Has he maybe just plain lost interest?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Anyway we both got pretty busy during the holidays and I was busy with school so we didn't go out for a while. Eventually, we started talking again and went out about two weeks ago. He iniated. So after that night, i invited him out with a group of our friends. That night he.was coming on very strong, saying I could live with him (I have to move soon, and no it's not creepy we've known each other for a long time). I said we'll see because i like him but we are not in a relationship and im just not sure yet. He also asked me out for next week and I said yes. Well, he texted me before the day we had made plans to go out and then the day came and I had heard nothing from him. A few days after he came to visit me at work like he has done in the past, but he hasnt't asked me out since. That was a few days ago. I know I could ask him but since he backed off, I don't want to push it. I thought it was pretty obvious we liked each other. Also, I feel he really cares for me. I'm pretty sure I've made it clear i would like to continue dating him. Maybe it has to do with me moving, but it's around 45 min away, and I have to come back here twice a week for school so, to me, it doesnt't seem like a big deal, but maybe to him it does. Has he maybe just plain lost interest?

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