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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 5 March 2014: CindyCares (as usual) is 100% correct.
Practice makes perfect and you can easily practice on girls that are "above your standard" WOW... so many young women complain they can't get a date because guys won't approach them.
THIS GIRL tha... (read in full...)
A man I dated returned to his ex without telling me but I can't stop thinking about him
Q. Hi i met this man last year i really liked him but he went back to his ex without getting in touch to tell me. i gave him another chance in january we met up both drunk and ended up having sex. i know this was a mistake now i haven't heard from him...
A. 4 March 2014: Unfriend him, block him, delete his number from your phone and block him if possible.
IGNORING HIM 100% will help you move on.
go on your date but pretend you are a 15 yr old virgin... keep it relaxed.. no talk of sex or prior partners... (read in full...)
Will he cheat on me?
Q. please need advice ok I have a best friend and at the time he is with some one else so we got together and then it happened. well he still with her and wanting to leave her for me. is this going to happen to me? I am worried. I don't want to lose ...
A. 4 March 2014: If his MO is to go from one woman to another before ending the prior relationship, then it's more than likely he will do the same thing to you....
he's with her,
he got with you
now he wants to leave her to be with you... so he is alread... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 4 March 2014: “Well I had a Caucasian lady in my evening class asked if our papers were due which I thought initially was a bit odd because the professor mention it several times the due date.
But I see this Indian girl in there who catches my attention. Mayb... (read in full...)
After the drunken argument we had I'm afraid my partner thinks I haven't really changed!
Q. hi my girlfriend and i have split for 2 months now after a drunken argument day after boxing day.we had been together for 12 months previous,prior to that we had a 2.5yr seperation due to myself committing assault on my partner after she had ...
A. 4 March 2014: Fool me once shame on you
fool me twice shame on me
so you had a relationship with this young lady and it ended due to violence which probably involved some drinking....
now she lovingly gave you a second chance and you two had a fig... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a passive aggressive sister?
Q. I have a younger sister whom I am generally very close with. However, she has a habit of having these mood changes which really upset me. What happens is that I will ask her not to do something, like eat food I am saving for a party, and she w...
A. 4 March 2014: Well mood swings are not passive aggressive, neither is saying "too bad" and doing something after you have asked her not to....
I see no indication of passive aggressive behavior at all.
I'm not saying she's not being mean... just tha... (read in full...)
I am so low on my fiance's priority list we havent met for a month!
Q. Dead Cupid, I'm in a long term relationship. Engaged last year, will be married next year. I don't know if it's a phase? But I'm starting to get sick and tired of my fiancé's attitude. He always pioritise his friends and will always second me...
A. 4 March 2014: It's not normal.
If you haven't seen him for a month and you are not missing him, this does not seem to me to be a normal healthy relationship.
It will only get worse IF you get married. You will grow more angry and resentful and he wil... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my close-minded mother?
Q. Hello, this may seem like a pathetic question...but how do I deal with my traditional close-minded mother? I am 20 and will be turning 21 soon, but I still live with my parents. I want to get an eyebrow piercing (I have wanted one since highscho...
A. 4 March 2014: Dear OP,
you have been given some great advice. Your update says your parents are divorced. That reminds me of my son's story.
I'm rather non-traditional. I have 3 tattoos and while I only wear two earrings per ear I have 4 holes in each... (read in full...)
He said he's met someone else ...
Q. I'm sorry. I cant write all the details of this at the moment as I am so upset.My boyfriend has told me that he has met someone else. I cant understand it. He still seemed like he was in love with me when I last saw him on Tuesday. He went to his ...
A. 4 March 2014: He taunts you with cruel “jokes” to make you hurt and TEST your feelings for him and you are ok with this?
You say you love him so much… tell me all the current things going on that make you love him so much. I think you are in love with wha... (read in full...)
I like him but he's seven years older and I'm worried my family will freak out
Q. So lately I've been talking to a guy I really like. The only thing is that I'm 20 and he's 27. I'm worried that my family will freak over the age difference if we do ever become boyfriend and girlfriend. Is the age difference too far apart? What ...
