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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been married for 15 years and most of it has been sexless. My husband works very hard and travels often. I have approached the subject often and things have not changed. It is a little ironic. Because it is usually the husband who is complaining of too little sex in the marriage. It got so bad two years ago that I moved out for a year and them moved back in after a year of separation. So does anyone think this marriage is repairable or should I hang it up???The Lonely Wife
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2014): If it is only that issue it can be sorted out by talking to him as to what he wants from you because there can be alot related to this,and there can be nothing at all...u need to ask,talk it out
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 February 2014):
 You are not alone. My BFF has been married 20 years to a guy and she complains of no sex life.
I am a newlywed of just over a year and it's NO SEX...
it's VERY common for women of "our" age (I'm a bit older) to have a higher drive than the men.
The male poster that suggests that your spouse is getting sex elsewhere has missed the mark totally.
If you have discussed it and he has had a full medical work up and there is nothing wrong with him then he just has a lower drive than you do...
If you do not wish to remain sexless you have two options:
1. figure out if you can fix it with your current spouse
or
2. gain his approval and permission to take a lover on the side. (with approval and permission it is not cheating)
I assume you left for at least partially the lack of sex.... when you returned had he promised he would step up his game and did not? why have you stayed?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (9 February 2014):
 What were the reasons you went back to him before?
You had left, why did you return?
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