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writes: I have recently returned to work after having a baby, I was pleased to get back to work and am lucky to have a wonderful childminder. However I have now found that I am a fulltime worker and housewife, my partner does nothing to help me and it is realy starting to get me down. This is not helped by the fact that I have lost touch with all of my old friends and dont realy get on with any body at my new job. I feel tied, lonely and isolated with no one to talk to. I have tried talking to my partner but I just get accused of nagging. Please help me Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, beanybikes +, writes (22 October 2006):
try talking to your partner again. he needs to understand how you feel. if you cant get through to him this time can you honestly say you have a future together with the ways things are. you dont seem happy and its not fair that you have to do everything. does your partner work if so try taking turns in doing the house work and cooking meals that way its fair and takes some of the work from you. i think its about time your partner realised how much you do maybe then he will help.
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