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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Is she disinterested, trying to get my attention, or make me jealous?
Q. Hello Cupid I was wondering what are ways that girls use to make you jealous or seek your attention!How do you know they are just being disinterested or making you jealous ? I am very social person so I hang around lots of different people ...
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Practice makes perfect and you can easily practice on girls that are "above your standard" WOW... so many young women complain they can't get a date because guys won't approach them.
THIS GIRL tha... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
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But I see this Indian girl in there who catches my attention. Mayb... (read in full...)
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that's where you start... "lousy weather we're having" works great in the USA now.... it's lousy everywhere... then a smile...... (read in full...)
What is left to do safely without getting HPV?
Q. I am a a 31 year old female recently divorced and now dating again. Recently I got out of an almost year long relationship with a man, and I now test positive for HPV after my Pap Smear. Here is the situation: We did everything right, we both ...
A. 24 February 2014: OP a dental dam basically looks like a piece of saran wrap that is laid over the woman's genitalia when performing oral sex. the thought of licking plastic or having plastic on me for oral sex seems to defeat the purpose for me at least.
Perso... (read in full...)
Not sure if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious!
Q. I am really confused about my sexual orientation. I have liked guys for all my life. I feel attracted to men and sometimes in a sexual attraction,but I was always uncomfortable with the idea of sex whenever it got to where me and a guy were alone. ...
A. 24 February 2014: Sexuality is fluid. It's a spectrum... there are folks that are axsexual meaning that no one or no thing makes them sexually aroused.
Some folks are only interested in members of the opposite sex totally and that's fine
some are only interes... (read in full...)
What is left to do safely without getting HPV?
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A. 23 February 2014: More than likely I've had HPV at least once according to my doctor. He says my body has probably naturally 'cleared' it (after my procedures I'm sure)
I have had two abnormal PAP SMEARS over the years... both "cells consistent with HPV" but not ... (read in full...)
Should I interfere?
Q. I have two older sisters and, unfortunately there is a fall out with the eldest one and she has been off the scene for a year and a half. I learned she was dating someone older and she visited our mother at Christmas with him. Right enough, he is ni...
A. 22 February 2014: I agree with CindyCares 100%
My background sounds MUCH like your sister's boyfriend. I have x husbands, I have children. I have had debt and other issues. I was married to another when I met my current husband. NONE of these things I kep... (read in full...)
Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?
Q. Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...
A. 22 February 2014: ONE of the things an LDR needs is MONEY. HE has none and clearly is not interested in finding a way to make any.
I would rather see you give up on the LDR as it's going nowhere
and also avoid the co-worker/boss
Join some groups, take ... (read in full...)
Do I preserve my family or go with the love of my life?
Q. Hi all, im after some advice please , around 12 years ago i met the love of my life, we saw each other for a year and went our seperate ways due to seveveral miss understandings, weve always kept in contact losely but over the past year we got...
A. 22 February 2014: Well I think you need to talk to your wife and let her know you no longer love her and are even considering leaving her.
How is is she doesn't know this? Are you SURE SHE FEELS the same way? It may be more that she's busy running the home and... (read in full...)
I don't think my boyfriend finds me attractive - help?
Q. We have been dating for about 5 months but we were good friends first. I really do believe he loves me and he tells me I'm pretty all the time but I just don't believe him when he say that. I feel like he says it just to make me happy, but he ...
A. 21 February 2014: OP I get how you feel. I have a similar issue with my current husband. His "type" is small young Asian women preferably with large breasts and light eyes (he watches way too much Anime Porn) I am not young (older than him by 13 yrs) I am not ... (read in full...)
Advice for a broken heart.
Q. My ex boyfriend and I reunited after our breakup back in November. We were hanging out enjoying each others company, almost like it was new and exciting again. He started to become distant and having less contact with me in the past few weeks. I as...
A. 21 February 2014: It is VERY rare that a couple that breaks up gets back together and makes it work.
Sounds to me like he gave you the "I'm not sure what I want let's take it day by day and see what happens" line in lieu of "let's be FWB so I can get laid and... (read in full...)
