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Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 2 December 2011: "Boris, there is a third option: find a girl with values and morals towards intimacy that are the same as yours. They are rare, but to me, they are worth looking for." Well, I'm that kind of girl... my sexual history is so low, that I can tell ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 23 January 2011: OCD and obsession... but you speak as if you have no choices. The thoughts come and you decide to allow the "horror" movie to play in your mind and drive you insane.
I know it's not as easy as it sounds, but thoughts can be controlled through ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 January 2011: Somewhatdamaged,
Tisha is right, it sounds like you badly need professional help and counselling. Your situation is slightly different from the usual RJ cases we here, and I suspect there is anger, hatred and guilt, over wrong choices that have... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 30 August 2010: This interesting post has come up again.. I'd like to repost something pyroshadow said which I thought was very helpful.
"You should be trying to help him. Trying to tell him that its not his fault he loves someone who has done such awful things. ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 24 August 2010: It's a pleasure to read your posts, you seem to be doing so well in life and meeting your challenges and overcoming them one by one...
You must be very proud of yourself.. :)... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 21 August 2010: "when I get into these debates my ratings on this site go WAY down (from above 8 to usually around 7.5)" (anon)
So that's how it's done... good thing that I aint really worried about my ratings, cause I would have left a long time ago.. but it s... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 16 August 2010: Actually, picking up the morality part... many guys with this retrograde jealousy make a point of pointing out that the values of the woman who sleeps around disgusts them very much...
This is the point that Odds and Pyroshadow were trying t... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: Men and women BOTH, encourage the idea of the promiscuous male super stud lover.. :)... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "But as you admit sometimes you speak too soon rather than taking the time to reflect on what has been said. I think this has happened here."
@ Yos....
I hate that word Slut.... grrrrr
But yes, I was wrong... :)... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "The only people who seem to approve of man-sluts are women themselves (evidenced by the fact that they, by definition, continue to date and sleep with man-sluts), and not even all of those by a long shot."
You have a very strange view of the worl... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "Since when is it "OK" for a man to be promiscuous?"
Men are called studs and applauded by other men when they ;have sex with many women. Men and boys boast about the amount of women they have slept with and always lie and say the number is high.... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 August 2010: Ah.. thank you Yos.. finally I understand the feelings people get through Retrograde jealousy. I have clinical depression and in the past I have felt bad enough to try to end my life... It wasn't rational, and it wasn't controlable and ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 August 2010: Yes, anon, I asked Pyroshadow the same question, but it hasn't come through, so I'll ask it again, and no judgement is meant.....
Is the feelings of jealousy really as strong as the complete devastation and worthlessness people feel when they hav... (read in full...)
Porn after sex
Q. Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...
A. 13 August 2010: Your still angry.. sorry.. but that's what I and the other lady see.. sorry if he made you doubt yourself..
But... I think you may be right about joining in and seeing if porn still holds the same thrill... I really would love to know what he ... (read in full...)
His ex-girlfriend is still in the picture
Q. Please forgive me if I seem to be rude I am just going to ask my question and might get a little into it. So please forgive me before hand. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We had are on and off times. Our off times whe...
A. 13 August 2010: Nope, got no actions, as I said, your behaviour was wrong and it's sad that you can see it. Anyway, your problems have been solved now.... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 12 August 2010: Oh dear, Pyroshadow, your one of the people I'm talking about who is helping me learn to understand this jealousy thing...
As I said, I'm still pondering hard about the last question you set... ... (read in full...)
Porn for women?
Q. [OP original title] Hi there. With all these porn questions flying around... I just had to ask: where can I find the porn for women? Guys have their places for porn, and it is quite easy to come by. But as we women know, they don't really work fo...
A. 11 August 2010: Things like the Emanuel series of films, which are soft enough to be shown on British TV.. Art house (foreign films) also show sex and nudity and are women friendly. Amateur pornography (use google) is usually non-offensive and shows couples being ... (read in full...)
