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12 October 2011: While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...
Is Pornography cheating?
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1 May 2011: The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
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Husband having sex with me while sleeping
Q. I'm a happily married woman but lately I've been encountering problems with my husband.first a roving eye which caused me to have a very low self confidence,then a porn addiction to which I was livid with, which he overcame or so I thought but now ...
A. 19 October 2010: That is legally rape. If you are asleep, you cannot consent. That is why you feel unsafe at night, and no one should be in a relationship where they feel unsafe or even uncomfortable. You need to get out before he takes it further. If you're ... (read in full...)
He watches porn every single day while I am asleep
Q. I've been with my fiance for 5 years now. We have our second child on the way, he's a great guy and a great dad, however I am having a big issue with him. He watches porn EVERY SINGLE DAY when I am asleep, and it's starting to really bother me. I ...
A. 19 October 2010: It sounds like he's just been in the habit of watching pornography every day for so long, that it's a problem to go a day without. In other words, a habitual user. Since he is getting so defensive about the issue but it's also driving you apart, you ... (read in full...)
I know he loves me, but doesn't want me. Porn is his turn on!
Q. My husband is always watching porn. It's gotten so bad he doesn't want to touch me if he can't run to the bathroom to view porn on his phone. He watches it at work. When we are alone. When we have tv time. If I want to have sex with him he tells me ...
A. 19 October 2010: He clearly has an addiction if he's choosing porn over a live person. You can try your hardest to get him to see there's a problem, but in the end if he won't see it, you can't make him see it and you'll have to leave him. Someone who was serious ... (read in full...)
My husband needs to clean up! Please help!
Q. I've been married to my husband for almost 19 years. We have no children and probably won't at this point since we are both in our 40's now. We have cats we love and adore so this kind of fills the parenthood gap for us. We are pretty happy and get ...
A. 18 October 2010: Have you tried showing him this post? Or better yet, have you tried talking about it? Not just mentioning in the heat of the moment, but really talked?... (read in full...)
You can say its only sex for him but it still hurt.
Q. after sleeping with someone and talking after the guy saying he wants to sleep and i messing around saying ill take a picture of u asleep and post it on fb which i was only messing but he replied no dont do that people might get the wrong idea I...
A. 18 October 2010: I think before you continue with anything, before you have sex again, you need to both lay out what your intentions are. It seems like he just wants someone to have sex with and pretend she doesn't exist (so he can pick up other girls) and you want ... (read in full...)
Is Lovemaking Needed for a Relationship to Survive?
Q. Is it necessary for a couple to be physically intimate for the relationship to survive?...
A. 18 October 2010: Yes. Unless you have some kind of agreement otherwise due to illness or something, yes. That is the difference between a relationship and a friendship. It's very important. If something isn't working out, you need to talk about it and figure out a ... (read in full...)
She says she didn't cheat, should I believe her?
Q. My girlfriend has had this guy "friend" for i don't know how long. Longer than she has known me. She went to go hang out at his house one night. She ended up staying the night over there. I saw her the next day and she said they were just watching ...
A. 18 October 2010: She has no respect for you. Regardless of whether or not she cheated, it's disrespectful to fall asleep in some other guy's bed. It's extremely hypocritical to be yelling at you for just looking at other people, all the while she's still sleeping in ... (read in full...)
Is going forward with a wedding, while keeping a big secret from one's fiancee a bad idea?
Q. Cheated on my fiancee a bit over a year ago. Have been together for 5 years. We got engaged over the summer and are getting married next month. She doesn't know that I had a short affair while we were dating (4 years into the relationship). I think ...
A. 18 October 2010: The only reason to tell her would be to stop feeling guilty. It's not for her sake to tell her, it's for yourself. To help you sleep at night. At a certain point, so long as you won't do it again and there's no way of finding out, ignorance really ... (read in full...)
Husband masturbates to porn videos but doesn't get an erection with me
Q. My husband and me are both 27 years old.We been together for almost 6 years.for the last few months,he hasn't been able to get an erection.when is does,he only last about 2minutes before he non funtional.he says it has nothing to do with me.I was ...
A. 18 October 2010: Yes, that is what's going on. It sounds like he's developed an addiction to pornography. He needs to go seek help from a counselor, because this truly is an addiction and requires outside help. Google pornography addiction and there are many groups ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 18 October 2010: "I'm saying that, just as one spouse may have to go without sometimes, it's only fair for the other to put out for a quickie now and again."
