he starts to pull at my shorts, i hum uh huh or no, and he says ok (deep down we both wanna wait for marrage) well i continue making out and he says "r u serious?" why can't he live with the fact no, but still makeout?? Reply to this Question
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (9 April 2007):
 He feels the pressure for sex a lot stronger than you do. That's just a biological fact of life. Chances are he will probably keep pushing at this until you start having sex ... hopefully after you get married since that's what you so obviously want.
Communication is the key here. You are going to have to confront him and just let him know that it is getting harder and harder on both of you to avoid having sex as long as you are getting that far along.
If you're really going to wait until the wedding, I suspect that either the Happy Day had better be pretty soon or the two of you had better plan on slowing things down a LOT (no more topless make out sessions for a while) or something is going to give here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): i understand u wanna wait for marrage hunni and u just need to tell him that if u are so serious about him...
but i do feel taking off ur top and n making out may come as an impression to him as sex! as he is only a young las really...
id try talking to him and tell him how u feel as honesty is always the best way!
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