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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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He wants me to sell my home and buy a bigger house but his drinking concerns me
Q. Hello there - Am after some advice. I am 40 years old and am living with my partner and our 6 month old baby. To cut things short my partner has always struggled with alcohol but is a loving partner and a wonderful Dad and never drinks at ...
A. 4 April 2014: What he means is that you can pay off your mortgage earlier by making extra payments and having more equity in the house… it does not matter what he means or wants…. It’s still like Tisha said.. he’s NOT hearing what you need/want/said. It’s ALL ... (read in full...)
Drinking is killing my relationship.
Q. Hi. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend from almost 1 year. We both like to go out. We both are social drinkers. But he loves drinking and he goes out every weekend to drink out, or if not out then at home. Everything was going good. We wer...
A. 14 March 2014: I will tell you what you should do but you won't like it.
YOU NEED TO END THE RELATIONSHIP.
the man, if not an alcoholic already is going to be one.
clearly he already has an issue with alcohol.
there is NOTHING you can do or say to... (read in full...)
His contact list has a photo of his ex wife but not one for me
Q. I'm hurt and confused, would you feel the same if you noticed your husband has a contact photo attached to his ex wife, his ex crush and even a platonic female friend but none for you. Does this mean I'm not pretty enough or not as special?...
A. 14 March 2014: have you ever asked him why he doesn't have a picture for you?
my phone picks up the facebook profile picture for most of my friends... only if I take a picture and assign it to someone who doesn't have facebook do they have a picture.
... (read in full...)
He wants me to sell my home and buy a bigger house but his drinking concerns me
Q. Hello there - Am after some advice. I am 40 years old and am living with my partner and our 6 month old baby. To cut things short my partner has always struggled with alcohol but is a loving partner and a wonderful Dad and never drinks at ...
A. 14 March 2014: I live (and love) an active alcoholic... I see you have agreed that you would be mad to agree to his plan.... I concur.
Alcoholics when sober are charming lovely people and when drunk are impossible.
I would never subject children to being ar... (read in full...)
It's late now, isn't it? We'll never get married, will we?
Q. I've been living with my so-called fiancé for 10 years. We have 2 kids. Originally we planned to get married right away and went so far as to fill out all the paperwork but never ended up having a ceremony because of my student loan debt. Flash ...
A. 14 March 2014: You wouldn't have medical bills if he married you.
He's probably already claiming you as a deduction if he supports you (that is legal btw as long as you don't file your own taxes but I would A. file your own taxes and claim your children... (read in full...)
I'm struggling with what he calls his dry sense of humour
Q. I love my boyfriend who is 40 of 7 months but don't like aspects of his personality. He can be very sarcastic and make derogatory comments about my weight. I'm a size 12 Uk and run and ramble, bike on the Downs etc. He makes comments about women ...
A. 14 March 2014: His "humor" is not dry. It's humorless.
I have a male friend who is a Brit and he has that very dry sense of humor that Americans don't always get... that's different than
HIDING behind a "dry sense" of humor as a way to INSULT and degra... (read in full...)
I see his actions as being disrespectful of our time spent together. He sees my reaction as emotionally unstable.
Q. Guy I've been seeing for over a month won't stop texting when I'm around him! Was I out of line by the way I handled this? Is there a better way I should have handled it? I was over at his house. Literally from the time I got there until righ...
A. 13 March 2014: OP... wow the texting was bad enough but now to find out that he's a bald faced liar. There is no trusting this guy.
and for him to get OFFENDED when you called him on his desire to "get you hooked" before dropping all these bomb shells o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends visit massage parlors for happy endings! Should I worry he is doing the same?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend is not asking for any physical pleasure from me lately and i found out from his friends that they are paying a visit to massage parlors for a quick and fun release from time to time in other words happy endings. I read many ...
A. 11 March 2014: Why in the world would you stay if you "had been the reason" for his going?
There is NO EXCUSE for a partnered man seeking a sex worker.
... (read in full...)
Do men have sex with women they aren't attracted to?
Q. This is a question for the men: would you sleep with someone you weren't attracted to? I was recently shocked to find out that a very attractive male acquaintance of mine had a one night stand with a very unattractive woman. This has lef...
A. 11 March 2014: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Beauty is only skin deep.
What you see as unattractive he may like.