Dad cheated on mom 4 years ago, still together today, everyone has put the incident behind them but I just can't?
Q. This is very hard for me to type because I've never spoken about this to anyone. I came here because I feel like I need some advice on this. It's been some time and I still can't move on from this. Sorry for the long post but I could really use some ...
A. 21 February 2014: OP you are not going to like my response but I’ve in some ways been where you are now. In 1984 after nearly 30 years of marriage my dad had an affair. I was a married pregnant woman (just a few years older than you are now) living with my husband ... (read in full...)
How to clarify where I stand with my ex?
Q. After almost 2 and a half years my partner decided to end things out of the blue about 6 weeks ago. I am heartbroken and shocked. It's now been a week since I moved out of our joint apartment and he texts me constantly. He hasn't deleted our rela...
A. 21 February 2014: so he decided to end things and you moved out...
but nothing else has changed right?
but you don't want this... you want him as your boyfriend or not at all right? Because let me tell you there is NO NEED and no reason for you to be friends wi... (read in full...)
Shy, friendly, or Friendzoned?
Q. So bear with me its a little bit of a long story. I recently (3 months ago) started a new job. I made fast friends with one of the guys I work with. He's 3 years older than me (21). Well every day that we work together he is always super helpful and ...
A. 21 February 2014: I am thinking you like him and he likes you enough.
How about YOU ask him out.... maybe ask him if he wants to get some coffee or something when you are done with work.... (read in full...)
My husband only sees me as a 'wife,' not as a friend!
Q. Me and my husband recently got married and recently I feel he has stopped seeing me as just his wife rather than wife and best friend. Whenever we do ANYTHING fun he calls up his buddies and invited them to join us. For example, the other weekend ...
A. 21 February 2014: ok so you have told him how you feel and he disregards you.
if he wont' go for counseling (where a neutral third party can tell him he's wrong) there is not much else you can do but leave him. is that even an option for you?... (read in full...)
My crush sends me mixed signs!
Q. Hi guys There's this guy that keeps sending me mixed messages. A close friend of his hinted me that he has a thing for me but whenever I try to make a flirty move he backs off and tells me hes tired or its been a long day and cuts the conversation...
A. 21 February 2014: If you have doubts then the best thing to do is to just wait him out and make sure you don't drop your drawers for him.
Nothing sexual for a while...that's the ONLY way to know.... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 21 February 2014: Just one more nail in your "logic" coffin
Men outnumber women. http://www.geohive.com/earth/pop_gender.aspx
and if that's too hard to grasp:
http://unstats.un.org/unsd/Demographic/products/indwm/
has breakdowns of:
ratio
size
d... (read in full...)
Do I tell him? I'd like to forgive and forget but I'm pregnant by him!
Q. I reconnected with an old family friend this past summer. we began talking a lot and became really close. eventually he asked me to be his gf. we live in different states so he flew me out to visit for a few weeks. when I returned, we hardly lasted ...
A. 20 February 2014: yep I got distracted (darn ADHD) and forgot to add send it via registered mail return receipt of delivery requested.
refusing to accept the mail will mean having him served but that can be accomplished too.... (read in full...)
I want my wife to give me a break! I am NOT looking at other women!
Q. My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, wherever, she will accuse me of looking at another women, even though I most certainly am not, and most of the time don't even know who she is referring to until I really do ...
A. 20 February 2014: I'd be angry too.
Instead of getting angry play her game... she's so damn sure you are doing this (probably because she feels unattractive and old and aging and we as women don't do well with those negative feelings)
She's so sure you... (read in full...)
Do I tell him? I'd like to forgive and forget but I'm pregnant by him!
Q. I reconnected with an old family friend this past summer. we began talking a lot and became really close. eventually he asked me to be his gf. we live in different states so he flew me out to visit for a few weeks. when I returned, we hardly lasted ...
