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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Should I still visit my boyfriend every weekend when he's busier than I am?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. He is currently studying for his LSAT everyday, while I am busy with just school. I sleep over his place every weekend; I come late at night, and then leave the next afternoon. Although, I am c...
A. 3 December 2013: IF mom thinks you are mature enough to handle it, then why not ask her for her advice.. maybe she is just holding her tongue and is not happy about it.
Stop trying to rationalize his bad behavior. He treats you well now and then and like a d... (read in full...)
My girlfriend spends a lot of time with her gay male friend who's almost always semi-naked. Should I be concerned?
Q. My girlfriend often tells me how her male fried walks around the house purely in his underwear. I know this sounds petty but I can't help but let it bother me. I even went as far as to ask what kind of underwear...they're the tight boxer brief ...
A. 3 December 2013: did i MISS the part about her showering with him?
Listen to me here and now:
my brother is gay
my aunt is gay
I was a swinger and I'm very sexually open
I was in an LDR with my husband for a year before we moved in together (and i m... (read in full...)
My boyfriend throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way!
Q. My boyfriend likes to make plans for us with or without me and it is driving me crazy (it's relevant that we live together). I say yes to much of what he suggests, but sometimes I just don't feel like going. He will suggest something in say, a week ...
A. 2 December 2013: You need to realize that if he's on the Autistic spectrum that his behavior is not done "on purpose" but it's the only way he has to cope... it's his only interface with the world.
It may be seriously that you are not cut out for being with a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way!
Q. My boyfriend likes to make plans for us with or without me and it is driving me crazy (it's relevant that we live together). I say yes to much of what he suggests, but sometimes I just don't feel like going. He will suggest something in say, a week ...
A. 2 December 2013: Does he have ADHD or learning disabilities?
I ask because his behavior is not acceptable but his constant inability to take NO for answer strikes me as a touch ADHD like....
when he asks you to do something the first time and you say no.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend spends a lot of time with her gay male friend who's almost always semi-naked. Should I be concerned?
Q. My girlfriend often tells me how her male fried walks around the house purely in his underwear. I know this sounds petty but I can't help but let it bother me. I even went as far as to ask what kind of underwear...they're the tight boxer brief ...
A. 2 December 2013: Wait.. he's a FRIEND so he is NOT a roommate?
he does not live in her home with her?
Does anyone else have friends that show up and take their clothes off to walk around in their underwear?
I mean I've gotten naked in front of friends...... (read in full...)
Why do many people find atheism offensive?
Q. Why do many people find atheism offensive? When I'm asked about my religion, I say that I'm not religious. When I'm asked further, I simply state that I'm atheist. If the asker is religious then they seem put off. Yet they asked. It's not something ...
A. 2 December 2013: I was raised Jewish. I am no longer "practicing" my faith but I still identify as "Jewish" although for practical purposes I'm more of an agnostic. To be specific I would have to call myself a an agnostic, heathen secular Jew.... what a mess.
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Could it be over before it began?
Q. I met today with the guy I asked the question about sending the Happy Thanksgiving text. I really liked him, but it seem like he didn't like me. I am very shy and I wasn’t able to maintain the conversation interesting. So, my bad! I know I screw it ...
A. 2 December 2013: Sadly he's not that into you.
think about it when a guy YOU don't like, likes you more than you do... he seems a bit of a nuisance trying to get you to go out doesn't he?
let this one go.... (read in full...)
I'm nasty when I'm drunk and my boyfriend hates it
Q. Hey! I've got a really, really serious problem and I wish someone could help me because I really don't know what to do. I'm 19 years old and the guy I'm dating is 27 (quite a big difference with ages but that doesn't bother us). We have been dat...
A. 2 December 2013: You have an alcohol problem. You are an alcoholic.
You can't say no and you can't stop. You can't just drink beer and cider.... you must stop drinking 100%.
At 19 I can tell you that you have about 10-15 years of hard drinking (drinki... (read in full...)
Wife admitted she used to be a prostitute! Should I cut my losses and leave?
Q. My wife and I have been married now for 23 years. When we began dating I realized she was probably more worldly than I was used to going out with. However , I was starting to fall for her, and at 27 I wasn't meeting anyone that came close to her . ...
A. 2 December 2013: I know everyone is being kind and supportive of the OP but I gotta say in my warped mind.. this struck me as ODD:
"I saw a photo album laying on a box and thought I'd just take a look. Inside were clippings for XXX movies at a local adult theater,... (read in full...)
I found a lipstick in my partner's car and my gut feeling is telling me there's more to this. What do I do?