As for men having sex with anything that moves... some will. Some won't. ... (read in full...)
He's 22 years younger and wants to date me!
Q. I have just come out of a horrible one year relationship with a guy I really loved but am gradually feeling better. I met a lovely guy who said he was 38 to get my attentional. He is 26. He is good looking fit intelligent mature and a lot of fun...
A. 10 March 2014: If this adult man wants to have a fun fling with an adult woman and the adult woman wants the same thing...go for it.
who cares what others think?
signed
a woman who is 13+ years older than her husband.... (read in full...)
If I agree to marry him, can I make myself love him someday?
Q. Dear friends.. I am 26 yrs old now. I know its time for me to get married.. And there is a man 36 yrs old, single who loves me so much. And wants to marry with me. I knew him from May last year. He is so kind and always on my side whenever i need ...
A. 10 March 2014: Marrying for love is a fairly new concept. And Ciar is correct on that.
In the past (about 150 years ago and earlier) people married as business deals. To add land to their holdings, to build empires, to prevent wars. Because women needed s... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't show affection or that she cares!
Q. Hey guys. Quick question. I'm a 30 year old male, dating a 24 year old female. We've been dating for 15 months. I don't really know what to do with our relationship. Every other woman I've ever dated has expressed her feelings in one wa...
A. 8 March 2014: OP thanks for the follow up (not marked)
IF she is depressed and NOT being treated for it, then to me it's sadly a no brainer and you need to figure out how to walk away. I know that sounds cruel but if you are not married and you are unhappy ... (read in full...)
I see his actions as being disrespectful of our time spent together. He sees my reaction as emotionally unstable.
Q. Guy I've been seeing for over a month won't stop texting when I'm around him! Was I out of line by the way I handled this? Is there a better way I should have handled it? I was over at his house. Literally from the time I got there until righ...
A. 7 March 2014: the problem with your mom's advice is that you have NOT invested a lot of time with this guy... a month is NOT a lot of dating time.... and YOU HAVE talked to him about it...
since you have talked to him about it and he blew you off... what ... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to be hurt? Or does he feel more empathy for a co-worker about her loss, yet offered me little empathy when I faced the same grief earlier?
Q. Do I have a right to be hurt? A coworker and friend of my husband's just lost her husband. These aren't super close friends we hang out with them a few times a year. The story is he is so concerned about this women I am too I am helping her ...
A. 7 March 2014: You are hurt. Whether or not you have the “right” does not matter. If you are hurt you are hurt. As such you need to let him know ONCE that his behavior bothers you. And it’s not a question of “YOU are upsetting me with YOUR behavior” it’s ... (read in full...)
Should I take it personally that he goes limp during sex?
Q. Sometimes when my boyfriend and I are having sex, he goes limp...I have NEVER had this issue before with anyone I have been with. I haven't had many partners, and he is the first and only one who has been with me since I had a child (3 years ago...
A. 7 March 2014: One Caveat about two condoms at once... they break more easily that way... so if you use condoms for protection from STDs and as birth control I would not use that method.... (read in full...)
I can only get turned on by my girlfriend?!
Q. Hi My problem isnt terrible but I'm worried about it Is it normal to only get turned on by my girlfriend? I can only Masterbate to her. If I watch porn it wouldn't do anything for me it's weird , it took me 2 years of convincng but got her to...
A. 7 March 2014: If you break up with her you will find someone new... but for now she is your one and only and that's perfectly fine.
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't show affection or that she cares!
Q. Hey guys. Quick question. I'm a 30 year old male, dating a 24 year old female. We've been dating for 15 months. I don't really know what to do with our relationship. Every other woman I've ever dated has expressed her feelings in one wa...
A. 7 March 2014: OP I feel your pain. My husband is much like your GF... he's non-demonstrative and he's short on words.
I know for me prior to being with him, every guy I was with was affectionate and demonstrative and verbal about how he felt. I learned t... (read in full...)
I want to trust him but I've been hurt too much!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's been 7 months and I'm happy to say that my last bf and I are no longer together he chose his online life over us and I've found someone new. The man I'm with is like something out of one of those crappy love movies h...
A. 7 March 2014: Not sure how long you have been with the new guy but trust is built over time.... it's earned.
IF he does nothing to make you not trust him, then why are you fighting it?
just relax, go with the flow and enjoy it. Is there a HUGE DECISIO... (read in full...)