I agree with this completely and get a lot of flack for saying it on other posts. If me or my partner (who... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he loves me, yet is putting out personal ads on craiglist
Q. I have been going out with my bf now for 1yr and a half. We moved to a different state together and are living together.He "says" he loves me and am the only one for him and he wanted to get married and have kids. Then i found out a couple months ...
A. 18 October 2010: Leave him. He's planning on cheating if he hasn't already. Even if he wasn't, it's such blatant disrespect that you really can't expect him to stay totally faithful in the future. Find someone who's more respectful to you. I'm sorry this happened.... (read in full...)
I finish her, but she never makes sure to finish me
Q. My girlfriend never finishes me off. I love her very much, but i find that her lack of sexual interest pushes part of me away. I have tried talking to her about it straight forwardly, and tried to insinuate it by making her feel sexy by praising ...
A. 18 October 2010: I think you need to make it clear how important this is. She sounds like she's being quite frankly, lazy and selfish about this. It's very understandable you'd start to feel unloved, or like you're drifting apart due to this. I would have a really ... (read in full...)
Why not with me? I want the things other men got!
Q. My wife has had a lot of sexual experience! Tons of boys as a teen, and I know what she did in bed with her ex husband. But... with me? It's plain ol' sex. Why? I want the things other men got. Is it because she is getting older? Am I boring? I have ...
A. 18 October 2010: "It's plain ol' sex. Why? I want the things other men got."
First off, what's wrong with "plain ol' sex?" Isn't sex fun even if she's not doing whatever crazy thing it was she did with her ex? Second, I here a touch of what I hear from kids I've... (read in full...)
Boyfriend ejaculates but doesn't orgasm. Any suggestions?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the past 6 months and we are having problems in the bedroom. He has never had an orgasm, he still ejaculates but he doesn't orgasm. I didn't even know that they were two different things until I met him. ...
A. 18 October 2010: Well then the only thing you can do is go to the doctor, who will probably refer him to a psychologist. Good luck.... (read in full...)
What is this zit on my vagina?
Q. I have a zit or what looks like a zit on my vagina. I dont know what it is or what to do. I'm a virgin so I know it's not a STD. Please help...
A. 17 October 2010: I know it sounds gross, but it's actually fairly common to get zits on your genitalia. You can prevent them by washing daily with a non-scented gentle soap and by wearing clean breathable underwear.... (read in full...)
Insecurities about my dick!
Q. My penis is just shy of 6 inches long and 4.75 inches around - my girlfriend had a larger than average pussy - I can get 4 fingers in her when wet easily and she says she has had larger dicks than mine before - she reckons 7/7.5 inches long and ...
A. 17 October 2010: Most women don't care that much about penis size. We don't have that many nerve endings inside our vaginas. It's all about how you can use your pubic bone to rub her clitoris or how you can add in your fingers and how good you are at using your ... (read in full...)
Lost virginity?
Q. My boyfriend fingered me hard by inserting 3 fingers into my vagina. Then the very next day I found brown stains on my panties. Have I lost my virginity already?...
A. 17 October 2010: You can break your hymen in any number of ways but it has nothing to do with your virginity. The only way you can lose your virginity is if someone inserts a penis into your vagina. Have you had a penis in your vagina? If not, you're still a virgin.... (read in full...)
I am very much in love with my cousin.
Q. I am very much in love with my cousin. i really want to make her mine but she says she does not love me. i tried all the way. first i winked at her ( it was before [proposing her) she just smiled away. is it because she is interested? or she took it ...
A. 17 October 2010: No. If you really loved her you wouldn't try to rape her. You clearly don't respect her enough to not stop touching her when she struggles to pull her hand away, you clearly don't respect her enough to throw her on the bed and nearly rape her, and ... (read in full...)
Insecurities about my dick!
Q. My penis is just shy of 6 inches long and 4.75 inches around - my girlfriend had a larger than average pussy - I can get 4 fingers in her when wet easily and she says she has had larger dicks than mine before - she reckons 7/7.5 inches long and ...
A. 17 October 2010: Most women don't care that much about penis size. We don't have that many nerve endings inside our vaginas. It's all about how you can use your pubic bone to rub her clitoris or how you can add in your fingers and how good you are at using your ... (read in full...)
What can we do about his jealousy problems stemming from his past relationships?
Q. My boyfriend's marriage ended due to his wife cheating. His next 2 girlfriends also cheated on him. Now in our relationship, I can not go out with my friends or visit my son who works as a bartender without it starting verbal fights. If I look too ...