A. 4 March 2014: 7 years is not much when you are 27 and 34
at 20 and 27 it might seem overwhelming at times.
I'm 13 yrs older than my spouse and while we are much older than you guys, occasionally it's still an issue for me.
I find that at least fo... (read in full...)
He invited me, so why shouldn't he pay?
Q. Dear ok Cupid, I have male friend who I haven't talked to for over a year, asked if I would accompany he and his family to Disney Land n July 2014. He told me that all I have to pay for is my airfare. If this was an invite, don't u think he...
A. 3 March 2014: It costs nearly 100 per day to go to disney land.
hotels are not cheap either.
I think it's a very generous offer and if you want to go you should say yes and be very grateful. if you can't afford it be very grateful and explain that the... (read in full...)
My fab new BF ticks all my boxes but won't give oral
Q. Dear all Please advise. I ve been dating this fabulous guy for around a monthnow. He is kind, intelligent, reliable, handsome and has loads of otger great qualities. We get on very well and I could not ask for more except he doesn' t do oral whi...
A. 28 February 2014: OH why did you send a message to end it. NOT cool. IMPORTANT things are never to be done as text message.
at bare minimum you needed to call him although I would have preferred a face to face visit.
he doesn't want to end it because h... (read in full...)
I recently read my old diary and now the urge to contact my first crush is driving me nuts!
Q. I discovered a diary recently from my high school days . Reading through it I became overcome with nostalgia. I had described my first crush in detail as teenagers do, and of course, with social media these days I looked him up online. I found that ...
A. 28 February 2014: I just recently got back in touch with a friend (same sex) that I had not seen in nearly 20 years... isn't social media grand...
you aren't looking to rekindle anything just touch base.
I think you should go for it. ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 28 February 2014: Do you go shopping? do you ever see a lovely young lady in a shopping line and say "i wish I could date her?"
that's where you start... "lousy weather we're having" works great in the USA now.... it's lousy everywhere... then a smile...... (read in full...)
Can I ever really trust her after I found out about her threesome?
Q. 6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can't get ...
A. 28 February 2014: Details may make it worse... are you willing to risk that?
IF you are going to stay with her (and i'm fine with that) then you have to desensitize yourself to these thoughts.
put a THIN snug rubber band on your wrist. EVERY TIME you think... (read in full...)
My fab new BF ticks all my boxes but won't give oral
Q. Dear all Please advise. I ve been dating this fabulous guy for around a monthnow. He is kind, intelligent, reliable, handsome and has loads of otger great qualities. We get on very well and I could not ask for more except he doesn' t do oral whi...
A. 28 February 2014: I am with a man now who does not, will not, cannot give me oral. He is overly sensitive to smells and tastes and it's something he just will not do. I knew this when we got together.... sadly I can tell you the exact time I last had oral and I ... (read in full...)
Lying LDR boyfriend is having dreams of me cheating?
Q. I recently found out that my LDR boyfriend have been pretending to be single. The girl he was talking to (I don't know her) messaged me out of the blue and sent me screenshots of texts where my boyfriend is claiming to be single and asking her out. ...
A. 28 February 2014: Yep I'm going to bet on he cheated on you too.
And even if he didn't, he's texted her and he's lied to you and he is not to be trusted. YOU don't trust him any more... you will never be able to fix that.
LDRS work for older folks with mon... (read in full...)
Why is it a big deal for my boyfriend and I to be 7 years apart?
Q. im 14 turning 15 and my lover has just turned 23 and we are pretty far apart in age but does it really matter? we do not have a sexual relationship and nobody except a close adult friend of mine knows, I feel the urge to tell my mother that im in ...
A. 28 February 2014: Dear Young OP.
I know at 14 going on 15 you think you are mature enough to handle this. I know at 14 I would have thought so and I would have been excited and flattered by the attentions of an adult. Sadly you can’t see that any man who at 2... (read in full...)
Do I need the hurt again? He's trying to get back with me. I still care for him. But I keep on rejecting him
Q. It's so easy to say dont answer his calls or respond to his texts. I really love him and I want it to work but i know that he has to change. Someone said that he needs sex and that is why he is trying to talk to me again but i am pretty sure he w...
