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We're going on a double date, but she wants to bring along a guy she thinks is hot!

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Question - (23 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been seeing this girl for a while recently . and we have been on and off dating. right now we are in one of those off parts of the relationship. But we are so close to eachother that we still go out like we are still dating . its hard to explain. we are going to an amusement park on thursday and wants her best friend to tag along ( who is a girl) and i said thats fine because i havent really met this girl that much . her best friend has a male room mate we'll call him "mark" and she has said hes hot . and a few times when we were drunk.. she claims nothing is happening and that he has someone in his life but they arent official but for me not to worry . well, she informed me that her best friend is bringing her boyfriend and that mark will be tagging along as well.. this doesnt rubb off on me very well. and if i tell her shes gonna get all mad about it . what do i do ? do I go about and just take everyone? or just make up some excuse not to go? what should I tell her ?

and what would be some good excuses. if i need one that is ..

thanks everyone

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2010):

Miamine agony auntOn/Off relationship, double dating, she brings "hot guy" and spare friend for you...

This is not a proper relationship, you two are just friends with no commitment.. I suggest you keep this relationship on "OFF" from now on.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2010):

My friend, I think it's time to take of those rose tinted love glasses and see what you're dealing with here. Your relationship with this girl is on/off all the time, which means that it's not working at all. And, it has to be said that she does seem a bit more interested in this guy Mark more than you. I think the time has come for you to move on here.

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