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writes:My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him. I never cheated on him. When we broke up, I dated a couple people but we were broken up for about 4 months. It is so devastating because my ex best friend hangs with him and his friends and they all obviously believe it. He even posted on instagram that I cheated on him. It's so unfair and it's really upsetting me because I want to stick up for myself but I don't want to give him any reaction because I know that's what he's looking for. It's killing me. Help.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (11 February 2014):
 You could always say that he's lying to keep me from telling people the real truth about why you broke up with him - his tiny penis and the way he grunted like an injured pig during the big O.
Heh.
Seriously, don't crawl into the mud with him. He will say what he will say. Do what the others have suggested and block him. He doesn't get the privilege of having his words posted for you to see.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 February 2014):
 well he's an ex and your EX best friend is an EX so they are people no longer in your life.
block them.
ignore them
your true friends will know the truth and that's all that matters.. what folks you no longer have anything to do with think does not matter.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (11 February 2014):
First…They are all ex people in your life…who cares. But if you really want to stand up for yourself, you say “I never cheated on him, but if I did, it would be because he sucked in bed, and I needed a real man.”
See how fast he shuts up. Your ex is mouthing off because his ego got hurt. Normally I do not encourage even giving a hoot what an ex has to say…but if he wants to play the ego game, let him have with both barrels.
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (11 February 2014):
 I'm french and don't know canadian laws, but I can imagine your laws work alike.I advice you to play it cool at first: let everybody know that what your ex says is PURE SLANDER and that you won't bear it any longer. Tell people you're contemplating reporting that fact to the police/justice because the defamation can damage your personal and professional reputation. If it doesn't stop after, say a week, don't wait sending your ex a certified mail with proof of delivery as serious as possible, demanding your ex to stop spreading falses informations about you, and demanding he erases everything is has already written about you on social medias and every mean he has or could use to express what he thinks about you.If it is seriously done, I bet the slandering will stop as hoped.
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