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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 8 December 2013: I'm having a hard time figuring out why a man who values his PRIVACY and needs his space feels the NEED to give his phone number out to women. The two do not go hand in hand to be honest.
I think that you go after the clingy girls so you can g... (read in full...)
I know very little about post menopause!
Q. I'm in my late forties, and recently I have been seeing a very nice woman in her mid fifties. We haven't slept together, but the relationship looks like it's heading towards that level of intimacy (I hope!). I assume that given her age she is proba...
A. 6 December 2013: now that's the kind of follow up I Love.
Congrats OP... glad it's working out!... (read in full...)
She posts everything we do on facebook!
Q. im with this girl that is say young enough to be my daughter. i love her very much and i even ended a long term marriage for her. but lately i have been thinking about things she put on facebook when we were dating. i told her one night when we were ...
A. 6 December 2013: it's been a year... where's my update op?... (read in full...)
I don't want to share! I am very drawn to her, but she's married. What to do?
Q. So I'm a lesbian. Recently a woman on a dating site messaged me. She seems very lovely as she is beautiful, smart, funny and we have a lot in common. The problem is, she's married to a man. It sounds like they have an open relationship deal or ...
A. 6 December 2013: OPEN marriages CAN work especially if it's because one partner is bisexual and is seeking what they do not have in the marriage but I have ONE caveat.
DO NOT continue with this woman without making sure her husband is on board and is ok with i... (read in full...)
I want to tell my fiancée I sometimes wear women's panties, but I'm afraid of what she'll think!
Q. Hello everyone, I've got an odd thing goin on. Basically I like to wear girls panties, but mainly just when I masturbate or at night when goin to bed. It makes me feel more intimate and they are more comfortable than my boxers. I sometimes wear them ...
A. 6 December 2013: I personally have to add that I do NOT think that men who cross dress have MORE going on that just cross dressing...I've known too many male partners that were NOT closeted gays or bisexuals or perverts.. but rather they liked the feel of women's ... (read in full...)
I want to know what this guy wants from me?
Q. Two weeks ago I went to a thanksgiving dinner for my college organization club and met this guy there. He began talking to me first and took pictures with me and told me I was gorgeous and even got my number. I left and he texted me later on that ...
A. 6 December 2013: or could it be that his phone is not working right and he's not getting texts or they are not being sent properly?
texting is NOT a way to have a relationship.
... (read in full...)
"I like you a little too much, I don't wanna take advantage of you." what does he mean by that?
Q. Hello (: I have a guy best friend, both of us are 21 and we've known each other for over a year now. Just recently, we confessed that we have feelings for each other and we've decided to take this friendship to a whole new level. He ask...
A. 6 December 2013: he respects you and wants to build the relationship slowly.
so respect him and don't be so physical with him for a bit.... (read in full...)
What do guys think of their ex fwb?
Q. I was wondering after a friend with benefits situation has finished because the guy got a girlfriend, will the guy tend to still have sexual thoughts when he sees the ex fwb? My guy fwb broke things off cause he met someone but he still keeps on m...
A. 6 December 2013: yep he has sexual thoughts when he sees you or thinks of you
and no it does not mean he cares about you... men often (not always) have the uncanny ability to separate sex and love where women often (not always) do not.
is he keeping you for ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but doesn't trust me to carry out his wishes!
Q. My son's father has been dating me now for 15 years. We have seen turbulent times. He left me after the birth of our son and started seeing a coworker of his. This relationship lasted about 4 years. He denied it was anything more than a casual ...
A. 6 December 2013: Yes being an executor is a lot of work for almost no compensation. An executor can be anyone. It does not have to be a a friend or family member. An attorney can easily be appointed as an executor for anyone. So that’s BS on his part. I do not ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my fiancée I sometimes wear women's panties, but I'm afraid of what she'll think!
Q. Hello everyone, I've got an odd thing goin on. Basically I like to wear girls panties, but mainly just when I masturbate or at night when goin to bed. It makes me feel more intimate and they are more comfortable than my boxers. I sometimes wear them ...
A. 6 December 2013: Yep I'm betting she'd even help you pick your own nice panties to keep in your drawer...
go to her tell her... ask her if she wants to help you shop for your wedding trousseau at the same time she does hers.... (read in full...)
