| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: we never have anything to talk about.... is that a bad thing??? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, bonym  +, writes (25 October 2006):
 Yes it is pretty bad my friend, how did you even get together? Before a relationship can be established, you need to know if the 2 of you have got anything in common, I mean you may for example like someone purely for looks, bur they are not interested in the same things as you are therefore the relationship will soon fade out. You do need to be able to talk to your partner or your relationship isnt going anywhere at all. Good luck. xXx
A
reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2006): "we never have anything to talk about.... is that a bad thing???"
Of course it's a bad thing!
Did you used to have things to talk about? Or did you get together without really knowing each other?
If it's the first, have a talk about how you feel your communication isn't like it used to be and see if you can find ways to improve the situation.
If you got with the guy without really knowing him then it would seem to me that you are just not compatible together as a couple. Communication and being able to talk to your partner, like a friend, is key to a happy relationship.
...............................
A
female
reader, miss help +, writes (22 October 2006):
 try to bring up a subject darlin like music or books or movies. this may make your relationship easier
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2006): It could be a problem as talking is the most basic of things. Often when two people really click talking and conversation can go on for hours and hours and hours.
I knew I'd found the right bf when among other things we could talk really well between each other - like over five hours on the phone before we lived together, and now for over an hour every day when he gets home from work.
...............................
|
