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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Husband belittles me in front of friends and family. I want to leave him, but is there any way I can correct the situation?
Q. I became very resentfull toward my husband. The main reason is that he complains to people about me. He doesn't complain to everyone but certain people. Like this couple that we don't see very much often, may be every couple months. Usually ...
A. 19 February 2014: OH OP you didn't mention that all of this was fueled by over consumption of alcohol. Yep that is a big issue for us too.
IF your spouse is not an alcoholic then it's probable his limiting his drinking will help tremendously. If he's an alcoh... (read in full...)
He lied, and his real age has freaked me out!
Q. Making this short because I just recently found out. I don't know how to tell any of my friends about this either but I've been dating this guy I work with for about 2 months and all this time I thought he was 25 because that's what he told me. He ...
A. 19 February 2014: OP what do you think he wants to talk about?
how hard it was to lie to you? (really he did it with a straight face for how long?--do you not think he would have continued this as long as he could?)
how youthful he is? yeah well 40 is righ... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 18 February 2014: do not feel bad... he had expectations and he waited 2 years to lay this guilt trip on you.
He's obviously pretty broken.
I met my husband in August 2010 we lived in different states... in December 2010 we decided to try a fling
by JUNE o... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 18 February 2014: Yep reality rears it's ugly head... you are in different places in your lives.
I'm sadly seeing that with my hubby now too. My nearly 54 is planning retirement and he says "we are working for 30 more years" Umm I don't have 30 more years to... (read in full...)
He lied, and his real age has freaked me out!
Q. Making this short because I just recently found out. I don't know how to tell any of my friends about this either but I've been dating this guy I work with for about 2 months and all this time I thought he was 25 because that's what he told me. He ...
A. 18 February 2014: thanks for the follow up.. he's correct... telling the truth after a lie is hard... and owing up to your own aging is hard too.
BUT your comment "my friends are pissed too" is misplaced.
YOUR FRIENDS have no room in this relationship. I... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to feel this way, to feel invisible?
Q. So, I am currently in my second to last year of high school. Junior Year (11th Grade), man time has flew by. The town I currently live in isn't exactly a place I like. My family and I moved here 6 years ago (6th grade) because we simply needed a ...
A. 18 February 2014: think about all the very popular people. The folks at the very top... THEY have peaked already. PEAKING IN HIGH SCHOOL IS THE BEST THEY ARE GOING TO HAVE...
You have your whole life ahead of you and in the long run you will be more balanced... (read in full...)
Am I missing out on something here? She has a strange pattern to her behaviour!
Q. hello I'm dating a girl for three months now and I feel a strange pattern now in her behaviour ! After every two weeks or so, she'll start ignoring in a sense that she'll take extra time to reply than usual and she'll seem less excited to see ...
A. 18 February 2014: I agree that the current generation demands CONSTANT INSTANT feedback. Gone are the days of waiting to get a letter from your suitor.
She may be playing games but you are playing them right back.
IF you need someone who is up in you... (read in full...)
Is he interested in me? He's cancelled a couple of dates.
Q. I met a guy about a month ago and we have been talking every single day ever since. We are both artists and musicians and I love to talk to him, it's like we never run out of things to talk about. We went on our first date a few weeks ago and it ...
A. 18 February 2014: if you are sure he's canceling for work emergencies then I think giving him a pass is a good idea.
the issue is if you get involved with him, how often do work emergencies come up... for me that would get OLD fast...
as for not accepting ... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable in not wanting my BF to go a festival? He went last year and lied about having girls in his tent.
Q. My boyfriend of almost 3 years went to Leeds festival last year. He went with his single lad friends - I had no worries as I trusted him and only asked he called/text me when he could and no girls in his tent. It went pear shaped - I barely heard fr...
A. 18 February 2014: Ok I'll weigh in as a woman who likes daily contact....
I think you are being unreasonable.
Just because girls stay in a tent does not mean that hanky panky is going on...
IF there are NO trust issues... why is this a problem.
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I feel like my boyfriend didn't make enough effort on Valentines Day.
Q. My boyfriend of 10 months dint give me anything for valentines day, I'm not being superficial but I thought he'd atleast put in some effort because I took a lot of time in picking his gift and brought him 2 things, not that I was expecting anything ...
A. 18 February 2014: Wow he got you flowers and lit candles. That's more than lots of women got.
you say "he didn't get me anything" but he did. HE GOT YOU flowers and he thought to light candles.