I'm worried if I have a serious health problem that my fiance will be getting cheated
Q. I have a problem that I am feeling very unsure about. I am getting married soon and my life with my partner is fantastic. I love her to bits. She is beautiful inside and out, caring, loving, and I have never been happier. We have a big wedding pl...
A. 6 December 2013: If she is aware of your situation fully then she's making her choice and going in with eyes wide open and you can relax that you are not saddling her with a bad life.
MEN often define their ability to be a good partner on their earning pote... (read in full...)
Why is it that nice guys don't finish at all?
Q. Why is it that it used to be that nice guys finished last. But it seems like now nice guys don't finish last, they don't finish at all, and are prevented to do so? I'm really just looking for girls answers....
A. 6 December 2013: giving out your number is not going to net you girls calling.
women will more than likely NOT make the first move.
even in the 21st century it's more common for the man to be the aggressor and make the initial call.
Rather than giving ... (read in full...)
He spent a month chasing me and I finally gave in, so shouldn't he be happy?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we recently broke up. I went no contact with him for a month. During this period he tried calling, texting, social media and even showing up to places or bars that I normally go too. He even left ...
A. 6 December 2013: OP I see your unverified followup....
you broke up because he:
*never spent time with me and
*took me extremely for granted.
*He constantly would talk down to me
*I had to do what he says.
*He had VERY rigid roles on the relationship.... (read in full...)
How many is too many?
Q. How many sexual partners is bad by the age of 18? I was 18 at the end of July and I've slept with 8 people and had additional sexual partners. I was just wondering is this bad already, or if not, at what point does it get bad?...
A. 6 December 2013: It gets bad when YOU think it's bad.
The fact that your asking leads me to ask you what has prompted this question... did someone judge you or say something to you?
Yes there are men out there with the old mindset that women should be virgin... (read in full...)
Am I being too clingy? Did we rush into this too soon? I get jealous and possessive and he's often unavailable, to me.
Q. I've been talking to someone for the past 4 months and I met him online. It was a day after my ex blocked me out if his life. I had told this current guy, "X", how distraught I was after what this guy did to me. He complimented me so much about...
A. 6 December 2013: You are being clingy with a man you are NOT having a relationship with.
Use this to live and learn...
1. never jump into a relationship right after breaking up with someone else
2. never webcam or send "sexy" pictures... you have no clue... (read in full...)
Is she just not into me any more?
Q. I met a girl this summer, she lived right in my neighborhood. Immediately, we connected and hung out a couple of times. I admit I should've been more upfront with her with the fact that I was leaving out of state for grad school but I thought things ...
A. 6 December 2013: It's over and done. She's not behaving very maturely and responsibly about it either.
she does not have the nerve to tell you it's over... possible there is a new guy local to her... and that's sad for you.
LDRs are very hard for everyone. ... (read in full...)
Former FWB situation--am I just too available for him?
Q. I am love with my best friend. I lived with him for a year and helped him through some tough health issues including cancer. We were friends with benefits and had a great time, playing, laughing, teasing. Then a girl came back from his past and was ...
A. 6 December 2013: Thanks for the update OP.. .continue to be strong and demand what you deserve. Do not allow yourself to be used by anyone.... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but is now ignoring me after (wrongly) accusing me of cheating!
Q. I really like this one guy, and I'll name him "N". He's the very first guy that I've ever fallen for after so many years, and he knew that I like him. So, we hooked up lots of times, had drinks together, we hung out and we became very, very close, ...
A. 6 December 2013: Ah ok I'm glad it's a car issue.
The truth is you must stop being sexual with N.
I would probably stop considering him a friend too...
possession does not mean love.
his behavior does not mean he loves you... it's not what you wa... (read in full...)
Does pubic hair go grey?
Q. General query: I've been wondering what happens to the colour of pubic hair as you age? My concern is I like to keep things neat and trimmed down there, so when it grows back every couple of weeks I give it another trim. However, what happens whe...
A. 6 December 2013: yes it goes gray....
good for you for asking my biggest fun is whispering that to my young girl friends...
there are two ways to keep it neat without the grayness (and it will go gray no matter what you do to it)
you can wax it all ... (read in full...)
I know I'm chilled and laid back, but a man called me "boring"! How can I change giving that impression?
Q. I have been single now for about 2 years. I don't really date much but I went out with a Co worker the other night, we just went to dinner. Physically I know he's attracted to me but he did mention to me that I was "boring". I right away felt a bit ...