His ex-girlfriend is still in the picture
Q. Please forgive me if I seem to be rude I am just going to ask my question and might get a little into it. So please forgive me before hand. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We had are on and off times. Our off times whe...
A. 11 August 2010: Yes, I can say with my hand on my heart, I have never acted like this, or used advantages to get other people in trouble.
Threatening someone with the police because your father works there, is the actions of a bully... that is what bullies ... (read in full...)
I am repulsed by my feelings for my teacher
Q. what would you do if you were in my situation? After a few years of non-stop studying, I am terrify to find out I possess some sort of feeling toward a teacher in my school.(and yes, I am a highschool student with hormones running strong) I didn'...
A. 10 August 2010: Oh no babes, please do not be angry with yourself for the way you feel. There is nothing wrong with liking or loving someone. If someone makes you feel happy, there is nothing wrong with that. You have done nothing wrong, you feel how you feel.
... (read in full...)
My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?
Q. hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...
A. 10 August 2010: Yippie...missed that... well done you, and good luck.... (read in full...)
I need immediate help.. please! I'm being blackmailed!
Q. I need immediate help, please. Before I explain my situation, I just want the people to know that I'm not really.. 'this' kind of a person. I don't know why I acted this way, and now I'm paying the price for my stupidity. I've always been independ...
A. 10 August 2010: Dear anon, your post has worried me... please put in your own post and explain your situation.
We never heard from the lady again, but we hope, as her last message said that she is on her way to the police.... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 10 August 2010: Anon, I can hear your hurt and your pain... but you can't change people, you can only change yourself.. I always perfer couples to compromise on the issues of pornography. But if they can't, you can always leave the guy who hurts you so much.
... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 10 August 2010: Q... you know I like "Don't ask, don't tell, and don't search" when it comes to pornography... it's awful, but things were better before the woman's revolution and the internet... men have always looked at porn, but women didn't notice because they ... (read in full...)
Would you contact/meet your first love? After a long time apart?
Q. [OP Original title] Hi there, A General Question. Given the chance, how many of you would contact/meet up with yr 1st Love....and would you do it if you were married/in a realtionship? Cheers ...
A. 10 August 2010: Would meet my 1st love, would tell my partner.. it's always nice to meet old friends.. make sure you meet them in a public space, and if you find that you would like to see them again, make sure your partner comes along the next time..
Don't... (read in full...)
His ex-girlfriend is still in the picture
Q. Please forgive me if I seem to be rude I am just going to ask my question and might get a little into it. So please forgive me before hand. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We had are on and off times. Our off times whe...
A. 10 August 2010: You got big jealousy problems if you call the police on some woman that goes out and tries to get something to eat...
You better fix up yourself and stop bullying people, that is something unattractive in you and is probably one of the things w... (read in full...)
A good way to let my parents know I'm pregnant?
Q. where to start well im 17 years old i go to college studying business and have been with my boyfriend nearly 6 months... anyway last week i found i am 3 and half months pregnant.. i have spoke about it to my boyfriend and his family and i have ...
A. 10 August 2010: Your 17.. you are legally able to have sex at 16, and are able to work and earn a living.. that makes you a young adult..
Yes they'll be disappointed with you, all parents expect their children to be rich and famous, they expect them to be the n... (read in full...)
Douching & sponge, what on earth?!
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...
A. 10 August 2010: Dear aunts, this young lady is terrified of getting pregnant.. she will be using the contraceptive pill.. the problem is she wants to use all the contraception available at the same time, so pregnancy becomes an impossibility...
She thinks t... (read in full...)
Married and need to feel the connection again
Q. I need some guidance, I've always considered myself a self sorter/independant/get on with it kind of girl but my current sitation has left me flumaxed! Im late 30s and been in a relationship with my husband for 15 years..married for 5 years...2 ...
A. 10 August 2010: I have a ton of suggestions that might help.. but there is no point in telling you until you decide whether you want to stay married, try to change things and regain the happiness you once had...