A. 17 October 2010: This is extremely unhealthy behavior and needs to stop. You need to tell him that he needs to learn to control his jealousy or he'll drive you two apart. It's very controlling to be so jealous and he's preventing you from fully enjoying your life ... (read in full...)
Has she got a sixth sense or something?
Q. Hey all. Am in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. Its been hard since its a long distance relationship and we're both at colleges. Bt we've managed so far. Is it possible 2 end up together later in life? Coz thats what she and i ...
A. 17 October 2010: It's probably in your head. You meet some woman and then the next time you hear from her, you feel guilt. When you say with a woman, do you mean cheating or just being friends? If you're cheating, then no you won't be together later in life. But if ... (read in full...)
I refuse to be with someone who would be into that stuff!
Q. Ok so im dating a guy for about 3 months now. I moved with him and everythng seems fine. Except one thing. We got a computer from his friend and downloaded limewire. A few times i caught him downloading porn. I didnt make a deal about it. But then ...
A. 17 October 2010: He's probably lying. Child porn is 100% illegal. Of course he'd lie, who wants to admit they masturbate to children getting raped? I wouldn't say you should report him to the police for it, but you shouldn't be with someone who enjoys watching ... (read in full...)
If I marry my 3rd cousin and we have children, will they be born with birth defects?
Q. hello everyone, well i have been dating my third cousin for 7months now. My mom does not approve and my dad is like watever, he says if that makes me happy then to do what ever i want. He is 8 years older than me and im 18 so you do the math. well ...
A. 17 October 2010: A 3rd cousin is barely more related to you than anyone else. You're barely more likely to have genetic defects than if you weren't related. I wouldn't worry too much about it.... (read in full...)
I am very much in love with my cousin.
Q. I am very much in love with my cousin. i really want to make her mine but she says she does not love me. i tried all the way. first i winked at her ( it was before [proposing her) she just smiled away. is it because she is interested? or she took it ...
A. 17 October 2010: You must leave her alone. She's probably scared out of her mind of you because you tried to rape her. You need to just cut yourself out of her life and never touch her again. You can't just rape someone because you're attracted and they're not ... (read in full...)
Voice your opinion on giving 12 year old children iPhones and the access to FREE PORN that Safari browser gives them.
Q. I would just like to know what parents out there or any one for that matter thinks about the fact that in our society we protect our children from movies with inappropriate sexual content with NC-17 ratings, but we hand them and iPhone as young as ...
A. 17 October 2010: Porn as it is nowadays is absolutely terrible for kids. A bunch of new studies just came out about this topic, and it's the focus of what I've been studying. The problem is that there aren't many studies on the topic because of the ethical problems ... (read in full...)
I realized that he was watching porn as I was cooking his dinner. Why does he hurt me this way?
Q. im with my bf 9 months now and when i got with him things werent so good as i just split up from an x things got really good and i changed everything for him how i dressed my friends and feel like a totally new person. he has accused me of looking ...
A. 16 October 2010: I agree it's someone who's completely hypocritical who would angrily accuse you of just looking at other clothed men in a fit of paranoia, and then constantly surf porn. You should leave pictures of hot men with 6 packs and big biceps around and ... (read in full...)
I realized that he was watching porn as I was cooking his dinner. Why does he hurt me this way?
Q. im with my bf 9 months now and when i got with him things werent so good as i just split up from an x things got really good and i changed everything for him how i dressed my friends and feel like a totally new person. he has accused me of looking ...
A. 16 October 2010: I agree it's someone who's completely hypocritical who would angrily accuse you of just looking at other clothed men in a fit of paranoia, and then constantly surf porn. You should leave pictures of hot men with 6 packs and big biceps around and ... (read in full...)
Men like girls who are bald?
Q. I've always shaved down there. I can't always get the hair completely bald off of the lip area though, so there is always hair though. I recently got in a relationship, and I am kind of worried that the guy might be turned off by a bit of the hair. ...
A. 16 October 2010: You should relax a little about how much hair you have. It's natural to have hair there. You're not trying to look 10, you're a mature woman. The only guys I've met who demand a clean shaven girl are the ones who, well let's just say they're not the ... (read in full...)
Should I accept my boyfriend's mother's facebook friends request?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend's mum has sent me a friend request on facebook, and i dont know whether to add her or not. We get on pretty well, but i had a look at her profile without confirming the friend request, and she sometimes writes ...
