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writes: I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend and we hang out on occasion even though she has a boyfriend and has for like 8 months or so (I still think he's a rebound). We get along great when we hang out and laugh and joke and give eachother long hugs when we say goodbye (at first I just thought it was me holding the hugs for so long but the last time I could have sworn that she was holding on too). Also, her BF NEVER comes out to the parties that she goes out to and she rarely mentions him around me. Not only that, she will stay out til all hours of the morning drinking and has even passed out at other GUYS' places, and while I don't believe that she has ever cheated on her guy (she never cheated on me), this is behavior she didn't exhibit when we were going out. Can her relationship really last like this? I'm not dating her, so I try not to be too bothered by what she does and at the same time I almost feel happy that she's going out so much because I feel that it will put a strain on her current relationship and open up the door for us getting back together. I know I shouldn't root against her relationship, but it just seems like an odd match and I think that we have incredible chemistry and can get past the problems that broke us up, not to mention I'm still head over heels in love with her. What do you guys think? Has anybody been in that situation or known someone like that? If I were the guy she was dating, I quite frankly would be very put off by her actions. Thanks for the input guys ...
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (23 October 2006):
 It sounds like she's not too interested in being tied down to anyone. . . not even to her current "boyfriend". I don't think "passing out at another guy's house" is the type of thing most guys would like their girlfriends doing.
I think she needs to address why she's drinking to excess . . . and maybe you can help.
Good luck.
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