People fall in love, it's nice and exciting... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 10 August 2010: I'm one of the "shut up and get over it brigade.. the past is the past", but with the help from you men brave enough to tell their stories, I'm learning my advice is not helpful at all...
I'm learning...
But, I speak to a lot of women who suf... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 10 August 2010: Hey Q, we done with arguing now.. the orginal poster is looking for solutions and suggestions...
Look at kneeling 69, do you think if she asks to try that it will keep porn of his mind for a little while?...... (read in full...)
Why wont he ask me out? I really want him to!
Q. Hey people please someone answer this for me. I really like this guy and all his frends tell me he is constantly talking about me and he really likes me they have been telling me this for about 2 months now, when he's with me I can see the way he ...
A. 10 August 2010: Oh babes, I'm sorry... well.. he wasn't the right guy for you.. you tried, you met.. for whatever reason he wasn't your soulmate...
Don't be sorry or ashamed you tried.. the only failure is when your frightened of life and too scared to go after... (read in full...)
Porn after sex
Q. Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...
A. 10 August 2010: Sigh.. now we can answer your question...
"How do I let my husband know I know he's not satisfied with me anymore without starting a fight?"
mmmmm... I don't think he wants you any less, indeed I think he'd have sex with you until you can't ... (read in full...)
Why should I raise HIS children while he does time in prison???
Q. I'm in a bit of a squeeze. I've been married for 6 months to my boyfriend of 3 years. We have had continuous issues with his infidelity and disloyalty and I don't trust him. Recently he was sentenced to a minimum of 5 years in prison. When he ...
A. 9 August 2010: If you intend divorcing him, then hand the kids over to the government or to any of his family members or friends that are willing to take them.. if you intend staying married then you need to find a way to keep the children, he will never forgive ... (read in full...)
Circumcision for women... is this all taboo?
Q. Hello, I'm a south african citizen, there are many cultures all over the world and some are considerd taboo.. especially here in the african continent to where im from, i live in johannesburg. most of you who have visited s.a would know it. There ...
A. 9 August 2010: I've known women who can't even go toilet properly after the surgery is done.. they experience pain when they have sex, sex becomes something to be scared of, only the man has fun...
She has every right to be terrified...... (read in full...)
Porn after sex
Q. Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...
A. 9 August 2010: Sigh, just started to write back on your post telling you everything is ok.. but you keep moving the goal posts... I was gonna write all this stuff about how he finds you sexy and wants to make love all day and night... I saw pornography as h... (read in full...)
Douching & sponge, what on earth?!
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...
A. 9 August 2010: Please listen to person12345, her information is correct, and I fear mine should be wrong.. see 99.9% effectiveness from the pill alone.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my old teacher, what should I do?
Q. hey guys, I'm 16 and I'm helplessly in love with my old sports teacher. yes, old, as in he was my primary school teacher, I'm in year ten now, and it's been around 3 years since I started loving him. He's about 10 years older than i am and he is ...
A. 9 August 2010: You can't do anything until your out of education and are working... Teacher who has a relationship with a student (even one who is not at his school) may find himself unemployed as parents will be frightened of him.... (read in full...)
Douching & sponge, what on earth?!
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...
A. 9 August 2010: Babes, if you use the sponge, the pill, and the spermicide, you will kill probably anything that dares to get near to you.. lol.. hahahahaha... lol...
Don't worry, the doctors have the "morning after pill".. if this is taken within 72 hours it... (read in full...)
Douching & sponge, what on earth?!
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...
A. 9 August 2010: This website is what we use in Britain to get advice on contraception.. http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/Contraception/Pages/Contraception-hub.aspx... (read in full...)
Douching & sponge, what on earth?!
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...
A. 9 August 2010: No Douching, it is not recommended as it washes away your natural protection, it can change the ph level's in your vagina and leave you open to getting more infections.
Douching is a rubber bag which you fill with water, it has a tube which yo... (read in full...)
Porn after sex
Q. Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...