My husband ordered two charms for me for my bracelet. NO ca... (read in full...)
I'm dating a man and love his personality but the spark is not there. I don't know how to proceed.
Q. Hi aunts, I've got a big dilemma! I've been seeing a guy that is not my type and I'm not really attracted to for the last 2 months. I was attracted to something about him initially when I first met him and wanted him to take me out. He did ask ...
A. 18 February 2014: Oh this is so sad for both of you.
He probably feels way more for you than you do for him in terms of wanting a romantic relationship and you "friendzoning him" will hurt him deeply but you must be HONEST with him.
the issue is that you wa... (read in full...)
Is history repeating itself? I took my ex back but we have problems.
Q. So cut a story short, I met a guy when I was 17, went through some really bad stuff, lying and cheating. Settled down at 19 and had my son, but then he kept staying out all night getting drunk. So I moved back to my mams in may 2012, after find...
A. 18 February 2014: It's not just a slip up
and you are NOT over reacting.
You are struggling with money in this relationship and he has placed his NEEDS and WANTS above you and the children.
this is a pattern of behavior that will not change unless HE wants i... (read in full...)
Husband belittles me in front of friends and family. I want to leave him, but is there any way I can correct the situation?
Q. I became very resentfull toward my husband. The main reason is that he complains to people about me. He doesn't complain to everyone but certain people. Like this couple that we don't see very much often, may be every couple months. Usually ...
A. 18 February 2014: I hear you 100% and I understand.
Sometimes people are just clueless about how their feelings affect their behavior and words.
Last night my husband was being snarky and nasty at dinner... and when we got home I asked him "are you angry a... (read in full...)
Sex with my best friend - has it ruined our relationship?
Q. I have a male best friend who I have known for about 5 years. We hang out all the time and love joking around. When we go out drinking we sometimes sleep over each others houses and nothing has ever happened between us, apart from one night we ended ...
A. 18 February 2014: YOU guys would be the poster couple for FWB if you could all just get past the whole "sex will ruin our friendship" thing.
... (read in full...)
I've only known him 2 days, he lives in another city and he's already my boyfriend?!
Q. So 2 days ago I met this guy at a church retreat and we really just clicked and he asked for my number so I gave it to him. By the way he lives in another city like an hour away from me. He texted me yesterday after we got home and we were talking ...
A. 18 February 2014: At your age an hour away is insurmountable to having a relationship. You can be friendly with him, but do not cut yourself off from OTHER boys you may meet locally that you can get to know.
DATING is not the same as having a boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
Getting mixed signals from my ex.
Q. Hi everyone, I need some advice! So my ex boyfriend and I are on and off, I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, I got the impression he was losing interest and distancing himself from me, so I left him alone. He sent me a text on valentines day n...
A. 18 February 2014: He didn't say he missed you... you ASSUMED he missed you because he said "happy valentines day" for all you know he sent a mass text to all his girls...
NOTHING mixed about his message.. the MIXED part is your feelings... YOU KNOW it's over an... (read in full...)
.Women I am attracted to run when they learn I am also involved with a man
Q. Hey everyone... I'm having some struggles with my sexuality/sexual identity. I am a female, and I am in love with a man. We plan on getting married, we are both very attracted to one another and we're super happy. The thing is, I am also very att...
A. 18 February 2014: OP thank you for the follow up. I get what you are saying and it sounds to me like it will work in your relationship based on the parameters you are setting.
You are looking for casual physical hook ups. That’s easy. Esp if you are look... (read in full...)
No communication from my BF for 9 days. He's ignoring my texts. What is going on and what should I do?
Q. Ive not spoken to my bf since 8th Feb, he works away. I held down and tried not to txt or ring but I asked him to ring Friday and never did. I texted on Sat, nothing, and rang yesterday and still nothing. I'm not sure what to do, I cant stop thin...
A. 17 February 2014: As long as you can verify he is not in jail or the hospital, then your mother is right he's playing games.
YOU do not want a boy that plays games. AND even if he's 30 if this is how he breaks ups with you or treats you then his mentality is... (read in full...)
Tarot reader told me to end my relationship. Should i?
Q. Laat night I went to a tarort reader, she pulled out a card involving my partner.. she said he wasnt any gd for more and I need to make the descision to tell him its not working anymore as he wouldnt tell me hinself he moved away in November to work ...