How do I get his attraction back before its too late?
Q. I am in desperate need of advice. I have lived with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both in our late 20's. For almost two years now, we have lived together overseas. My boyfriend got a job here and I agreed to move with him with the ...
A. 7 March 2014: You love him with all your heart.
what parts of him do you love?
the part where he lied to you?
the part where he said he wants out?
the part where he mistreats you?
what exactly about him CURRENTLY do you love? Or do you love the pas... (read in full...)
My husband is still friends with his ex-lover who he had an affair with and nearly broke up her marriage!
Q. My husband is still friends with his ex-lover (I'll call her Amber). When we married 8 years ago, I knew he was good friends with a couple in our neighborhood, particularly the wife (Amber) with whom he shared an common interest in golf. Once...
A. 7 March 2014: I think AuntyEm is right.
You are the girl he married so he could continue his contact with Amber. I'm betting that while he was single her husband was not permitting much contact if any.
You say "our daughters are best friends" but you... (read in full...)
Hasn't text me all day.. but got on facebook??
Q. My boyfriend is supposed to be at work today but I haven't talked to him so I really have no idea if he went or not. I text him about 3 hours ago and said "just thinking about you.. love you.. xoxo" and he didn't reply. I didn't think much of it ...
A. 7 March 2014: Should you be upset that he has not gotten back to you? NO
Should you be upset that you expect it? Maybe.
You are sad for the wrong reason. You shouldn’t be sad at all… Honeypie, CindyCares and Cerberus have nailed it.
We in this age of... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend of 2 month its too soon too marry?
Q. I'm 23 plus and my guy lives close to our neighbourhood is 29 plus. we've started dating each other getting to two month. we both love and care for each other so much and now he is asking me to marry him which is too early. and also my parent never ...
A. 7 March 2014: OP why can't you just say "I think it's a bit soon to be talking about marriage"?
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Should I take it personally that he goes limp during sex?
Q. Sometimes when my boyfriend and I are having sex, he goes limp...I have NEVER had this issue before with anyone I have been with. I haven't had many partners, and he is the first and only one who has been with me since I had a child (3 years ago...
A. 7 March 2014: If he loves you it's personal. OH you meant his "going limp"
nope that's not about you at all. sometimes men just sadly lose their erection. It's not about you at all. and I'm sure he's not any happier than you are.... (read in full...)
Feelings of guilt over new relationship
Q. I am a 62 year old retired professional man, and I was widowed a little over two years ago. My late wife and I were married for 32 years, essentially we had a 'good' marriage, and I have one grown up son. Seven months ago (August 2013) I met in s...
A. 7 March 2014: OH OP, your follow up just makes it worse and worse...
Yes you are "in love" but to be honest, NICKY (whether by design or bad manners or lack of knowledge of appropriate behavior) is behaving BADLY.
two months in is not the time to be bu... (read in full...)
Are the obstacles worth it? He lives 12 hours away and doesn't earn a lot.
Q. I love him, but I am tired of long distance and logically, he really doesn't have much to offer. I have been dating a wonderful man for about 6 months. I admire a lot about him, and the time we have gotten to spend in person is wonderful. He li...
A. 6 March 2014: I think that LDRs can work
I think THIS LDR cannot work.
see this article: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-long-distance-relationship-worth-it.html
NOTE that you need to figure that you will spend as much time together whil... (read in full...)
I see his actions as being disrespectful of our time spent together. He sees my reaction as emotionally unstable.
Q. Guy I've been seeing for over a month won't stop texting when I'm around him! Was I out of line by the way I handled this? Is there a better way I should have handled it? I was over at his house. Literally from the time I got there until righ...
A. 6 March 2014: you two are not compatible. I'd not continue this relationship if you want smooth sailing and someone who feels the way you do. He does not feel the same about texting and spending time together as you do.
I don't think your expectations of undiv... (read in full...)
Feelings of guilt over new relationship
Q. I am a 62 year old retired professional man, and I was widowed a little over two years ago. My late wife and I were married for 32 years, essentially we had a 'good' marriage, and I have one grown up son. Seven months ago (August 2013) I met in s...
