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writes:im in love with my sons ex mother in law and she loves me but she says that we will never be able to get together because of her kids and our mutual grand son. our relationship is secret from everyone. i help her with money. we kiss but i ask her i want to make love to her and she says that she is not ready. i have a lot invested in her what should i do i see her in my future and she is afraid of what every one will say
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2014): Previous anon male, forgot to add that in the event of a marriage between OP and son's ex-MIL, grandson's mother would also be his step-aunt making grandson both his own maternal and paternal step-cousins.
As the theme song of the classic 1960's sitcom "The Patty Duke Show" (in which Patty played lookalike dual roles) would say, "But they're cousins, identical cousins all the way. . ."
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 February 2014):
 totally agree to STOP GIVING HER MONEY.
and listen to the song I am my own grand pa
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I%27m_My_Own_Grandpa
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2014): Agree with iAHTHY and CMMP, stop helping her with money and see if she sticks around.
Sorry, but I can't resist pointing out that should things work out with your son's ex-mother-in-law and you two eventually get married then your son would be your grandson's mother's step-brother, meaning your grandson's father would also be his step-uncle making your grandson his own step-cousin.
In that case your grandson would always be surrounded by family even when by himself.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (27 February 2014):
Hmmm, the "relationship" is a secret and you're giving her money. That doesn't sound good at all, especially since you both appear to be single.
When a woman likes a guy but is afraid he might be only wanting sex from her people usually suggest they stop having sex with him for a little bit while they get to know each other better. If he leaves then he only was there for the sex.
So I suggest you stop giving her money and see how well she likes you then. It is possible she's "not ready" but I'm doubting it.
If she continues seeing you when there's no money involved then she probably just wants to take things slow.
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