Q. I don't know what to make of this situation so hoping someone can give me some advice. My partner and I have been together for 3 years. We've had a great relationship and friendship. This morning I found a lipstick in his car. I have no r...
A. 2 December 2013: you are correct...
finding the lipstick means nothing.. what matters is his reaction which you are correct is suspicious.
proceed accordingly.
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Boyfriend had a secret porn blog and we barely have sex anymore. Should I leave him?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We've been fighting a lot lately. I found out he had a porn blog on tumblr and i got upset I made him chose me or delete it. He deleted it but he's been such an ass. Hes had an attitude...
A. 2 December 2013: Your needs are not and will not be met in this relationship.
The porn blog (whatever that is I'm not even googling it) aside..
your love life is lacking.
you don't get affection from him having to BEG for affection is not right... wi... (read in full...)
Should I still visit my boyfriend every weekend when he's busier than I am?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. He is currently studying for his LSAT everyday, while I am busy with just school. I sleep over his place every weekend; I come late at night, and then leave the next afternoon. Although, I am c...
A. 2 December 2013: you are the ONLY one rowing this relationship boat.
He's not as into you as you are into him but he's willing to accept what you give him.
YOU are getting NOTHING from him... he's taking everything from you.
EVEN the busiest man will MAK... (read in full...)
Is my best friend flirting with me? She's married!
Q. I'm getting mixed signals from my very best friend. We work together and they live on site in an apartment. I'm not sure if she is flirting with me or if I am reading too much into it. She is married and in her late 50's, I'm a female as well and...
A. 2 December 2013: I'm with Cindy Cares on this... I don't think it's FLIRTING.
she's unhappily married to a lump and is probably not going to leave him so she's just trying to inject some FUN into her life.
I'm a bisexual woman in a lousy marriage and I am an... (read in full...)
Is my B/f looking for his ideal woman? Or does he just see women with long platinum blond hair as some sort of porn object?
Q. If my boyfriend sees a woman with platinum blond hair, he just goes into a sort of trance-like state and fixates on her. The woman often is just average-looking, but because her hair is long and platinum blond, he just gets stirred inside. Why is ...
A. 2 December 2013: I assume the response below this one is the OP
and you totally MISUNDERSTOOD the "Thor is very pretty" reference... "THOR is VERY PRETTY" is said to piss him off.... that's all. It's not whispered under my breath at all.... it's said loudly t... (read in full...)
Should I stop talking to my friend that I have feelings for?
Q. I've started a friendship with this girl whom I've became very close with, we've known each other for about 6 months. So long story short, she started hitting on me and I'm very bad at taking hints that I didn't take the opportunity. I believe after ...
A. 2 December 2013: Just read what you and Tisha talked about.... OP, she hit on you (legs around your waist, a kiss, dressing up the girl tried) and you ignored it. OUCH for her
so did you ask her out BEFORE or after she got this new "boyfriend" because her ... (read in full...)
I'm 29. How can I have a grandfather in my life if my own have died? Am I asking too much? Or is there another way to fill this void?
Q. Hey guys, This is a question about a family relationship. I'm new to this site but I don't imagine it's ever been asked before. I know it sounds kinda crazy, but I need advice about this desire of mine. Is there any way to make my wish come tru...
A. 2 December 2013: My father is a grandfather to children your age. there is no taking care of grandpa for my kids... at 79 he just got home from a 2 week cruise. I'm sure today is 18 rounds of golf at the club and then dinner out with the little woman (who at the ... (read in full...)
How do Atheist men date when most women are Christians or believers?
Q. Many women are believers or Christians etc. I'm not saying you can't date at all, that's absurd, all I'm trying to convey is that your dating pool is rather limited. Like at my college, most women seem to be believers. I know this because in ...
A. 2 December 2013: Believing in God or a higher power is different than believing in organized religion. Many folks believe in God or a higher power but not in religion. Therefore many folks who believe in god are not limited to dating folks of the same belief.
Y... (read in full...)
When we are together its good when we aren't I think of how it won't work out!
Q. Ok so here is the deal. I am a bit confused and obviously seeking advice. I have been dating my boyfriend close to a year now. He Is a bit older (like 14 yrs older) I don't know if that makes a difference. He has also been married twice be...
A. 2 December 2013: My personal take on it is after a year if you are not happy and it's not progressing to where you want, then it's not going to get any better than it is already. If you feel it's not moving forward and it's stagnant..it's because it' probably is.
... (read in full...)
Sex life with fianceé is suffering. How important is sex to women in a relationship?