A. 15 October 2010: If you don't accept her she'll most likely be extremely offended. There's really no harm in it. Plus you can change privacy setting immediately. I doubt she'll know if you block your wall and stuff. Since she's a friend of your bf's as well, there's ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for your vagina to loosen?
Q. I've been having sex with my boyfriend rather often but it was until today after we had sex, my vagina loosen alot and the feeling of it was like, flabby. I didn't know why but i was really affected by it. Then we had sex again and i did not enjoy ...
A. 15 October 2010: It's supposed to loosen up when you get aroused. When you become aroused it expands to the size of your fist. There's nothing you can do about it other than to stop enjoying sex. It's supposed to be big and engorged, and supposed to get very wet ... (read in full...)
Should I propose, even though I can't afford it?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over 2 years and we've spoken before about getting married.I know she would like to get engaged,because she told me,and i do to,she hinted about new years eve.Thing is,if we do get engaged,i wouldnt ...
A. 15 October 2010: You can always ask her to marry you and then hold off until you can afford it. Even if you don't do anything other than tell her you love her and ask her to marry you, but not for a few years, then you can both be happy. Unless of course you don't ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me figure out what she meant?
Q. My wife has an active fantasy life and requires lots of attention. Recently, she asked me to spank her--she said the idea of being spanked excited her, but then afterwards said that it was disappointing, that I "didn't do it right." I guess she ...
A. 15 October 2010: A lot of fantasies do best if they remain fantasies. Like it sounds great in your head, but then when you try it in real life, it's awkward/embarrassing, or weird, or just downright unpleasant. That's most likely what happened here, and she probably ... (read in full...)
Raised my stepdaughter as my real child up until I caught her having sex
Q. I am 44 and have been happily married for 10 years. I have no children of my own, but my wife has a daughter from a previous marriage. I love her to death and raised her as my own since she was 6 years old. She is now 16, turning 17 in 2 months ...
A. 15 October 2010: For the cost of counseling, normally I wouldn't say lying is EVER the best course of action, but in this case, I'd tell your wife that you feel traumatized by walking in on her or something along those lines. Nothing good can come from telling your ... (read in full...)
Why would my coworker act this way?
Q. Why would a man do this? Theres this man where I work who has really been pushing it with me lately. He initiates conversations with me then starts asking me about whether I watch porn, that I should go browse dvd stores with my partner, and sta...
A. 15 October 2010: If he brings it up again, report him to a boss or someone in some kind of position of authority. This is sexual harassment and needs to stop.... (read in full...)
15 and 3 months late for period but all the tests are negative!
Q. i need help...i am 15 years old and i am 3 months late for my period. i am having all the symptoms of pregnancy but ive taken four pregnancy tests but they all came back negative. do u think i could be having false negatives or its just all in my ...
A. 15 October 2010: Those tests are extremely accurate so you're probably not pregnant. You need to go to a doctor so they can check for hormonal imbalances that can cause you to skip your period.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend ejaculates but doesn't orgasm. Any suggestions?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the past 6 months and we are having problems in the bedroom. He has never had an orgasm, he still ejaculates but he doesn't orgasm. I didn't even know that they were two different things until I met him. ...
A. 15 October 2010: Hi I know I wasn't the one to originally put the name on it, but I'm familiar with the problem, and it's not always (or even mostly) a problem with women, or a problem letting go. It's really the type of thing that he needs to go to a doctor for, ... (read in full...)
My problem is that I have a bent penis, and don't know if I can really pleasure her!
Q. Well, this is a subject that I've tried to research a lot on and I really can't seem to come up with a good answer. My problem is that I have a bent penis. It's pent to the left at about 30 or 40 degrees. My girlfriend says she sometimes feels ...
A. 14 October 2010: As women we really don't have many nerve endings in our vagina. When we enjoy sex it comes from a full feeling (which doesn't require a big penis, just something in there), the stimulation of our labia, and the stimulation of the clitoris (and it ... (read in full...)
Why am I sexually attracted to older men? Much, Much older men.
Q. I am sexually attracted to older men probably around the ages of 40-60's. I never been with an older man, but I fantasize about having sex with them. I tried reading about people with this "issue", but most of them like older men because of their ...
A. 14 October 2010: Sounds like you just have some kind of fetish. It's healthy to fantasize about, but I wouldn't act on it. Mostly due to the fact that any guy that age who would be into dating someone your age is most definitely a slimeball. But you are free to ... (read in full...)