A. 20 February 2014: You will be raising this baby alone. I agree with YouWish and Tisha...
You goofed. He goofed. Do not be REactive. rather you need to be PROACTIVE.
He will demand a DNA test.. but you need to BEAT HIM TO THE PUNCH... you tell him "I am ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him respect me?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for two years and we have talked about marriage. Initially when we went out together in public his eyes were on me, but for the past year he has had a wandering eye and will look women up and down (with his sungla...
A. 20 February 2014: The only thing you can do to make him respect you is leave.
If it bothers you that much because you've told him how you feel and it doesn't change. Also the PICTURES would make me crazy. That's one thing I would not be happy about.
My hu... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.
Q. I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...
A. 20 February 2014: why do her mixed signals confuse you?
what does how she feel have to do with what you are going to do?... (read in full...)
My crush sends me mixed signs!
Q. Hi guys There's this guy that keeps sending me mixed messages. A close friend of his hinted me that he has a thing for me but whenever I try to make a flirty move he backs off and tells me hes tired or its been a long day and cuts the conversation...
A. 20 February 2014: I have no clue what he meant... and you should ask him "what did you mean??"
... (read in full...)
My husband only sees me as a 'wife,' not as a friend!
Q. Me and my husband recently got married and recently I feel he has stopped seeing me as just his wife rather than wife and best friend. Whenever we do ANYTHING fun he calls up his buddies and invited them to join us. For example, the other weekend ...
A. 20 February 2014: Have you TOLD HIM how you feel?
Have you said "honey I don't mind us spending time with your buddies but I want my own time with you too, I MISS my husband and my friend"
If you have not told him you need more than he is giving you th... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend has profiles on swingers' sites!
Q. I found out my boyfriend has a profile (or three!) up on swingers sex sites "looking for fun" and stating that he's single. Now he swears they are from years ago when he was single and in fairness to him, it was 2009 when the accounts were created. ...
A. 20 February 2014: It's possible that Cerberus is correct... I'd ask him how he feels about deleting the accounts and determine what to do based on how he reacts to the request.
FWIW I think i still have an active account on SLS and OKCupid I just never log in to ei... (read in full...)
Do I love him? Does he love me?
Q. So me and my step cousin are really close. We clicked the moment my mum got married to his uncle. We'd always stuck together in everything, and at school, (he goes to the same school as me,) we always partner up for projects. We also hang around ...
A. 20 February 2014: Nope it's not love.
it's teenage infatuation with someone new...
love takes lots of time to grow and mature and at 15 and 17 this is probably nothing more than a passing fancy for one or both of you.
it's normal at your age to be interes... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex? It's 6 months since I finished the relationship, and this would have been our 6 year anniversary.
Q. Hi aunts, I'm feeling a little low. I was in a relationship for 5 and a half years. We were childhood sweethearts and got to together at the age of 17. I loved him to pieces but the relationship fizzled out after around the 4th year. We stayed ...
A. 20 February 2014: I agree do with do not contact him. You contacting him is for your own comfort and that's not fair to him.
you can throw his stuff out now it's been months since he's needed it and if he did need it he knew where it was and how to get it. He'... (read in full...)
Why is this position we use still causing me problems?
Q. My boyfriend and I have regular sex, we like to try different positions but our favourite is usually cowgirl where I am on top of him. When we first tried this position I had never done it I wasn't any good and he was doing most of the work. I thou...
A. 20 February 2014: I do not like female superior positions which is anything with female on top...
it hurts my knees and I can never get the speed necessary to please the male....and therefore I don't enjoy it.
and while I could never do cowgirl at all REVE... (read in full...)
I'm lucky if I get a text every two or three days
Q. Ive been seeing my boyfriend since august. Have been official since december. When were together when were not i dont hear from him. In previous relationships i have heard from my partner at least once per day, even if its just dropping me a text. ...
A. 20 February 2014: it takes my husband way longer than 30 seconds to type a text. a phone call to say hi is faster.
I went through this with my hubby when we started out dating.
once we got serious (after about 4 months) but were still LDR it drove me crazy t... (read in full...)