A. 5 December 2013: I think he didn't mean boring... he used the wrong word.
he meant uncomplicated.
continue to be yourself and be true to yourself and if you are willing to see if he just made a verbal faux pas go for it.... (read in full...)
Does he want a relationship or not?
Q. I started seeing this man a few weeks ago, he is not really my type but after getting to know him, I've discovered I really like him. When he texts me, he seems very cool, calm and collected but in person, he's a bit awkward and acts nervous around ...
A. 5 December 2013: "the last time he came to mine late at night"
RED FLAG... was that the time you fooled around?
if so... yeah he may only be interested in sex
stop having sexual contact with him.
no need for a talk after just 3 dates...
and they... (read in full...)
What can I say to make things better with my fiancée, and why have I upset her so much?
Q. My fiancee is not speaking to me apart from to say she thinks we should break up. It all started the other day when we were going to a Sci Fi convention. She was ok to go with me but I could tell she was a bit bored. When we got home, I asked her if ...
A. 5 December 2013: Arggh... oh wow both replies are good... both touch on important things.
As a gamer and a sci-fi freak and a woman who doesn't mind porn I'll jump in.
A wedding is not just a con.. it's not just A wedding for the BRIDE (and hopefully the g... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but is now ignoring me after (wrongly) accusing me of cheating!
Q. I really like this one guy, and I'll name him "N". He's the very first guy that I've ever fallen for after so many years, and he knew that I like him. So, we hooked up lots of times, had drinks together, we hung out and we became very, very close, ...
A. 5 December 2013: you should say "I'm not yours don't darken my door again."
He's wrong
also why does S need HELP buying beer.. i hope you are not of legal age buying beer for minors.... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go? Reunited with ex but got no closure over a women I dated while we were broken up.
Q. Hi, every body, well my EX and I got back together year an a half ago, broke up cause after 7 years she never told me she loved me, when we got back together she said it once, I have told her many times, she says she has a wall up. But after al...
A. 5 December 2013: you have two issues going on
issue one: the ex that left that you feel no closure with...
or rather you think you haven't gotten closure with.
you have your closure... her choices now that she's not your partner are not your concern... (read in full...)
We broke up but she won't move out
Q. There's a woman who I've been in a relationship with for over a year and a half- and we've broken up in September of this year. She currently lives with me- though I want her out because we're not getting along at this point. This is primarily ...
A. 5 December 2013: I think that you will have to evict her legally.
call the property manager and find out about removing a sub-tenant from the lease
also call your local courthouse and find out whether or not you can just remove her stuff and change the locks... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but doesn't trust me to carry out his wishes!
Q. My son's father has been dating me now for 15 years. We have seen turbulent times. He left me after the birth of our son and started seeing a coworker of his. This relationship lasted about 4 years. He denied it was anything more than a casual ...
A. 5 December 2013: Not sure WHY you would want to be executor as that means you carry out his wishes. Yes there is a fee paid to you for doing it but it's a GIANT headache to administer a will.
usually the executor is someone you know that is not receiving an... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has become distant again. How do I handle it?
Q. I've been with my bf for 3 years. I don't live with him but stay over at his place on the weekends and we see each other during the week IF our schedules allow but it isn't often. I'm 31, and he's 35. We've been having issues over the last several ...
A. 5 December 2013: I just read your follow up and I think you did the right thing.
hugs to you OP
be strong.... (read in full...)
My ex overstepped the mark!
Q. Hi, my ex (we broke up 4 years ago and are now 'friends', albeit distant) came to visit me, to give me a present for my birthday. He said his last train was at 22:30. Then we got something to eat. He was taking forever finishing his glass of wine ...
A. 5 December 2013: He did it on purpose just like Honeypie said.
I personally would cut all contact with him.
I would never want a gift from an ex... NO reason for it.
I also do not see a reason to be friends with ex partners. FRIENDLY.. yes. CIVI... (read in full...)
When I jokingly told my B/f that I'm going out on a hot date, he said "the only date you'll get is that homeless guy who sleeps in the bus shelter"! Ouch!!
Q. Hi. When I called my boyfriend last night, after not seeing him nor hearing from him for a few days, he said he's very busy. I jokingly said in that case I'm going out on a hot date. To which he replied: "the only date you'll get is that homeless...