Q. I just want to know how important sex is to women in a relationship, and also if it is important to them to maintain a healthy relationship. My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we've been together for a year and a half. The first ...
A. 30 November 2013: It sounds like she was diagnosed with Interstitial cystitis
which is horrible. I had a friend with it and she was in constant discomfort.
I've had bouts of severe chronic hemorrhagic UTIs and bladder issues so I have some idea of her discomfo... (read in full...)
My mom never lets my husband in the house, big deal or not?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been married for about 6 months now, and my husband has never been to my parents home...ever. We all live in the same city, I've been to his mum's a ton, same with his other family. He's been around my family plenty, but my m...
A. 29 November 2013: Personally if it was ME and my spouse was not welcome in my parents home I'd not be going there either...
it's weird that she's nice to him in public but won't let her in the home... have you ASKED her why?
I'd ask her why and hear her out... (read in full...)
My ex says he has no feelings for me but gets upset when I don't return his calls
Q. Hello everyone, so my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago and a lot of stuff had happened since then but recently he said it was best we didn't see each other for a while as we both need to move on etc. To cut a long story short, he has since ...
A. 29 November 2013: He's an EX for a reason... why in the world are you getting upset over an ex partners rantings and ravings.
you owe him NOTHING.
I'd go totally NO CONTACT and be done with him.... (read in full...)
He flirts and it irritates me
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years often flirts with his immediate boss or co-workers, someone or other. Its not that he flirts with everyone, he picks a person for a time, flirts with them until he loses interest or they lose interest and then move on...
A. 29 November 2013: Oh dear, these questions always make me feel bad. I'm a flirt. I'm a natural flirt... I flirt like I breathe.. I don't even think about it and for years I had no idea I was flirting... I just thought I was friendly and outgoing...
I think fo... (read in full...)
Am I right to not want to see my mother or her girlfriend?
Q. I visited my mother for Thanks Giving. She is 40 years old, still lives with her mother (my birth grandfather and step grandmother raised me). She lives the way she does, mainly because she has an addiction. She is dating a woman that is only 4.5 ...
A. 29 November 2013: It's very hard to play the "am I right" card with family.
And sometimes even being RIGHT is wrong if it keeps you estranged from people. My husband is estranged from his mom for many years.. they never speak and we are together 3 years and I'... (read in full...)
A guy told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend and while I know it's a lie, it's still bothering me!
Q. A bloke came up to me in my local the other night and told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend for the past 4 months. He explained that she was waiting for the right time to tell me it's over.I just burst out laughing at the thought of my ...
A. 29 November 2013: I have a tattoo on my shoulder... many men I work with know of this because I often wear clothing that has the top of it showing so they ask to peek at it...
IF he knows she's at the gym.. maybe he's seen the mole there... or maybe there is... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend look up his ex's at least once a week?
Q. Is it normal that my boyfriend looks up all his exes and sometimes just girls that he has kissed/had flings with on facebook? It's once a week ish usually! I never do that!! He is a big thinker he thinks about everything - his mind is always g...
A. 29 November 2013: so he knows you know...
is it because he tells you or because you snoop.
if he tells you.. then it's up to you to decide if you wish to stay or not. If he tells you, it probably is pretty harmless but only you can decide if you want to d... (read in full...)
How to stop thinking about sex with this guy?
Q. After my boyfriend and I broke up, I sought out a rebound, and the guy that presented himself to me was a 32 year old unemployed cocaine addict with a kid. I am 20 years old, from an upper-middle class professional family, in college, working ...
A. 29 November 2013: you want to go back to your boyfriend... why?
does your boyfriend want you back?
use this time the addict is in rehab to detach from him..
after 28 days of no contact it should be easy to continue
besides part of recovery is N... (read in full...)
Is this marriage over?
Q. I have been married second time round for 2 years, my wife is Jamaican and we met online, we met for the first time in Jamaica on holiday and it was great and had sex 11 times in the first week. She then came over 7 months later after sexy texts, ...
A. 29 November 2013: I read your question and it immediately sat badly with me since you mentioned how often you had sex with her in a period of time, and it was precise like you keep track of it. HOW often you have sex is not a good way to determine if a relationship ... (read in full...)
I'm in limbo waiting for him. How long should I wait?
Q. I met a really lovely guy of 48 who is has been separated for three years. He says he couldn't afford to buy his ex out as he has a business and house. When we met 8 months ago he reassured me it was at the final stages and amicable. I have waited ...