A. 5 March 2014: OH and one thing I forgot OP
while It bugged me my dad moved on so quickly at first, I have comforted myself with the sociological knowledge that happily married men are the ones that move on (and quicker) to new relationships NOT as a way of d... (read in full...)
Feelings of guilt over new relationship
Q. I am a 62 year old retired professional man, and I was widowed a little over two years ago. My late wife and I were married for 32 years, essentially we had a 'good' marriage, and I have one grown up son. Seven months ago (August 2013) I met in s...
A. 5 March 2014: You are NOT cheating on your dear departed wife.
You have nothing to be guilty about or feel ashamed about.
If your wife loved you (and I'm sure she did) then she would not want you to sit down and die just because she is gone. She is pro... (read in full...)
How far should the "my house, my rules" concept be taken?
Q. I am curious to know your thoughts about the concept of "my house, my rules". Recently there was a question posted by an (over 18) OP living at home with her parents, who wanted to get a piercing against her mother's vigorous oppositi...
A. 5 March 2014: I keep thinking about this.
IF you as a parent do your job properly, then by the time your "child" is legally an adult you will have imparted on them your lifestyle choices, rules and expectations.
that's all we can do as parents... we Rais... (read in full...)
Nude pantyhose or sheer black? Help!
Q. I am a female in her early 30's. my boyfriend and I are going on an overnight cruise out of NYC this weekend. I bought a "dressy casual" dress. Green top and lace bottom with a white pattern under the lace. I have black closed heeled shoes. My legs ...
A. 5 March 2014: since the dress is two toned and patterned... go for nude or "suntan" black would be too busy....
In order to get the sheerness desired (for dressy looks) you have to spend about 10 dollars on one pair of stockings and they are so fragi... (read in full...)
Do her actions indicate that she still in love with her ex?
Q. I have a very simple question if a women keeps pictures of her and her ex husband even though there divorced and he's with a new women and they have a baby together and but she has these pictures posted on her facebook page of their wedding day and ...
A. 5 March 2014: If it's me the answer is no she's not still in love with her ex. She's just a mature woman who does not feel the need to deny her past while moving forward with her future.
... (read in full...)
How far should the "my house, my rules" concept be taken?
Q. I am curious to know your thoughts about the concept of "my house, my rules". Recently there was a question posted by an (over 18) OP living at home with her parents, who wanted to get a piercing against her mother's vigorous oppositi...
A. 5 March 2014: To the anonymous male poster, Does the fact that the “child” has what you perceive as a sense of entitlement and an air or superiority (I didn’t sense that as much as frustration with her parents’ lifestyle choices not matching her desires) matter ... (read in full...)
How far should the "my house, my rules" concept be taken?
Q. I am curious to know your thoughts about the concept of "my house, my rules". Recently there was a question posted by an (over 18) OP living at home with her parents, who wanted to get a piercing against her mother's vigorous oppositi...
A. 5 March 2014: WOW! GREAT question.....
IF an adult child lives in a parents home (either through the grace of the parents or by paying rent) and they abide by the HOUSE rules, I do think that the parents need to back off and let the "child" explore thei... (read in full...)
I get angry when my fiancee doesn't help me much
Q. I have a learning disability and she my fiancee has. She doesn't help me when I can't think on my own sometimes. Like she opened an account before I did and they accepted her credit union information and not mine at social security office. And no...
A. 5 March 2014: OP, you assume she does not care about you, but maybe to her making those suggestions indicates a lack of faith in your abilities. Perhaps she felt you were wise enough and able to make these decisions and choices on your own without help. IF you ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 5 March 2014: CindyCares (as usual) is 100% correct.
Practice makes perfect and you can easily practice on girls that are "above your standard" WOW... so many young women complain they can't get a date because guys won't approach them.
THIS GIRL tha... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a guy I dated? I've moved on, he hasn't.
Q. Hi everyone, I need advice on my situation. I met a guy back in December who was really lovely and had a great personality. I wasn't really attracted to him like that but he asked me out on a date and as I wasn't seeing anybody at the time I kind ...
A. 4 March 2014: this guy is doing everything in his power to hurt your feelings and you are tiptoeing around?
unfriend him, block him and live your life.
... (read in full...)