A. 27 February 2014: OP thank you for the follow up…
HOW do you expect him to learn that you can’t play with someone’s emotions? What do you think he will learn from you being in touch with him? He won’t learn anything. Sociopaths and Narcissists do not lear... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date a separated person?
Q. I'm divorced and met a woman through friends who's married but living separated lives with her husband for financial reasons. Long story short, she invited me out for a date. Is it wrong to date a separated woman who's husband is already out there ...
A. 27 February 2014: oh wait they are still living together?
RUN Forest RUN!... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date a separated person?
Q. I'm divorced and met a woman through friends who's married but living separated lives with her husband for financial reasons. Long story short, she invited me out for a date. Is it wrong to date a separated woman who's husband is already out there ...
A. 27 February 2014: IN MY STATE there are two legal statuses... MARRIED or SINGLE/divorced. My state does NOT have legal separation.
therefore when I was leaving my first husband I was advised by my attorney to NOT date until the divorce was final as that gives my... (read in full...)
Should I tell my FWB I'm talking to someone else?
Q. Should I tell my FWB that I'm taking to somebody else? It's not sexual with the other person, but it is something I see turning into a relationship with....
A. 27 February 2014: you don't owe the FWB anything but if they were a FRIEND wb vs a F wBENEFITS, it would be that you wanted to tell your friend. IF you don't want to tell the guy you are sleeping with about your new potential boyfriend, then maybe he's not a friend ... (read in full...)
I resent that his ex-wife expects me and my family to run errands for her!
Q. I am frustrated and unhappy and thinking of leaving my 3 year relationship. My live in divorced boyfriend's ex wife seems to think it is appropriate for everyone to run errands for her and thir child. She instructs him to tell me to pick up art ...
A. 27 February 2014: This is not about the ex wife. this about your boyfriend being a wuss. He won't tell her NO...
so all you have to do is say NO to him. YOU say NO your family says NO then he can say to her "NO I won't ask because they won't do it.... (read in full...)
Is it silly to date an ex? Has he really grown up and sorted himself out?
Q. My ex has changed so much in the past few months, it's like he is a different person. I can't stop thinking about him and now he wants to get back together but I'm still hurting from the way he acted when we were together. So, we were together fo...
A. 27 February 2014: I doubt he's changed that much... but to satisfy yourself you could spend some time with him.
DO NOT sleep with him... let him woo you like it was a first time meeting... get to know him all over again...
and that's not weeks we are talking... (read in full...)
I want this new relationship to go well. How do I make it work? Because I push people away to keep them at an emotional distance from me
Q. in my group of friends i always tend to be the one who comes up with the funny and clever comebacks insults and jokes mostly because i try to keep people at an emotional distance from me while still being "part of the group" (im actually very nice ...
A. 27 February 2014: just relax and be yourself... time will tell if she understands that a public persona is very different from a private one...
for example, my husband comes across as the most cock-sure, arrogant, self-assured person to most folks. I'm only one... (read in full...)
Partner hooked by a particular type of porn... and has acted on it. How secure is our future?
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend of a year has an addiction to SHEMALE porn. He has been watching now for about 10 years and he is about to be 30. Not only does he masturbate to it on a frequent basis, but he has actually acted on it a few years ...
A. 27 February 2014: I agree let him know how you feel.
HE TRIED IT ONCE and clearly he did not like it enough to do it again... that alone is telling.
sometimes a fantasy is better as a fantasy.
FWIW I am a former swinger. If it's a sex act, I've done mos... (read in full...)
I feel intimidated and insecure due to boyfriend's female friends.
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for just under two years and we had a distant relationship for the majority of that time, although we lived within half an hour of each other for about six months. Just over a week ago we moved into a flat together. I ...
A. 27 February 2014: Honeypie has it right.
Hold your friends close and you "enemies" closer.
work hard to make these women YOU feel threatened by YOUR FRIENDS too.
but yeah a month long trip with a female friend without your gf is not acceptable in my ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has said "I'm a keeper" multiple times out of no where?
