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writes: i have just started uni and made some quite good friends.most of the group i am with travel to uni every day exept me and one lad over the last 5 weeks we have become realy good mates.and on thursday we ended up sleeping together.now i dont no what to do as i cant stop thinking about him and never thought i liked him that way.but to make things worse he has gone home for half term n i cant stop thinking about him.but one of the other girls in our group has liked him from the start n keeps txting me to tell me her feeling for him.i have e-maild him to see what he thinks and says he dosnt want to hurt (amanda)as she is so sweet or me n hopes we can still be good mates.my head is spinning and dont no what to do for the best just agree with him and pretend im fine and it ent nothing just so amanda dont get hurt please please please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (25 October 2006):
 Hi Anon,
Really you need to know where you stand with this guy ..did sleeping with him actually mean something to him or was it just a one off..if it was a one off (one night stand) then prehaps him using amanda was an escuse..if he really does like you and would like a relationship with you ...then he should clear things up with amanda by letting her down gently and telling her his not interested so she can move on..and if you and him do eventually get together your proberly loose her as a friend..but you have to think about your self and what you want..seeing as you sound like you have really fallen for this guy..good luck with what ever happens.
xLEAHx
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