I think my b/f is just waiting for me to dump him
Q. Hi everyone! I checked my bf on facebook, his status says "i am separated and i am looking for dating" and the other one says " if your gf slap you what can you do?tell me then i wil tell you what i did", since we have been together(3 yrs) i never ...
A. 14 October 2010: He's being a coward and trying to make you dump him so he doesn't have to do it. Dump him and find someone less cowardly.... (read in full...)
I'm worried we're not having sex often enough and that he's gone off me!
Q. is my boyfriend of 9 months going off me? He hardly ever initiates sex anymore. He's never been a highly sexed person but this past month it's dwindled down to 1-2 times per week. He has brought it up and says it worries him that we're not havin...
A. 14 October 2010: Guys tend to be more straightforward about this stuff. It's the reason that you'll sometimes ask if your dress makes you look fat and you'll get a, "yeah kinda" or something. So if you ask about something serious, like the amount of sex you're ... (read in full...)
Pregnant wife questions husband's fidelity after finding sex profile
Q. I'm eight months pregnant and I recently found out that my husband has a sex profile on a website that he frequently visits. I learned this from a friend who stumbled across it on her search for whatever. She sent me a link and the most recent time ...
A. 14 October 2010: sexlessintheuk is spot on. Before making a big commitment, like having a baby, getting married, etc... a lot of people (guys especially though) have a total panic attack and go crazy. I don't think he cheated, he sounds like he was being honest with ... (read in full...)
Raised my stepdaughter as my real child up until I caught her having sex
Q. I am 44 and have been happily married for 10 years. I have no children of my own, but my wife has a daughter from a previous marriage. I love her to death and raised her as my own since she was 6 years old. She is now 16, turning 17 in 2 months ...
A. 13 October 2010: No don't talk to your wife. You need to seek professional help so you can get your relationship with your daughter back to normal.... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 12 October 2010: Yeah I read the article when it came out. When women aren't making $0.80 to every dollar men make, which is actually more like $.40 to the dollar when you factor in how much more of childcare and healthcare women usually have to pay, when women hold ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 12 October 2010: Just because a female virgin is desired, doesn't make it any less sexist. It's not desired for any natural reason, it is simply because men, being in a more sexually privileged group, feel they are more entitled to feel angry and jealous than women ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend ejaculates but doesn't orgasm. Any suggestions?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the past 6 months and we are having problems in the bedroom. He has never had an orgasm, he still ejaculates but he doesn't orgasm. I didn't even know that they were two different things until I met him. ...
A. 11 October 2010: I've heard of this before, he should go talk to a doctor about it to see if counseling would help, since I'd imagine it's a psychological holdup.... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 11 October 2010: First to address the rape statistic, sorry I haven't looked at the statistics since high school, but according to Rainn.org (the largest American group working to end rape) the number is actually 1 in 6 now. Sorry for misrepresenting. Other than an ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 10 October 2010: Yes I read that article in NY Mag. I wasn't particularly interested in the article but I did read through every single last comment. I couldn't help it. I got interested from seeing the anger around the issue on this website, and then the comments ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 4 October 2010: I agree about faking it, I never understood why it became so OK to fake it. It's so deceitful! I can't even imagine how much that would hurt, to be a guy and find out you don't rock her world as much as you thought you did. Plus all it does is ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 3 October 2010: "It common knowledge that for every one lie a man tells, the women tells ten."
Um, excuse me? That's an incredibly sexist assumption, just like that response in the marriage post saying white women are selfish and you won't date them anymore. I assu... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 1 October 2010: He could respect her wishes and stop. I know that some of the lying is about protecting her from hurt feelings, but a lot of the lying is also so he doesn't have to face up to the reality that he's hurting her and to avoid dealing with her getting ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 25 September 2010: "In the US, the whopping 85% reduction in rape in the last 25 years tracks almost exactly with a corresponding increase in availability of porn"
I've seen the study you're referring to and it has some flaws. First off, the significant reduction in r... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 22 September 2010: "most men don't want to understand because then we wouldn't be able to justify ourselves being able to watch it,"
Right on the money. Because you can't justify a need for porn beyond a need to get off to other women. There is no other way to just... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 21 September 2010: Because it's lying and hiding. Why is it so difficult to understand why lying and hiding something that hurts her, is hurtful? You say it's to spare her feelings. Yes, I get that, we all get that. But it's exactly the same reason people lie about ... (read in full...)
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