A. 5 December 2013: Cerberus I would agree with you IF
they had constant witty banter
they were a more committed couple either married or living together
he did not disappear for days on her
and she was NOT the one rowing the relationship boat.
the fact ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend died 2 years ago and I don't know how to move on
Q. He was my childhood bestfriend and we started dating when i was 14 and half years old. I am 19 now. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, and basically he was my first at everything. We were very naive. We actually started talking about where we...
A. 5 December 2013: sounds like you have survivor guilt.
have you had grief counseling and therapy for this loss?
If not that's your very first step...... (read in full...)
My guy friend acted liked a jealous boyfriend and now he won't speak to me!
Q. I had a really good guy friend who started out a perfect gentleman and he made it abundantly clear our relationship was strictly platonic, so it seemed. After a while he started to become jealous and possessive. Every time he'd hear me commenti...
A. 5 December 2013: my take:
he liked you as more than a friend and when you made it clear you did not see him as more than that he opted to go NO CONTACT to help himself heal.
HIS behavior is NOT a reflection of you or your behavior and does not reflect on ... (read in full...)
He spent a month chasing me and I finally gave in, so shouldn't he be happy?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we recently broke up. I went no contact with him for a month. During this period he tried calling, texting, social media and even showing up to places or bars that I normally go too. He even left ...
A. 5 December 2013: really from square 1?
does he know that means he has to court you, woo you, win you and WAIT FOR SEX?
yes?
good then let him court you, woo you and win you while you "date around" and meet a guy who's NOT playing stupid games.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has become distant again. How do I handle it?
Q. I've been with my bf for 3 years. I don't live with him but stay over at his place on the weekends and we see each other during the week IF our schedules allow but it isn't often. I'm 31, and he's 35. We've been having issues over the last several ...
A. 5 December 2013: at 31 and 35 after 3 years together why are you not progressing to marriage and/or living together.
see to me if you only see each other on weekends then it sounds like he's just settling into the typical routine of folks that are comfortable ... (read in full...)
I'm worried if I have a serious health problem that my fiance will be getting cheated
Q. I have a problem that I am feeling very unsure about. I am getting married soon and my life with my partner is fantastic. I love her to bits. She is beautiful inside and out, caring, loving, and I have never been happier. We have a big wedding pl...
A. 5 December 2013: OP I had this exact thing happen to me about two weeks after my now husband and I got engaged I was diagnosed with early onset degenerative disc disease.
Mine is not going to get better. Mine is manageable with exercise, keeping my weight d... (read in full...)
He expects me to be ready at a moment's notice?
Q. I'm starting to get a bit annoyed at my boyfriend but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or not. He has a habit of calling me and expecting me to be ready to see him at a moment's notice, and if I say I can't he doesn't seem to understand why not. For ...
A. 5 December 2013: I think he's over the top too.. can't he be alone for a minute by himself without a plan?
It does sound like he thinks your entire life centers around him and his needs and you sit and wait on baited breath for him to beckon and call you.
... (read in full...)
How can I help my boyfriend feel less guilty and not worry about me?
Q. Hi y'all! I have poted here numerous times regarding me leaving an abusive relationship! I am dating a really amazing guy now that I met at law school. He is on a trip with his firm in NY, and I will be facing my abuser in court tomorr...
A. 5 December 2013: All you need to do is be in touch with him the day of the court hearing.
you text that morning with "GM I'm fine, thinking of you and I'll be FINE don't worry"
then when you get to the court house you text "going into court now have to turn... (read in full...)
Why would my B/f give the woman his new phone number if she meant nothing to him?
Q. my boyfriend works for the union and travels to jobs three weeks to four weeks out at a time. almost on every job he becomes friends with a woman and gets her number. one job he was working with this woman who he told me they joked around all the ...
A. 5 December 2013: He does things that hurt you because he can't understand that they hurt you.
He may just be totally clueless how this looks... it doesn't sound like he's HIDING things from you so I'm not sure how to take it.
I tend to be VERY flirty at wor... (read in full...)
He wants it to be a date but I'm not sure!
Q. My friend has just asked me to go to his for pizza and moies and it started out as a friend thing but now he's told me he wants it to be like a date as he really likes me. I used to really quite fancy him but now I'm not sure and I don't want to ...