A. 17 February 2014: I used to take Tarot Reading classes... you can make tarot say what you need/want depending on the person's reaction to what you say...
tarot is not fortune telling but it can be used to help you make decisions.
in this case, use to to acc... (read in full...)
He got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day!
Q. Should I be upset he got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day? My boyfriend and I both agree that Valentine's day is not a big deal. We are in a long distance relationship-been together about 8 months. We don't see eachother very often in pe...
A. 17 February 2014: I'm in the "if you agreed it's no big deal" then you have no right to complain.
Telling him "it's no big deal" then being mad at him for not doing anything is not fair.
Last year my husband ignored V-day. This year I didn't want to get h... (read in full...)
He lied, and his real age has freaked me out!
Q. Making this short because I just recently found out. I don't know how to tell any of my friends about this either but I've been dating this guy I work with for about 2 months and all this time I thought he was 25 because that's what he told me. He ...
A. 17 February 2014: if my math is right.. then you are 19 to his 37... 16 years.
which if you were 30 and he was 46 would not phase me at all...
The bigger issue is he lied. The fact that HE lied to you and you trusted him is nothing to be ashamed of.
... (read in full...)
I feel I let my boyfriend down after he made an effort for Valentines Day. What should I do?
Q. I feel useless, I let my boyfriend down. What should I do?. I don't know if he will forgive me. He knew I haven't been well for a few days, but for some reason, he still bought lots of food for Valentine's day, and bought me some presents. Earlier ...
A. 15 February 2014: I think it will be better if you two break up.
He's unmedicated bipolar (or if he's medicated he's not properly medicated or he's not taking his scrips properly)
you appear to have either low-grade depression (that can make you feel ill al... (read in full...)
Do you have to hear the word love to be loved?
Q. Hi, well I said those magical words lastnite after watching the notebook, we been seeing each other for over eight years, I broke up with her couple of years ago, for a few months, cause she never says it back, but we got back together, she said it ...
A. 15 February 2014: You have to go by the actions of a person like this. My husband is like this.
When he and I started dating he told me "I do not say 'I love you' so don't expect to hear it." He also pointed out that it did not mean he didn't love me just tha... (read in full...)
.Women I am attracted to run when they learn I am also involved with a man
Q. Hey everyone... I'm having some struggles with my sexuality/sexual identity. I am a female, and I am in love with a man. We plan on getting married, we are both very attracted to one another and we're super happy. The thing is, I am also very att...
A. 15 February 2014: HERE I COME TO SAVE THE DAY!.... read some of the replies...
As a monogamous bisexual woman who is married I'll try to give you my POV.... I am OPENLY bi. Does not phase anyone. OF course since I met and committed to my current partner ... (read in full...)
Is this normal for FWB?
Q. I got chatting to a guy online nearly 4 months now , at first he told me he was single but eventually he told me he wasn't and he has a daughter . I'm ok with this it's his life , he lives miles away from me but we decided to meet up . He drive over ...
A. 14 February 2014: IF I was having an affair and lying and cheating on my partner I would be doing it 200 miles away. He would never consider I would drive that far for some sex when I could get it closer to home.
OP you are NOT FWB with this guy... you are his ... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable with female coworker and husband
Q. I'm extremly uncomfortable with my husband and his female coworker/friend. I think she crosses to many boundries and doesn't see it. I'm constantly accusing him of cheating and its causing a wedge between us. He has other female friends that I'm ...
A. 14 February 2014: hold your friends close and your enemies closer....
while there may be NOTHING going on... IF you give him the 'HER OR ME" choice... he may pick her. I would. I had friends tell me "us or him" when I was DATING my hubby and the fact that th... (read in full...)
My mother is doing her best to come between me and my g/f
Q. I've been dating my gf for a little over a year now. Out of the that I was deployed for 8 months. From the moment my mom met my gf she said she was rude to her. My sister / friends all like her and thinks she is a great girl and I love her, While ...
A. 14 February 2014: why can't you kick a toxic person out of your life?
just because she is your mother does not mean you have to tolerate bad behavior from her. Giving birth to you does NOT give her free rein to mistreat you or your friends.
"Mom, I'm not sur... (read in full...)
I tolerated him making changes but it's killing me when he goes out!
