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writes:Ok, so a couple months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. We only went out for about three months. He was nice and sweet I guess and I liked him a lot, but I didn't really ever get close to him. After three months I was still very shy around him. Anyways, he broke up with me because I got mad that he wouldn't text back or hang out with me. We went out for nearly three months and only went on one date. Also, he told me he wasn't going to go to prom. Hr never even asked me if I wanted to go, just told me he wasn't going and I could go alone if I wanted. So I was fine when we broke up because I obviously wasn't getting what I wanted out of the relationship. Anyways, recently he added me on instagram and has been liking all my pics on there and Facebook, even commenting on a few. Along with my statuses. Also, he just added me on snapchat too... He's texted me a few times as well asking how I've been. So what does this mean? Is he just being friendly? Or what?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 February 2014):
 My guess is to keep taps on you. You dumped him so now he is actually a little curious about who you are.
Personally, I'd block him from "liking" anything on your wall/instagram, twitter and twatter.. whatever sites you are on. Check your setting and let only FRIENDS see your pictures.
And liking things you post doesn't mean he LIKES YOU, LIKES YOU. It's just his way of making YOU pay attention to him and WONDER.(and it worked, didn't it?)
He wasn't THAT interested when you two were "trying" to be a couple so WHY let him waste more of your time/life by adding him now?
Cut him lose.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 February 2014):
 what he's doing does not matter.
ONE date in three months does not make him a boyfriend.
he was a guy you went out with ONCE... NO BIG DEAL
do you care because you think you like him.... the issue is he has not changed and he will never be what you wanted.
he didn't text you or hang out with you because he doesn't really care about you.
maybe he's changed his mind and wants to try to see if you are available now. it may be about sex... who knows.
if it bothers you..block him.
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (11 February 2014):
 Before Christianism, Valentine Day was the day country people, farmers, had noticed animals found back their mojo, it's to say the sex drive they lost some months ago when winter was approaching. That's why 2000 years ago (or even before that) Valentine Day was known as the "LUPERCA", feast of life and lust (note: Valentine has NEVER been the love saint, he was the saint of optician as he made a girl recover from her blindness. But his day was next to the Luperca Day, and a Pope decided to "erase" the remembrance of the old religion feast by sticking on it the day of Valentine).For your "ex" boyfriend, that's the same. His interest for you was near to zero until recently when he began feeling an urge in his testes, an primal need that leads him to find you interesting at last, interesting for one thing but as young people can be reading this site, I won't explain you what he has "in mind". But you don't need any drawing to understand what I mean, do you ?
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