A. 5 December 2013: you go out and you have a date and see how it goes.
if you can talk to him about almost anything, then that's actually the best start to a good relationship.
I'd rather be with someone I can never stop talking to and WANT to be with rath... (read in full...)
Found out he cheated before we broke up
Q. I just found out that my ex-boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me the last 2 weeks of our relationship. We broke up in May, about 6 months ago, and I just found this out last night. We have been arguing/talking ever since but now that I officially know ...
A. 5 December 2013: Honeypie is right... contacting him is useless, block him and move on
and telling the girl he cheated with off... also no good and you're the one who will look bad.
trust me his friends know he did it and don't care... bro's before ho's is w... (read in full...)
He never has money for things we do together
Q. Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. I'm shy and have not dated a lot. We have a lot of issues. He hardly ever has any money due to debt following divorce, so he doesn't often take me out or buy flowers or gifts, but goes drinking. ...
A. 5 December 2013: Ah another one who's rowing the relationship boat.
You do deserve better. and yet you are getting so much out of the relationship you continue to do what you know is wrong to keep it going.
It's time for you to stop rowing this relationshi... (read in full...)
How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 5 December 2013: answering a text message timely and the first time you are asked is not spouting off deep commitment vows... its' being focused, on task and in the moment.
You are playing games. Truly. You don't think you are but you are.
IF you REALLY lik... (read in full...)
Will my feelings continue to grow for him? He's not my usual type!
Q. Hi aunts, I recently did a two week volunteer placement and fell for one of the instructors there, hes 25 and i'm 21! Anyway, when I first started there I was obviously nervous and wasn't attracted to him straight away! After about 3 day...
A. 5 December 2013: you are OVER thinking this. You have a date with him, go and see if you click personality wise.
21 and 25 is barely a gap that's worth mentioning...
Perhaps branching out from the "pretty boys" will give you a chance to start finding ... (read in full...)
When I jokingly told my B/f that I'm going out on a hot date, he said "the only date you'll get is that homeless guy who sleeps in the bus shelter"! Ouch!!
Q. Hi. When I called my boyfriend last night, after not seeing him nor hearing from him for a few days, he said he's very busy. I jokingly said in that case I'm going out on a hot date. To which he replied: "the only date you'll get is that homeless...
A. 4 December 2013: he's done with you dear... stop rowing the relationship boat and see what happens.
in other words, stop calling him. stop making plans to see him.
when he calls to see you if it's not spur of the moment and you want to make plans do so ... (read in full...)
Former FWB situation--am I just too available for him?
Q. I am love with my best friend. I lived with him for a year and helped him through some tough health issues including cancer. We were friends with benefits and had a great time, playing, laughing, teasing. Then a girl came back from his past and was ...
A. 1 October 2013: you are his backup girl.
if she was behaving and keeping him happy he would be with her.
you don't distance yourself to get him to come to you, you distance yourself to protect your heart.
he may not mean to be using you but that's pretty ... (read in full...)
I know very little about post menopause!
Q. I'm in my late forties, and recently I have been seeing a very nice woman in her mid fifties. We haven't slept together, but the relationship looks like it's heading towards that level of intimacy (I hope!). I assume that given her age she is proba...
A. 4 September 2013: well... what are you expecting a barren sahara?
I'm 53 and I'm not fully post menopausal yet....
let's see... ever done PMS with a woman? yep... hang on the mood swings are a lot like that.
My husband laughs at the covers however... i'm... (read in full...)
She posts everything we do on facebook!
Q. im with this girl that is say young enough to be my daughter. i love her very much and i even ended a long term marriage for her. but lately i have been thinking about things she put on facebook when we were dating. i told her one night when we were ...
A. 30 December 2012: Oh poor poor poor delusional OP....
your angel who has brought you alive will be the death of you sir.
OP SAID:
"she is my princess, and i dont care if i am an atm machine for her. i will give her everything she ever dreamed of. cause s... (read in full...)
She posts everything we do on facebook!
Q. im with this girl that is say young enough to be my daughter. i love her very much and i even ended a long term marriage for her. but lately i have been thinking about things she put on facebook when we were dating. i told her one night when we were ...
A. 18 December 2012: I don't think you are being paranoid. I think she's very immature and very insecure. My 26 yr old son barely posts on facebook... I find FB attention whores a bit over the top and tend to block their feeds anyway. My younger husband (he's ... (read in full...)
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