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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 18 February 2014: do not feel bad... he had expectations and he waited 2 years to lay this guilt trip on you.
He's obviously pretty broken.
I met my husband in August 2010 we lived in different states... in December 2010 we decided to try a fling
by JUNE o... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 18 February 2014: Yep reality rears it's ugly head... you are in different places in your lives.
I'm sadly seeing that with my hubby now too. My nearly 54 is planning retirement and he says "we are working for 30 more years" Umm I don't have 30 more years to... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 13 February 2014: OP it sounds like you have a good handle on this.. ENJOY It as long as it lasts and when folks STARE (and they will they used to stare at us and i"m only 13 years older than hubby) just put your arm through his lay your head on his shoulder and ... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 12 February 2014: OP I have to tell you, that while I am a big supporter of Age gap relationships, as the OLDER partner (by 13 years) to my spouse, it's hard even with our much smaller gap.
As for children, I'm nearly 54 and maybe it's different for men but at 4... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I'm freaking out over nothing or if I'm just freaking out over sex.
Q. Ok, umm, I really need some help with this issue. So me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now and were really happy together but I feel like he's pressuring me to have sex with him or to do anything sexual. Now before you start ...
A. 11 February 2014: IF you lose a boy because you won't have sex with him he was never worth having (at YOUR age)
IF you have issues from your rape and molestation then you need to be working with a counselor to resolve those issues. This is too big of an issue ... (read in full...)
Should I keep flirting or tell him I like him?
Q. I currently got to beauty school for nail tech. There I met a guy from the barber class. We talk on a daily basis, but the last couple of times we seen each other his been extra friendly, like last night he gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. ...
A. 11 February 2014: how about you ask him if he wants to have lunch together or grab some coffee after class....... (read in full...)
My ex can't cope with me seeing another guy I dated before him
Q. I dated a guy last year for two months who wasnt over his ex and we broke up. We had a great time but I could see he was still hurting over her and bowed out gracefully. Soon after I met a separated guy who was close to divorce after a 4 year s...
A. 11 February 2014: This one is easy... stop having any contact with your recent ex... block him on your phone, via email and on all social media.
if you can't see him or hear him you can't be annoyed by him.... (read in full...)
Cheating and lying partners...
Q. Ive had a girlfriend for 4 and a half years. I met her on an online chatroom , which i was initially dubious about. We started dating and i feel deeply in love with her. After around 3 months i started to have a gut feeling that she was not being ...
A. 11 February 2014: OP, I was NOT seeking a "thata girl" I was pointing out your false believe that meeting folks in chat rooms means they are cheaters....... (read in full...)
Why is my ex adding me on social media sites?
Q. Ok, so a couple months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. We only went out for about three months. He was nice and sweet I guess and I liked him a lot, but I didn't really ever get close to him. After three months I was still very shy around him. ...
A. 11 February 2014: what he's doing does not matter.
ONE date in three months does not make him a boyfriend.
he was a guy you went out with ONCE... NO BIG DEAL
do you care because you think you like him.... the issue is he has not changed and he will never be... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him! Help!
Q. My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him. I never cheated on him. When we broke up, I dated a couple people but we were broken up for about 4 months. It is so devastating because my ex best friend hangs with him and his friends and they ...
A. 11 February 2014: well he's an ex and your EX best friend is an EX so they are people no longer in your life.
block them.
ignore them
your true friends will know the truth and that's all that matters.. what folks you no longer have anything to do with ... (read in full...)
Why am I so weak and vulnerable?
Q. I am a woman going through a separation from my alcoholic husband who put me last for years... I moved out and met someone who was married.. I knew it was wrong.. I knew.. You always know when something isn't right but he wanted children with me. He ...
A. 11 February 2014: More than likely you have a co-dependent personality. that's what's driving you to try to take care of your alcoholic spouse. It takes a lot of strength for us co-dependents to walk away and get healthy but that's what you have started to do... ... (read in full...)
I don't think she's given me the full story about this man!
Q. I have been married for 7 years. Everything was great for the first 5 1/2 years then in the fall of our sixth year things changed she became distant and sex which up till then was great it suddenly stopped everytime I approached her about it she ...
A. 11 February 2014: IF your wife is around the same age you are, her lack of drive may not be due to cheating but rather due to menopausal changes. Has your wife had a complete GYN work up in the last year?
