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writes: Any help would be appreciated.I am in love with my best friend, who is a woman and a lesbian She is in a relationship but is very unhappy. I was recently in a relationship but have broken up.I have known her for 7 years and we are very close. I think she fancies me but I doubt she would ever do anything about it as she says she is not the type of person that has affairs. I cannot get her out of my mind , this has been going on for a year or so, what shall I do?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Tell her how you feel. Even if she won't leave her partner at least it gets it off your chest. After that it's up to her what she does. Tell her that if she decides to leave her partner you'll be there for her.
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reader, miss help +, writes (22 October 2006):
 tell her you love her .and if herlife is upseting her tell her to get broken up with her partner and see if she fills the same way about you.
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):
 You need to talk to her and tell her how you feel as you will never know what can come of this if you keep it to yourself, you said she is unhappy in her relationship, why is she still there?
Even though she isn't the sort to have affairs you will feel better getting this out in the open and knowing one way or the other whether anything can come of this so you can either stand by her or move on.
Good luck :o)
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reader, lindsayg +, writes (22 October 2006):
 explain how you feel, like amandabrv said. but dont pressure her into anything. Another thing to think about it since you have been friends for so long a relationship might not be the thing to do, because it could ruin your friendship but if you feel that it would work more power to you, follow your heart, its never wrong. best wishes xoxo
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reader, amandabrv +, writes (22 October 2006):
 just tell her you will feel better and she will understand!If she likes you 2 you will know!!
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