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writes:I dated a girl about a year ago. We dated for about a month then she broke up with me. I didn't learn till about four months later that she thought we were going to fast and that she liked me still. Instead of fogiving her I ended up going out with another girl. I like this other girl, but I knew my mind was with the other girl. I say mind because I really have no idea what love is. Just for the questions sack I won't pretend that I do. So I was dating this girl. She fell in "love" or started thinking about me alot. I really just let it go and it wasn't till later that I told her I wasn't in love with her. It broke her heart and it got me feeling bad. We ended up braking up after 6 months later. Then the first girl was really in my mind. I ended up sending her a email telling her I loved her and all this humble jumble. I went on date with her, I just kept noticing how different she is. Don't get me wrong this girl is different on her own. Alot has happend with us and we have been through alot. I just keep getting the felling that when I am with her I don't like her but when were not dating I can't stop thinking about her. I know we have been through alot but I don't know what todo or more in general what to think?
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reader, jack23 +, writes (23 October 2006):
 Sounds like your not sure what you want, or to be more accurate, your not sure what your looking for.Its easy to think about all the good things when your not with someone and all the bad things when your with them simply because its what you want to avoid. I think the best way to sort you head out it to really think about where you are and where you want to be in terms of a relationship.I would suggest just sitting down and really thinking to yourself what it is you really want from a girlfriend. It may help if you right a list, not about any individual, but simply a list of qualities that your ideal partner would have. I would say to keep it simple, possibly 15 points and then she how close she comes to your list.She isnt going to be ideal, the chances of you finding someone that matches everything on your list exactly are very remote, but it may help you have a better understanding of what you want from a relationship, and possibly if she is someone that you feel you want to be with, but didnt realise.Hope this helps :)
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