I am friends with guys at work who are not directly in ... (read in full...)
Has he maybe just plain lost interest?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Anyway we both got pretty busy during the holidays and I was busy with school so we didn't go out for a while. Eventually, we started talking again and went out about two weeks ago. He iniated. So ...
A. 11 February 2014: or maybe it's the 21st century and it's your turn to plan a date...... (read in full...)
I suspect that my sister's problems are due to alcohol but don't know how to confirm this
Q. How do you tell if someone is an alcoholic? I've looked up a few websites, but they all have questions to diagnose yourself as having a problem with alcohol, not another person. This may seem like a silly question, but my sister lives on the oth...
A. 11 February 2014: “Signs include, walking around with a flask of alcohol. Often times they hide their drink in juice or soda bottle when they leave the house. You can smell it on them, they always smell of alcohol. They drink excessively everyday. Oftentimes it is ... (read in full...)
Am I bored with him or intimacy or both?
Q. So, I've been with my boyfriend for two years and for the past few months i've noticed i'm never "in the mood", we used to be sooo intimate at the start of our relationship and it was great and now the thought actually makes me feel negative. We've ...
A. 11 February 2014: if you are in pain during sex no wonder you are put off by it.
first thing to do is get a complete medical work up with the gyn and make sure everything is ok... once you have a clean bill of health (and discuss the pain issues as well)
if ... (read in full...)
My friend is making my anxiety flare daily!
Q. Help! Backstory, I have social anxiety disorder and recovering from a 2 year depression. I am making progress with my therapist but it hasn't been easy. I wear my heart on my sleeve and friends in the past have taken advantage of this, which has ...
A. 11 February 2014: what you do is take care of yourself.
since being busy is interspersed with doing things with her you have effectively taught her that badgering you to do stuff works... that eventually you give in.
A FRIEND supports you she does not add to ... (read in full...)
How can I support my boyfriend's family at this time?
Q. So my boyfriends eldest sister is in hospital and it's quite serious, I've told my boyfriend I'm here if he needs anything but I feel like I'm being useless at the minute and I could be doing much more to support and be there for him and his family. ...
A. 11 February 2014: sometimes you can just listen.
but to help out at home you can
clean the house if they don't have maid service
cook and provide meals if they are staying at the hospital all the time and not eating properly.
run errands for the... (read in full...)
Is it unusual for a man of his age to take lots of photographs of himself?
Q. This might seem like an odd question, but it's in the context of a lot of other behaviour that I won't go into. Is it unusual for a man in his 30's or 40's to take lots of photographs of himself - I mean lots of him doing activities but a...
A. 11 February 2014: it doesn't raise any red flags for me at all...
you say "as if he's leading a full cultured interesting life"
are you implying he's not? are you implying he makes this stuff up and is out of touch with reality as in mentally ill?
my... (read in full...)
Is he joking and messing about? I don't understand what he wants!
Q. I joined a website about 7 months ago (not a dating website, just penpals) and I met this guy on the site and we hit it off as friends straight away. He's in the military and I'm studying at university. While we was on tour in Afghan, we used ...
A. 11 February 2014: EVEN if HE is serious, it's all bogus... you have not met.
SLOW HIS ROLL... tell him... "slow down, we are just penpals ONLINE and until we MEET and spend TIME together in real life, it's all just fantasy"
... (read in full...)
Very curious about my LDR girlfriend's handsome friend. How do I handle myself?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been good friends for years. We began hanging out and eventually dating this summer before I moved to the east coast for grad school. We see one another on breaks. I love her and we have great communication. She joined a ...
A. 11 February 2014: You can ask about him... but don't accuse her. Probably nothing going on.
Just because a guy is good looking does not mean he's a catch. Personality and intelligence are also critical.
Being jealous of someone means you are insecure. it doe... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 11 February 2014: just be cautious and guard your heart...
you are an adult
he is an adult
what others think is not important.
... (read in full...)
Does he like me or are we nothing to each other?
Q. Hey guys so there is this guy and he's 9 years older than me anyway he's is constantly hot and cold like it's okay for him to say he likes me a lot and misses me but if I say it back he's like stop rushing into things like we've known each other a ...
A. 11 February 2014: RUN! I agree with Cindy...all he's hoping is to stay at yours for your first date and get laid and then be gone.