Is it weird?
Q. Is it weird for me to really like someone I don't know? Okay I've seen this guy a few times in public we have never spoke before but I like him.We know of each other over social networks and stuff but I don't want to approach him because he might ...
A. 20 February 2014: it's not weird to be attracted to how a person looks... which is basically what you have going on here...
just smile at him when you see him.. make eye contact and say hi...
then he can come on here and post "does this girl like me?"
and... (read in full...)
His excuses are all legit, but I kinda want to put my foot down
Q. Is he nervous or uninterested? I'm in tears right now :( I just don't know what to do anymore. Theres a guy who i like so much, you know when you just click with someone. I've known him for about 3 years and weve always thought each other w...
A. 20 February 2014: I agree with llifton... when a man is INTERESTED in you, you will know it.
this one is a time waster... whether on purpose or because he's just a flake...
I'd let it go. I'd not contact him and if he does ask to see you I'd say "sorry ... (read in full...)
My parents or my boyfriend? I feel like my parents are making me choose!
Q. Hello, my name is Alexis and I have been dating my boyfriend for five years. My mom works in the same school that I go to and a year ago my boyfriend went into rehab for smoking weed and just doing stupid things that he shouldn't have done. During ...
A. 20 February 2014: How can you date someone for 5 years and keep it a secret from your parents and not think this is a lie? When you went out with him what did you tell them you were doing? When you went to visit him what did you tell your parents? IF you ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.
Q. I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...
A. 20 February 2014: OP it was YOUR choice to stay with a woman that cheated on you. That does not give you the right to cheat on her. OR punish her for her past behaviors . IT was YOUR choice to stay. IF you can’t get past it you say to her “the longer I think ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 20 February 2014: OP… we are trying to help you but you only want us to help you the way you are comfortable being helped. This is not going to work for us. And it won’t help you. Part of becoming an adult is learning to step outside your comfort zone.
Your ... (read in full...)
Shut my friends out because of my relationship
Q. Since getting with my boyfriend in August 2013, I've hardly seen my friends. I used to see them almost every weekend, we would go out and have drinks and have a laugh. I miss some of them alot but I'm too stubborn to admit I've been in the wrong as ...
A. 19 February 2014: pick up the phone and call them and say "I miss you want to get together"
it's really that simple. I do it with my girl friends when we've been off each other for whatever reasons.
it's common for girls in their first relationship to let ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't have sex with me
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. We are both 22.We used to have a great sex life but over the last 6 months, he doesnt want sex with me. I'd say this has happened gradually, before I had hope but now I know it's useless. He says ...
A. 19 February 2014: I feel your pain. I'm a newlywed (just over a year) and my husband has gone off sex.
unlike your guy mine is 40 and having physical issues..
if your guy has had a complete physical work up and everything is fine and he has not gained a bun... (read in full...)
She broke up with me, acts like we're still in a relationship, but is talking to other guys
Q. So my girlfriend broke up with me after a year of being together. We moved in together after three months of being together so we have a close bond. My ex states that she doesnt think she loves me enough and that she isn't happy within herself so ...
A. 19 February 2014: so you love this woman that is emotionally abusing you by stringing you along while she goes out and does things with other guys?
you love a woman that is using you to go visit her family and pretend you are a happy little family?
you love this... (read in full...)
I want to talk to this girl but don't want to just be "one of her guys"
Q. This past weekend I was approached at a party by a girl from my college that I have known about since last year. She is very attractive and is personally way out of my league. I came up with some bullshit excuse as to why I don't really talk to her ...
A. 19 February 2014: so if you see her daily then next time you see her say
"wanna go for coffee on xx/xx/xx?"
... (read in full...)
Does asking for pictures make him a bad guy?
Q. I can't believe it has come to this again. Last week a met this guy through Uni and instantly started messaging me on Facebook once he tracked me down. And has not stopped since. He was shaping into such a nice guy, even invited me out for ...