A. 29 November 2013: My first husband and I were separated for over 7 years before we got around to the divorce... it did not mean we were trying to make it work or were still attached to each other... it just took time for us to get around to it. And in OUR state ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend look up his ex's at least once a week?
Q. Is it normal that my boyfriend looks up all his exes and sometimes just girls that he has kissed/had flings with on facebook? It's once a week ish usually! I never do that!! He is a big thinker he thinks about everything - his mind is always g...
A. 29 November 2013: how do you know he does this? does he tell you or are you checking up on him?
if you are checking up on him you don't trust him.
It could be boredom... or curiosity... it does not mean he's not satisfied in the relationship.
what ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am not part of my boyfriend's life. What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating a guy for around 6 months. During this time we have seen each other at weekends and once during the week. To begin with this was fine, but now I am starting to feel this relationship is stalling. We have a great sex...
A. 29 November 2013: You see him twice a week... when you see him what do you do?
is it always just about having sex?
do you two go out with friends?
do you go to dinner?
you "Found out he was moving" so he did not tell you or ask you or involve you... it'... (read in full...)
How could my ex move on so quickly after a 4 year relationship?
Q. My ex dumped me 6 months ago. It's pretty hard for me to move on and let go. We were together for 4 years. It was a nasty breakup. We talked a few times in the first few times, but it's mostly about me telling him how much he hurt me. Last month, I ...
A. 29 November 2013: I am sure he thinks of you and misses the good times.
You can't live your life worrying about the past.
don't worry about if he will apologize to you... it's over and done and no he won't ever apologize but that's ok... we do not live our ... (read in full...)
She ignores me which makes me do stupid things, help!
Q. please help,I have been seeing my girlfriend for only of months.we have wonderful weekends together,but when she is at her house,she likes to use Facebook.I don`t use it at all.so when i try to talk to her she either ignores me or takes a long time ...
A. 29 November 2013: I am with Honeypie. You have been dating a couple of months. That’s not a long period of time. Yet you profess to really love her and even with red flags from the beginning you NEED (your word) this relationship to work. What is with the NEED… ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too close to his secretary!
Q. My boyfriend has a really lovely secretary who he thinks a lot of. There are eight guys working in the office. I have met her a few times and she is a lovely warm friendly woman happily married with children. She is 35 and my boyfriend is 38. He t...
A. 29 November 2013: Ah she's his "work wife" she's happily married... so you said.. do you NOT believe this?
He's got a "work crush" and that does not mean he's going to cheat.... just because he REALLY LIKES her and they are friends at work does not mean YOU... (read in full...)
Can you have as many doubts as me but go on to be happy further down the line?
Q. Hi everyone. Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years and things have been a bit rocky at times if I'm honest. However things are going much better at the moment, and he has recently asked me to move in with him. The problem is I ...
A. 29 November 2013: DO NOT do something based on pressure to please your boyfriend.
IF you want to buy a home on your own do it... then he can move in with you and pay for his share of things equal to the mortgage payment.
FOR example, my father and his "gf" ... (read in full...)
I consider her a friend, yet she says I'm using her. Any advice on how to deal with this?
Q. I met this girl at an AA meeting and she was really cute and flirty at first. We started talking, went to a midnight meeting and I took her back to my apartment and we made snacks. She ended up spending the night and we made out and when we got t...
A. 29 November 2013: If you are both so new to recovery then you both KNOW this relationship is NOT a good idea.
I won't lecture you on it... she's using you and you're using her... it's a mutual use and abuse relationship.
You cuddled at first... you got laid... (read in full...)
He likes me, he likes me not .... which one is it?
Q. Hey I’m just started my new just as bar maid in this pub where I live. Been there about a month now I half of the guys there have been hitting on me that work there but I’m not that interested in them then one day when I was working the Friday shift ...
A. 29 November 2013: I'm with Honeypie... perhaps he does not think it wise to date a co-worker.
IF you like him why don't YOU ask him out. It's the 21st century and women demand equality. you want to date him ask him. Don't be surprised if he declines how... (read in full...)
I told him I used to have a crush on him and he turned nasty
Q. I have a boyfriend, for starters. And everyone knows about him. I was friends with one of my colleagues and I thought he was a really nice guy. We spent lots of time together and slowly, I developed a huge crush on him. I went totally out of m...
A. 29 November 2013: Well NOW you know that he's NOT a nice person. He's not worth your crushing on him... he's a louse... his personality is mean and ugly
this should help you get over him.... once you are past the infatuation, the rest will easily fall into pla... (read in full...)