Q. So this past week my bf has said I was a keeper multiple times. Last night he tells me his boss wanted to meet me because he was telling her about me, he said "she's a keeper". Within the past 2 days he's said it 3 times. what does that really mean ...
A. 27 February 2014: HUGE PRAISE... it's actually my nickname for my spouse and he has a bracelet that has KEEPER engraved on it that i got him as a gift.
A KEEPER is someone you plan to spend a lot of time with it means you want to KEEP them as your partner.
... (read in full...)
Do I need the hurt again? He's trying to get back with me. I still care for him. But I keep on rejecting him
Q. It's so easy to say dont answer his calls or respond to his texts. I really love him and I want it to work but i know that he has to change. Someone said that he needs sex and that is why he is trying to talk to me again but i am pretty sure he w...
A. 27 February 2014: You are right, it is easy for us who are not currently in pain to say “don’t call or respond to his texts” ; but we say it because we have been there done that and know from the past how painful it is… and the longer you drag it out the harder it ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my Bf's extreme aversion towards contact with me when I have my period? His actions are hurtful.
Q. my boyfriend is good to talk to, not a great listener, but he is very passionate when he cares, is helpful, understanding and not egotistic and is generous. but when it comes to me been on my period, it is a whole different box of cookies, i cannot...
A. 27 February 2014: Or is he an orthodox jew who is rebelling against his parents.
Orthodox Jews have a huge prohibition against any contact with a female who is "spiritually unclean" due to her menses and the subsequent 5 days after before she goes to the ritual b... (read in full...)
Banned at work! Romantic relationships, what to do?
Q. I work at a place where romantic relationships between employees are banned. I know this woman there, we've both been there for many many years, been friends all this time. I know she has a romantic attraction for me and I am attracted as well. We ...
A. 27 February 2014: Keep it under wraps... perhaps one of you can retire early or find a new job?
i say this only due to your age... 4 years is not long
... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my son's ex-mother-in-law but our relationship is a secret. What should I do?
Q. im in love with my sons ex mother in law and she loves me but she says that we will never be able to get together because of her kids and our mutual grand son. our relationship is secret from everyone. i help her with money. we kiss but i ask her i ...
A. 27 February 2014: totally agree to STOP GIVING HER MONEY.
and listen to the song I am my own grand pa
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I%27m_My_Own_Grandpa
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She's upset because I didn't change my FB status, am I in the wrong here?
Q. Thanks for reading - not sure who to ask so going to ask you lovely people :) I have been on a few dates with a girl - i am 26 and she is 24 and she is very pretty and when we had our first date, we hit it off. She gave me butterflies and ...
A. 27 February 2014: Agreed... if after ONLY two weeks she's blowing up about a silly thing like FACEBOOK... this is not indicative of a mature woman.
facebook is not real life and if a woman can't figure that out and needs to be validated by facebook status, she's no... (read in full...)
His drinking is affecting the way I see this relationship
Q. Hi, I've been dating a guy for 6 months, but have known him for a year through a work contact. Since we have become official I have noticed when I call on week day evenings (we only meet at weekends due to distance) he isounds drunk at least 3 times ...
A. 27 February 2014: My husband is an alcoholic. If I had KNOWN how it was going to be when we married (about 18 months now) I never would have continued with him.
ALL the signs are there for you now... drunk calls, even when he's nice are not easy. and even t... (read in full...)
Do guys like being touched in the back of their neck?
Q. guys do you like it when a girl runs her fingers through your hair above your neck /touch the back of your neck too? ...
A. 27 February 2014: my husband hates it... he can't stand being touched like that.
so the proper response is SOME DO like it.. SOME DON'T...
every man is different and it will really depend on the guy.... (read in full...)
Can it be stress or is he getting bored with me?
Q. Is it me being insecure or is he falling out of love? My boyfriend of a year and a half goes through phases where he telling me he loves me everyday and then phases where he doesn't. At the moment he doesn't really say it a lot. He says it if I say...