A. 19 February 2014: Well the only way to find out if he's genuine and true is to NOT send dirty pics (wise girl) and not have sexual talk with him this early on in a relationship....
the truth is boys ask because they are testing... and because they want pics an... (read in full...)
Is she disinterested, trying to get my attention, or make me jealous?
Q. Hello Cupid I was wondering what are ways that girls use to make you jealous or seek your attention!How do you know they are just being disinterested or making you jealous ? I am very social person so I hang around lots of different people ...
A. 19 February 2014: Well none of us can speak for ALL women as all women (after age 18 we are women NOT girls) are different.
I can't even speak for your girlfriend. I suppose that if you have been playing stupid games with her (giving her three days space sounds... (read in full...)
Partner says he wants to be with me forever but has "itches that need scratching" with other women.
Q. I've been with my partner for 5 years. We met at uni. It's a long distance relationship but we are planning in moving in together this year. We are both each other's first sexual partners. I was in a long term relationship before but never had in...
A. 19 February 2014: I agree with all the other Aunts and uncles.
I've done LDR with my current husband and we were apart a lot and NEITHER of us wanted to 'scratch that itch' with anyone else.
I come from an open marriage prior to this one. I have no issues wit... (read in full...)
I feel lonely if I don't see my new boyfriend for a few days, and I want to spend all my time with him. Is this normal?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 weeks now. Trouble is I want to see him every day and spend all my days and nights with him. If I don't see him for more than 2 days I start to feel lonely. Is this normal?...
A. 19 February 2014: Missing him is one thing... being lonely specifically for him is ok... being LONELY in general means you may not have enough going on in your life and you may be becoming to dependent on him for your social life.
If you meant you miss HIM spe... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.
Q. I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...
A. 19 February 2014: Maybe your gf didn't ask you about something because she knows you are only wasting her time while you lust after her best friend.
Wow.
you say "looks at me like she would like to sleep with me sometimes" REALLY... how does THAT look? beca... (read in full...)
My parents or my boyfriend? I feel like my parents are making me choose!
Q. Hello, my name is Alexis and I have been dating my boyfriend for five years. My mom works in the same school that I go to and a year ago my boyfriend went into rehab for smoking weed and just doing stupid things that he shouldn't have done. During ...
A. 19 February 2014: TEN months for rehab for a non-addictive drug? Cerberus is right... that's a smoke screen for his real problem(s)
I think marijuana should be legal and available to adults like tobacco and alcohol and I hate that folks use the "addicted to... (read in full...)
How do we get her to back off already? She's not really a mean, vindictive person but she is sure causing a lot of trouble!
Q. This sounds snotty, but there's this girl who is constantly trying to butt in to our group of friends even though we try to give her kind hints that she really just doesn't fit in. At first, we tried to give her a chance. She sat down with us...
A. 19 February 2014: It sounds like her parents are doing a version of the "tiger mom" thing.
http://amychua.com/
I don't agree with keeping a teen that sheltered but it's her parents choice. And as a teen YOU need to respect her PARENTS choices. This is not anyt... (read in full...)
I want to talk to this girl but don't want to just be "one of her guys"
Q. This past weekend I was approached at a party by a girl from my college that I have known about since last year. She is very attractive and is personally way out of my league. I came up with some bullshit excuse as to why I don't really talk to her ...
A. 19 February 2014: Don't text CALL. sometimes text messages do not get through.
I got some texts IN NOVEMBER that my husband had sent IN AUGUST... .how freaky is that?
this girl took the bull by the horns because SHE LIKES YOU and wants to get to know you... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 19 February 2014: Anything is possible for anyone but the problem is you think that going to an escort will solve your problem when all it will do is make it worse.
Just experiencing sex will not fix your internal issues and may actually make it worse.
Se... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 18 February 2014: OP you are your own worst enemy.
you say you can say hello to random guys and make friends.
what makes women so magical that you can't do the same to them? Have you ever considered just being FRIENDS with a girl? why treat them differently... (read in full...)
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