He's great but I just don't feel anything for him
Q. Hey everyone, My boyfriend and I been going out for a month now, we are both 18, we don't argue, he treats me nice but he's not really the romantic type, he's really nice and sweet, but I feel like there's something missing I just don't have ...
A. 29 November 2013: I think that you just don't have the chemistry necessary to make it work with him.
If you don't feel it, it's not going to magically appear...
do not settle at this point for anything less than the magic you've felt before....
... (read in full...)
Is this possible in this day and age for a guy to concentrate on one woman and be sexually obsessed with her? Because I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me...
Q. I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me... My ex boyfriend was a porn addict who told me I couldn't be a model as I'm just an ordinary person. These words haunt me, he's made me believe I'm a lesser. It's let to me having...
A. 29 November 2013: OP your problem is not your ex.. .but rather the fact that you continue to give him power.
Why do you CARE so much what an EX boyfriend thinks? So he thinks you are not glamorous.. who cares what he thinks? So he never was verbal about how attr... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with my ex casually?
Q. My Ex, who I have not seen in about 7 years, recently invited me over to have a drink. He asked me if I wanted to have sex. I was shocked as he married since our breakup but apparently is splitting up. I told him I was looking for a relationship, ...
A. 29 November 2013: NO... don't do it... please don't do it.
you care about him... you sleep with him you will care more
he does not care about you only about getting laid.
YOU will GET HURT... do not do it.... (read in full...)
We're not married but he put me on his life insurance. Is this a big deal?
Q. Just a simple question... my fiancee of 6 years has put me on his life insurance but we are not married. He keeps saying that no other man will do that to me and that im lucky to have him, he keep saying i wont find another man like him. But he...
A. 29 November 2013: It's NOT a big deal. A person (especially a young healthy person) can by term life insurance (lasts for maybe 10-25 years) very cheaply and put ANYONE on as the beneficiary.
He's abusive and controlling and he's LYING To you. I am betting i... (read in full...)
Should I stop flirting and let my friend have him since she's been dying for her first bf for ages? Should I tell my friend I like him too?
Q. I'm 17 and I have a crush on a boy 3 months my younger (I don't usually opt for youngers I think its weird). He's in the RAF and he's a very funny, mature and caring guy who makes me smile. The only problem is that one of my friends likes him too. ...
A. 29 November 2013: You can't make the choice for HIM who he likes.
YOU can stop flirting with him and leave him to her but since he does not like her in "that way" it won't matter to him at all.
HE likes you and you like him... it will hurt your friend and you h... (read in full...)
My ex went off on me because I'm seeing his married friend. I don't know what to do
Q. where do i start its a long story , iv been trying to get a hold of my x for the longest time we did not part well, anyway we had been together for 4 yrs friends befor that so finly did reach him we stared talking again he said he would come and ...
A. 29 November 2013: Your ex has no say in your life. No need to have contact with him. You don't need his approval or permission to live your life.
OTOH, maybe you should ask the wife of the man you are seeing what she would like you to do about her husband.... (read in full...)
Did the text mean that he was looking to have sex?
Q. So this guy was flirting with me. We were texting and talking about the movie I just watched. Then he said "If you're free we can do something maybe... ;)" Did he mean sex? And how should I react to it? This msg just kinda popped out of nowhere. ...
A. 29 November 2013: what time of day was the text?
after 10 pm yeah probably meant sex but I would not jump to conclusions...
has he ever asked you out on a "real date" (that means planning and asking in advance).. if not... well then that's not a good s... (read in full...)
Is my B/f looking for his ideal woman? Or does he just see women with long platinum blond hair as some sort of porn object?
Q. If my boyfriend sees a woman with platinum blond hair, he just goes into a sort of trance-like state and fixates on her. The woman often is just average-looking, but because her hair is long and platinum blond, he just gets stirred inside. Why is ...
A. 27 November 2013: He looks at long platinum hair because he likes it. It’s not a porn thing. I get sick and tired of how often women like to blame a man’s bad behavior on porn when it’s not just porn.
He likes long platinum blonde hair. YOU don’t have it and ... (read in full...)
Is this possible in this day and age for a guy to concentrate on one woman and be sexually obsessed with her? Because I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me...
Q. I'd like the idea of someone being sexually obsessed with me... My ex boyfriend was a porn addict who told me I couldn't be a model as I'm just an ordinary person. These words haunt me, he's made me believe I'm a lesser. It's let to me having...
A. 27 November 2013: Since we are invoking presidents how about presidential wives
Eleanor Roosevelt said "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent"
OP he did not make you feel lesser with his stupid comment YOU are feeling lesser about yoursel... (read in full...)
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