Q. Dear Cupid, I do not know what to do. I am in a 4.5 years of relationship. Like 3 weeks ago, eveeything started to change. They go every friday to play volleyball or play poker and I used to go with him. One day, he told me whenever I go with him...
A. 14 February 2014: OP, clearly he is DONE with the relationship and is just too chicken to end it with you like an adult. He is behaving like a child.
IF he changed the rules (going out mixed) and you don't like that then you have ONE choice... that's to le... (read in full...)
Is this feeling of distance and disconnection common for an LDR?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship with my partner of 14 months for 6 months now as she had to move back home due to being unable to pay rent. However, we do get to see each other weekly or fortnghtly, depending on situations. We're also ...
A. 14 February 2014: the only way to resolve it is to NOT be LDR...
you were not LDR and now you seem to be short distance LDR since you can see each other weekly or biweekly.... that's a very workable LDR.
we were about 100 miles (2 hour drive) apart for the... (read in full...)
What is the problem with me and dating?
Q. Hello cupids. I ended my last relationship on the 30th of december 2012 and have been single for over a year. It hurts me that non of my relationships always see new year and am also always single on vals day so is going to be this vals day. The t...
A. 13 February 2014: IF he owes you money then take the money.
Your "don't call me bitch" rule is awesome.
what does he want? he wants sex.... why else would his reaction be "wow" when he found out you moved.
IF you can meet him in public to get your money ... (read in full...)
My sister is using funerals as a way to pick up guys??
Q. I'm concerned about my older sister, recently we've attended two funerals (neither individual knew the other, one was a business colleague of my Dad's, one was a neighbor killed in a car crash). I'm 19, my sister's 24, and single. It's her attitude...
A. 13 February 2014: It's not like she's crashing funerals of strangers is it?
That would be USING funerals to meet men... if she HAPPENS to meet a guy at a funeral she was attending due to KNOWING the deceased... well then that's how she met them...
It's lik... (read in full...)
I'm affectionate when drunk but not so much when sober. Is this guy just confused by my behavior?
Q. Hey guys this guy I've been dating told me he is completely besotted by me. What does this mean? I feel like the next day he was distant and cold, he kept saying I clearly didn't want him there which I did. My friends think this all could be because ...
A. 13 February 2014: Honeypie is right...
he's not a mind reader and he doesn't know that when you drink you become affectionate. you must tell him how you feel about him.
To be honest, (as the spouse of an alcoholic) I would consider that you may ha... (read in full...)
Don't want to misrepresent myself but ...
Q. I am a 25 male and trying online dating I am short most of the woman are taller than me I have no problem dating taller women but I have heard that most women won't date a shorter men I don't know how true this is. I know complete honesty is ...
A. 13 February 2014: good luck OP.... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 13 February 2014: OP it sounds like you have a good handle on this.. ENJOY It as long as it lasts and when folks STARE (and they will they used to stare at us and i"m only 13 years older than hubby) just put your arm through his lay your head on his shoulder and ... (read in full...)
Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?
Q. Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...
A. 13 February 2014: I did NOT BASH big boobs. I spoke the truth.
As an adult woman who was a 48DDD (extra long after practicing toddler led weaning with two children) who then lost over 100 pound and required reconstructive surgery to remove excess skin (but not have... (read in full...)
How do I find a woman who is serious?
Q. Why do women flirt pointlessly? I have had many situations where I meet a woman at her work and she is friendly and flirty. She will tell me things about her son/school/friends/whatever and after awhile I give her my number so we can talk some more ...
A. 12 February 2014: CANNOT BEAT what Euphoric29 said. 5 stars and a standing ovation for an awesome well done reply!... (read in full...)
How do I find a woman who is serious?
Q. Why do women flirt pointlessly? I have had many situations where I meet a woman at her work and she is friendly and flirty. She will tell me things about her son/school/friends/whatever and after awhile I give her my number so we can talk some more ...
A. 12 February 2014: Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Albert Einstein
IF the way you are going about trying to find a mate is not working, then you should change your way.
I agree that the problem if it's ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't love me now, will he ever?
Q. i have been seeing this guy for over a year now and have fallen for him i love him but he says he doesnt love me, he cares for me, he texts daily, visits on tuesdays and we spend every weekend together, should i finish things between us, if he ...
A. 12 February 2014: At your (our) age... after a year... it's probably where he wants it.
If you want more you must tell him. He may say he does not. That's fair. I know that IF my husband and I end up not together, I would NEVER want to live with anyone a... (read in full...)