This is not a function of his AGE but rather his immaturity.
He is no prize.... (read in full...)
You wouldn't leave if you were in love, right?
Q. Idk if he loves me. Lots of points please listen and please help me. First during are 15 years he left me 3 times says he had good reasons now i dont think guys people leave the ones they love unless they dont love them. In serious cases like abuse ...
A. 11 February 2014: YOU FEEL worthless... YOU ARE NOT worthless.
YOU are an important person worthy of love.
The pain of depression is VERY real. Anxiety about your situation adds to that pain. and the knowledge that you should leave a bad relationship but... (read in full...)
Has anyone had experience of a lump in the breast and found out later that it was not cancer? Just need some calming and reassuring please?
Q. Just wanted to say first, I have already been to the doctor and I am having tests run. Has anyone had any experience with finding a lump or something abnormal in their breast? I have found a lump recently and I am waiting on some test results ...
A. 11 February 2014: you have friends here... please keep us updated.... (read in full...)
Is porn really to blame for the relationship problems many women attribute to it?
Q. Spoiler alert. Some may find this misogynistic and or demeaning to women!!! This is the Chicken/Egg paradox. When I was a kid most wives were stay at home moms, were financially dependent on their husbands and were either submissive by choice...
A. 10 February 2014: I'm older than the OP
MY GRANDMOTHER ran a home and had a full time job.
My other grandmother was also employed
My mother was a SAHM at first but went back to school and work because she wanted to. NEVER because we needed her to.
Folks w... (read in full...)
Horrible relationship with my mother, what should I do?
Q. Hi maybe somebody here can help. I have a very serious and personal problem. Through out my whole life my mother unfortunately has been into drugs and alcohol, it's pretty bad. With all due respect, my mother is not really a good person because o...
A. 10 February 2014: I am married to an addict/alcoholic. THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN do but take care of yourself till SHE is ready to get help.
I suggest www.alanon.org for a way to find support groups. You can learn why you need to be apart from your mom, why bei... (read in full...)
Can dating a guy you don't find attractive turn out well?
Q. I need to know this answer, please don't judge me as I am already aware that I am shallow and I'm sure i'm not the only person who does this. But I don't want to make a big mistake so please advice!! I met this guy, he's almost too perfect in p...
A. 10 February 2014: At 18-21, looks are often very important.
The problem is that by 30, your looks will change and by 35-40 they start to fade and age... sags, weight gain, bad backs, graying hair... all will happen when you are stunning or not...
yes good ge... (read in full...)
My friend is in a relationship after just three dates with this guy! Is that too quick?
Q. My friend has been on three dates with this guy and already they are in a relationship! Am I the only one who thinks that is very quick? She said that they didn't see any need dragging it out when they know they'd want to be together and like each ...
A. 10 February 2014: I don't really think so... when I was dating I had the three date rule.
IF by three dates I wasn't feeling it there was no fourth date, why bother.
But if after three dates I was feeling it, then for sure I was going for it if he was interes... (read in full...)
I'm insecure and worried that someone will steal my B/f away and I'm perpetually worried about my relationship and assume the worst
Q. Why do I worry so much in my relationship? It's like I always think the worst and I don't know why I do this. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months. There are some times where he will act different and seem off or become a little distant a...
A. 10 February 2014: Since HE has never given you a reason NOT to trust him, this is totally a mark of YOUR insecurity.
If you let this insecurity show it will ruin the relationship.
So he's good looking and he flirts... the fact that he's YOUR boyfriend means... (read in full...)
My partner has moved away and his behaviour has changed. What is going on?
Q. Help I feel so lonely. .. my partner has moved away only 2 hours away but I've not seen him for over coming up to 3 weeks and that was only for a day... I've a little girl but shes not his but still feel lonely with out him here. I sometime...
A. 10 February 2014: Let’s start with the fact that NOT texting him just says you are NOT texting. He does not know WHY you are not texting. IF you are hurt that he ignored your b-day YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM. How else can he know?
Did he move for work or school? ... (read in full...)
Cheating and lying partners...
Q. Ive had a girlfriend for 4 and a half years. I met her on an online chatroom , which i was initially dubious about. We started dating and i feel deeply in love with her. After around 3 months i started to have a gut feeling that she was not being ...