I get angry when my fiancee doesn't help me much
Q. I have a learning disability and she my fiancee has. She doesn't help me when I can't think on my own sometimes. Like she opened an account before I did and they accepted her credit union information and not mine at social security office. And no...
A. 4 March 2014: OP, is it possible they didn't accept your bank information because you have to have a rep payee? ( I work for SSA so I get the whole rep payee thing my son is on SSI and has to have a rep payee and he could have written your post.. oh I hope you ... (read in full...)
Girls, would you date a guy who isn't funny?
Q. Girls say all the time that they want guys who are funny, well the truth is, that not everybody can make everybody laugh and be the life at the party. Some guys like me are not funny or sarcastic and generally don't have a sense of humor. I'll n...
A. 4 March 2014: My husband is humor impaired. It makes my life very difficult as i am very sarcastic.
IF you get jokes and you can enjoy funny things, then it's not a total wash... being able to make jokes is a skill not everyone has, but it doesn't mean... (read in full...)
Live-in boyfriend lied and went to a strip club behind my back... now my family is telling me to just get over it!
Q. I've been dating my bf for 7 months. Things moved really fast for us so please no rude comments about that. We met through my brother, they are coworkers. He started hanging out and after. A Few weeks he asked me out on a date. After the date he ...
A. 4 March 2014: for me the concern is the lying... but I can almost see why he did it.. it was what was NOT planned and it sort of happened. Since he didn't mention it when he got home late or the next morning when things are rushed... perhaps he intended to ... (read in full...)
My man wants to sleep with the traveling chick we picked up in MY van...
Q. So me (24) and my boyfriend (42) pick up a traveling girl, we helped her break up with her boyfriend. Well my BF had been talking about bringing another girl into the bedroom with us... I'm not really into sharing and I warned him I might hurt her ...
A. 4 March 2014: At 24 you should RUN from this creep as soon as you can.
he's disrespecting you. he does not care about you... all he cares about is keeping his dick warm in any available spot.
He's all about HIM not you or your "coupledom". YOU ha... (read in full...)
My parents don't have faith in my long distance relationship
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm in a LD relationship with a man I met at a speed dating event in September 2013. Five to six months later, we're still going strong and he's planning a visit to my home state in two weeks. In Jan 2014, I spent six days with him an...
A. 4 March 2014: So would you move to NYC for your career even if he was not there? IF so then, make it so.
If you need to have a man there to make the move easier, then by all means use that too.
I did an LDR with my now husband for a year. It was suppose... (read in full...)
A man I dated returned to his ex without telling me but I can't stop thinking about him
Q. Hi i met this man last year i really liked him but he went back to his ex without getting in touch to tell me. i gave him another chance in january we met up both drunk and ended up having sex. i know this was a mistake now i haven't heard from him...
A. 4 March 2014: Unfriend him, block him, delete his number from your phone and block him if possible.
IGNORING HIM 100% will help you move on.
go on your date but pretend you are a 15 yr old virgin... keep it relaxed.. no talk of sex or prior partners... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 4 March 2014: “Well I had a Caucasian lady in my evening class asked if our papers were due which I thought initially was a bit odd because the professor mention it several times the due date.
But I see this Indian girl in there who catches my attention. Mayb... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 28 February 2014: Do you go shopping? do you ever see a lovely young lady in a shopping line and say "i wish I could date her?"
that's where you start... "lousy weather we're having" works great in the USA now.... it's lousy everywhere... then a smile...... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 21 February 2014: Just one more nail in your "logic" coffin
Men outnumber women. http://www.geohive.com/earth/pop_gender.aspx
and if that's too hard to grasp:
http://unstats.un.org/unsd/Demographic/products/indwm/
has breakdowns of:
ratio
size
d... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 20 February 2014: OP… we are trying to help you but you only want us to help you the way you are comfortable being helped. This is not going to work for us. And it won’t help you. Part of becoming an adult is learning to step outside your comfort zone.
Your ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 19 February 2014: Anything is possible for anyone but the problem is you think that going to an escort will solve your problem when all it will do is make it worse.
Just experiencing sex will not fix your internal issues and may actually make it worse.
Se... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 18 February 2014: OP you are your own worst enemy.
you say you can say hello to random guys and make friends.
what makes women so magical that you can't do the same to them? Have you ever considered just being FRIENDS with a girl? why treat them differently... (read in full...)
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