We haven't dated long what should I get him for Valentine's Day?
Q. Hi everybody, This might strike some as being a daft question, but I'll ask away! I've recently started seeing this guy (ie. 3 dates) and I know he wants to take me out on Valentines Day. However, I don't know what to get him if anything - it...
A. 12 February 2014: I just got my husband a fur trimmed box of heart shaped beef jerky...
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I feel like I'm being rushed into marriage by my boyfriend, my parents and even my friends
Q. I feel like I'm being rushed into marriage by my boyfriend, my parents and even my friends to a point. Last week, during a family meal my boyfriend proposed to me in front of his family(Mum,dad and two brothers and their partners and kids.) I...
A. 12 February 2014: reminds me of the scene in the movie "working girl" where the boyfriend is cheered on to propose to his "estranged" GF (Melanie Griffin) in front of all their friends and her answer is "maybe". Because she knew it was not going to happen for ... (read in full...)
What do you do when its always you doing the contacting? if stop I may lose what friends I have.
Q. We all get busy in life, work, family, hobbies, etc and at times it's not easy to see friends/acquaintances on a regular basis, some people we see regularly, some not often at all. Sometimes I feel like I am always the one doing the texting or ...
A. 12 February 2014: It ebbs and flows... some friends I contact more than others... then they contact me more.... depends on how it goes...
if you are doing ALL the contacting and all the plan making and they are HESITANT to make plans... then yes it's time to... (read in full...)
We haven't dated long what should I get him for Valentine's Day?
Q. Hi everybody, This might strike some as being a daft question, but I'll ask away! I've recently started seeing this guy (ie. 3 dates) and I know he wants to take me out on Valentines Day. However, I don't know what to get him if anything - it...
A. 12 February 2014: I would keep it VERY VERY VERY low key... a funny card and maybe a small box of candy that you know he likes... NOTHING big, nothing "serious". KEEP it light, fun... casual.
Cologne is too personal for a 3rd date valentine...... (read in full...)
Are there guys out there that will look past my body and like me for who I am?
Q. This is a really hard question to ask because I'm fairly certain of the answer, but I was wondering if I will ever find some one because of my size. I'm very small for my age (18), I look much younger I'm very thin. Are there guys out there that ...
A. 12 February 2014: I heard someone this week say "the key to life is to NOT PEAK in HIGH SCHOOL" and that's so very true. If you are the "perfect" cheerleader in high school... where do you have to go but down.. If you are the "not popular" girl with no hips and ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he's losing interest?
Q. hello im a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship. i really love him and he says he loves me too but, lately i have had some strange feelings. we use to talk every day now we really dont. he use to call me two and three times a day now, ...
A. 12 February 2014: Oh dear… I did LDR with a guy I met in person first. That’s hard too. I assume you have NOT met this man and spent time with him IRL (please correct me if I’m wrong).
IF you have NEVER met face to face, then it’s in your best interest to accep... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 12 February 2014: OP I have to tell you, that while I am a big supporter of Age gap relationships, as the OLDER partner (by 13 years) to my spouse, it's hard even with our much smaller gap.
As for children, I'm nearly 54 and maybe it's different for men but at 4... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I'm freaking out over nothing or if I'm just freaking out over sex.
Q. Ok, umm, I really need some help with this issue. So me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now and were really happy together but I feel like he's pressuring me to have sex with him or to do anything sexual. Now before you start ...
A. 11 February 2014: IF you lose a boy because you won't have sex with him he was never worth having (at YOUR age)
IF you have issues from your rape and molestation then you need to be working with a counselor to resolve those issues. This is too big of an issue ... (read in full...)
I'm panicked about our age difference!
Q. Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...
A. 11 February 2014: just be cautious and guard your heart...
you are an adult
he is an adult
what others think is not important.
... (read in full...)
Don't want to misrepresent myself but ...
Q. I am a 25 male and trying online dating I am short most of the woman are taller than me I have no problem dating taller women but I have heard that most women won't date a shorter men I don't know how true this is. I know complete honesty is ...
A. 4 February 2014: put the truth. if a woman is shallow and only cares if you are taller than she is then she's not going to be worth the effort to find out.
unless you are 5'2" or 5"4" you have many options.
my husband is about 5'5" but he looks much t... (read in full...)
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