A. 10 February 2014: FWIW, I have met folks in chat rooms. My last husband for one... and while HE was a liar and a cheater I never have lied or cheated on a partner in my life.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has disappeared and I am very worried.
Q. Hello, I am having a difficult time and I need some advice. First, I have been in a relationship with someone and it hasn't been long, only two months. We got along great and talked all the time for hours. We have always been able to work out any ...
A. 10 February 2014: WOW. SMDH! OP you only hear what you want and see what you want. YOU don’t care about the truth you only want folks to VALIDATE your feelings. I was NOT being sarcastic.
Have you looked up DABDA and E. Kubler-Ross?
Your original post sa... (read in full...)
I cant stop thinking about the girl at work and I'm totally in love with her....but she has a boyfriend!!
Q. I'm absolutely smitten with this girl at work but she has a boyfriend. I can't get her out of my head no matter how much I try. I'm 25 and she's 22. We work for a small machinery company in the offices. She is top to toe gorgeous, funny, bright, ...
A. 10 February 2014: Kudos to you for realizing you are out of control and obsessed and that you telling her will not change her relationship with her boyfriend but will wreck the friendship/working relationship you have with her.
Unless you are a stone wall she KNO... (read in full...)
How do I come out as bisexual to my parents?
Q. I am bisexual. Ive known this fact since like age six. It is NOT a phase . I really like girls and I really like guys. I don't like keeping this from my parents, it just feels awkward. They are straight lgtb allies, so its nnot like they will be ...
A. 10 February 2014: I cannot wait till the day no one has to "come out" that it will just be day to day living.
would you "come out" as straight?
no...
so since your parents are LGBTQ supporters, it's really a no brainer...
do you discuss bo... (read in full...)
I sent an embarassing drunk text to my ex. Should I apologize or leave it?
Q. My ex broke up with me 5 months ago. We sometimes see each other in mutual events. We are friendly with each other at the events. Sometimes we talk to each other, sometimes we don't I drunk texted him two times before. The first time was on my b...
A. 10 February 2014: Agreed... let it go
delete his number.
also as the spouse of an alcoholic I strongly suggest that you consider your drinking. Drunk texting of ex-partners is a sign that your drinking may be out of control or heading in that direction.
... (read in full...)
I am not getting what I need emotionally from my girlfriend. We have already spoken about it; what else can I do?
Q. Hello to all. I'll jump right to the question. I'm gay and have been with my girlfriend just over a year. I love her with my whole heart, but lately, I've not been getting what I need emotionally, and it's causing me some issues. I'm pretty l...
A. 10 February 2014: It sounds like you have expressed yourself well. I get how you are feeling.
I often say to my hubby "I miss my husband" when we are sitting on the couch together. He knows that's code for "we aren't connected emotionally right now"
sadly r... (read in full...)
Should I work it out with the father?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and we now have two children together. Our emotional situation has been constantly insecure. I learned early on he had been lying to me about a porn addiction and we tried hard to work through ...
A. 10 February 2014: I left my first husband when the kids were 3 and 5.. the younger son at nearly 28 has NO memories of us being a family and he grew up just fine and stable... went to college, got a degree, holds down a fine job and has a lovely gf....
the older so... (read in full...)
Flirting tips anyone?
Q. What are some helpful successful flirting tips for a shy girl without coming off as stupid, desperate, or anything else bad?... I have never I dated. I tend to say dumb thinks whenever around a guy I like. I've been asked by the wrong guys. I ne...
A. 10 February 2014: I do not believe that flirting can be learned. Either you are a flirt or you are not.
But you can learn to be more receptive to others...
Practice it with children... small babies like to smile at others... smile and wave at them... make... (read in full...)
I'm wondering how or where a 47 year old women can find suitable men to date?
Q. Hi, I'm wondering how or where a 47 year old women can find suitable men to date? I've been alone for over 16 years - no dates, no sex, no prospects. When my children were younger, I used to go to the "weekend daddy" places -Chucky Cheese, ...
A. 10 February 2014: GAMING! do you like board games?
can you tolerate SMART GEEKY guys? Are you willing to try for a used fixer upper?
Try a board gaming con (if you PM me your location I can find local clubs for you)
I met my husband playing bo... (read in full...)