A. 27 February 2014: It sounds to me like you two are settling into day to day living and he is stressing over money and work.
I don't think he's getting bored. MOST men (and some women) can only handle ONE thing at at time... they don't multi task well (some d... (read in full...)
Why are there times when I'm not attracted to him?
Q. Why do I go through phases of finding him very attractive, and then not so much so? I love my boyfriend, and generally speaking he is a good looking guy. I find myself wildly attracted to him sometimes...and then other times...not really. I know i...
A. 27 February 2014: When you say you don't find yourself attracted to him what do you mean?
do you mean that there are times you don't want to have sex?
that's normal. it's normal after a relationship settles down to have days or sadly even weeks, where DAI... (read in full...)
I need help with how to relate to my LDR, please? I don't know what to do to make things better.
Q. I need urgent help. So this guy I met a year ago or a little more (in person) have recently started talking. We share a lot of things in common, we're both creative and both of us are in college although I'm in a gap year staying with my family a...
A. 27 February 2014: I really think you are NOT cut out for an LDR... you can't and shouldn't have constant contact... and if you blow up at him after no contact for 3 days... well that's over reacting.
You can't make him love you. You can't be something you are ... (read in full...)
His home smells. Am I being petty. How can I solve this problem ?
Q. I am in an LDR and every other weekend I see my bf. I love him very much but I hate his house. I know it sounds very shallow but it is a very very old house. The bathroom has mould growing in it and green bathtub...toilet etc. The whole house ...
A. 27 February 2014: Mold is really dangerous. Especially black mold. If the house is so old that he can't manage to get it really clean then the bathroom may need to be refurbed.
The easier thing to do would be have him pay for the sports package on your cabl... (read in full...)
I am overreacting or is he purposefully putting me down?
Q. I am older than my husband. He is from a different country and keeps calling me old woman. This has been going on for a while now and I find it very irritatating and annoying and when someone persists in keep saying and doing something that you ...
A. 27 February 2014: Have you told him that being called "old woman" bothers you?
If you have told him and he still persists, it may be his pet name for you and he may not realize how much it bothers you.
I'm much older than my husband (13 yrs) and I get why i... (read in full...)
I don't think I love him as much as he loves me, what do I do?
Q. Hey its me again.I've been hurt by guys from time I started having boyfriend Which is at 19 .I have never had a real boyfriend before until now,I'm someone who likes older guys but this one I have now is only 20 and doesn't seem to be what I want. I ...
A. 27 February 2014: I don't agree with your mother in terms of loving someone who loves you IF you don't feel that way about them.
and while in some cases a person loving you leads you to love them (happened with me in some ways) I do not think that after 6 mont... (read in full...)
If she can't take money from me in this crunch, what's the point of me being her fiance and see her struggling?
Q. I have been in love with American woman for two years. I met her when I was visiting US for business purpose. She also came to Pakistan and I also go here and there. I'm 33 , she is 28. We were engaged now and she has ring from my side and I have ...
A. 26 February 2014: I'm with Tisha and CindyCares on this.
1. I worry you are being scammed unless you have a date set and all the plans for this marriage are in place... If it's an "engagement" with no set date or end in site (marriage) then I 'd not consider mys... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 21 February 2014: Just one more nail in your "logic" coffin
Men outnumber women. http://www.geohive.com/earth/pop_gender.aspx
and if that's too hard to grasp:
http://unstats.un.org/unsd/Demographic/products/indwm/
has breakdowns of:
ratio
size
d... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 20 February 2014: OP… we are trying to help you but you only want us to help you the way you are comfortable being helped. This is not going to work for us. And it won’t help you. Part of becoming an adult is learning to step outside your comfort zone.
Your ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 19 February 2014: Anything is possible for anyone but the problem is you think that going to an escort will solve your problem when all it will do is make it worse.
Just experiencing sex will not fix your internal issues and may actually make it worse.
Se... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 18 February 2014: OP you are your own worst enemy.
you say you can say hello to random guys and make friends.
what makes women so magical that you can't do the same to them? Have you ever considered just being FRIENDS with a girl? why treat them differently... (read in full...)
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