Crush on a guy at work, but he says he isn't gay
Q. I've been single for the past 4 years and I've been very happy single. However, I've been having these feelings for another guy at work. I came out as gay just before we started working together so he knows I'm gay. I think about him all day, every ...
A. 10 February 2014: What would you do if a woman came up to you (not knowing you were gay) and let you know she was interested in dating you?
YOU can tell him how you feel but he insists he's not gay so either he's deeply closeted (even to himself possibly) or... (read in full...)
Can this sexless marriage be repaired?
Q. I have been married for 15 years and most of it has been sexless. My husband works very hard and travels often. I have approached the subject often and things have not changed. It is a little ironic. Because it is usually the husband who is ...
A. 10 February 2014: You are not alone. My BFF has been married 20 years to a guy and she complains of no sex life.
I am a newlywed of just over a year and it's NO SEX...
it's VERY common for women of "our" age (I'm a bit older) to have a higher drive than th... (read in full...)
You wouldn't leave if you were in love, right?
Q. Idk if he loves me. Lots of points please listen and please help me. First during are 15 years he left me 3 times says he had good reasons now i dont think guys people leave the ones they love unless they dont love them. In serious cases like abuse ...
A. 10 February 2014: I love my husband and he's an addict and I stay for all the wrong reasons. Staying because you are in love sucks to be honest. I wish i didn't love him... it would make it easier to leave. It does not mean if his behavior is bad I do not hold him ... (read in full...)
Will a fwb relationship help me gain confidence?
Q. Hi Cupids, I was wondering if you could help me out. This is the age old Friends with Benefits question. I'm 18 and me and this lad like each other but neither willing to commit to a relationship. We've hung out and messed around a bit and ...
A. 10 February 2014: I think that FWB will make you feel WORSE about yourself and your confidence... after all all that means is you are good enough to fuck but not good enough to date... is that what you want?
the answer is "No I'm sorry I respect myself t... (read in full...)
Should I let my husband's co-worker know I know she likes him?
Q. About 2 weeks ago I went to my husbands office holiday party. It was a fun night. However, it was also the first time I met my husbands new secretary. They both started at about the same time in new positions so I understand the way they must ...
A. 10 February 2014: I would NOT call a co-worker of your husband's nor would I confront the woman.
I would instead, point out to your hubby you are WELL AWARE of how SHE feels. more than likely he's totally devoted to you and clueless about how she feels. I have s... (read in full...)
Has anyone had experience of a lump in the breast and found out later that it was not cancer? Just need some calming and reassuring please?
Q. Just wanted to say first, I have already been to the doctor and I am having tests run. Has anyone had any experience with finding a lump or something abnormal in their breast? I have found a lump recently and I am waiting on some test results ...
A. 10 February 2014: MOST women who find lumps in their breasts do not have cancer.
It could be a fibroid or a cyst or a clogged duct.
it could be hormonal due to cycling...
and thanks for the reminder it's time for me to schedule my mammogram... ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has disappeared and I am very worried.
Q. Hello, I am having a difficult time and I need some advice. First, I have been in a relationship with someone and it hasn't been long, only two months. We got along great and talked all the time for hours. We have always been able to work out any ...
A. 10 February 2014: OP you said “And to the anonymous reader he was the one who said we were boyfriend and girlfriend he told me on the text that it was official”
SO BECAUSE HE SAID something it’s official and true? Seriously. Ok “I am the QUEEN OF ENGLAND”... (read in full...)
I suspect that my sister's problems are due to alcohol but don't know how to confirm this
Q. How do you tell if someone is an alcoholic? I've looked up a few websites, but they all have questions to diagnose yourself as having a problem with alcohol, not another person. This may seem like a silly question, but my sister lives on the oth...
A. 9 February 2014: From a distance it's going to be hard. He behavior does not strike me as alcoholic in my experience. I am married to an active alcoholic.
For what it's worth, I've seen him go days without having a drink. He is not drunk all the time or every... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has disappeared and I am very worried.
Q. Hello, I am having a difficult time and I need some advice. First, I have been in a relationship with someone and it hasn't been long, only two months. We got along great and talked all the time for hours. We have always been able to work out any ...
A. 9 February 2014: Late the the "party" but I've read everything and I feel your pain OP....
Sadly with meeting folks online it's very RARE that reality meets your expectations. While it's FINE To meet online unless it RAPIDLY progresses to meeting in real life, I ... (read in full...)
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