A. 9 August 2010: "This doesn't sound like a sex drive issue since he used porn immediately after sex." (Anonymous)
I don't know, she said something about 24/7, maybe he wanted sex all night, whilst she wanted to go to sleep... However your very right, he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Why is sex sacred to women after marriage when they were so promiscuous before.
Q. I don't understand this. Before she met me, my wife couldn't care less about who she slept with. She was a party girl and gave it up to pretty much anyone. Now that we are married its supposed to be this sacred bond that only she and I share? I do...
A. 9 August 2010: You people who are against casual sex, have you been kissed by more than one person... does this make the kiss of your partner less special because of this?
I assume you've touched hands with millions of people, but does this mean that the care... (read in full...)
Porn after sex
Q. Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...
A. 9 August 2010: One thing that I'm confused about.. you say that your sex drive is lower than his, but then you get upset when he uses porn to relieve himself...
"I get that he has urges, and I'm just not THAT into sex to want it 24/7 like he does. I do turn him... (read in full...)
My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?
Q. hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...
A. 9 August 2010: It's Monday, you been to the doctor and got the forms yet?
Yea, the pressure test isn't that bad.. it's my phobia though, and I did it, even though it scared me every time... it just reminded me of one of them science fiction films where them ali... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 9 August 2010: Removing the word "should" from your language is a brilliant idea... glad to see your feeling better and more positive...
You seem like you meeting your goals and moving forward in life. Thank you for updating your post, it's lovely to see some... (read in full...)
Circumcision for women... is this all taboo?
Q. Hello, I'm a south african citizen, there are many cultures all over the world and some are considerd taboo.. especially here in the african continent to where im from, i live in johannesburg. most of you who have visited s.a would know it. There ...
A. 9 August 2010: Female circumcision is illegal in Britain... we find it barbaric and cruel and people who do such things on girl children will be sent to jail...
We have refugees who come here, and we find that they have been cut or sown up... our doctors ... (read in full...)
What exactly does being a virgin mean?
Q. How is a virgin man? Does it mean that the man has not have sex with any girl? What about if he does masturbation then is he still a virgin?...
A. 9 August 2010: Yipppie.. say it loud and say it proud.. hahahaha... :)... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 9 August 2010: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml
If he can do 69 kneeling, I think it's more than fair tat he has a day of pornography while you go get some sleep.. lol...(how the hell do they do such things)... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 9 August 2010: Good luck babes, there is nothing wrong with you not liking pornography or getting upset that he does.. likewise there is nothing wrong with him liking pornography and getting upset that you don't understand...
Compromise is what I'm asking f... (read in full...)
If women can only orgasm from G-spot and clitoral, then what about women who orgasm from kissing?
Q. If its true that women get orgasms from clitoral and g-spot stimulation only,then how can you explain those who get orgasms just by kissing their breasts,or massaging them,or whatever?...
A. 8 August 2010: Sigh.. please read this article, it will explain more about the female body.... http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/fr_index.htm... (read in full...)
If women can only orgasm from G-spot and clitoral, then what about women who orgasm from kissing?
Q. If its true that women get orgasms from clitoral and g-spot stimulation only,then how can you explain those who get orgasms just by kissing their breasts,or massaging them,or whatever?...
A. 8 August 2010: There are billions of women in the world and they are all different.. Some never have an orgasm, no matter what you do, some need clitoral stimulation to make this possible. Some as you've identified are lucky enough to have an orgasm through ... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 8 August 2010: Actually, I can see areas where you and him can meet.
1. He's willing to give up pornography, but finds it difficult. But even if he can't give it up, I'm sure that he can cut down...
2. Your not totally anti-pornography, but you have had som... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 8 August 2010: Sorry babes for turning this into an argument that has nothing at all to do with you. It's interesting that you watch pornography too...
Think back, when you look at porn, do you spend your time lusting after the man, or do you watch the sex acti... (read in full...)
15, pregnant and don't know how to tell my parents
Q. I am 15 and i have just found out i am pregnant, im not sure what i want to do yet. When i think about getting an abortion it makes me sick to the stomach but im not sure keeping it is the best option. my main worry is my parents, i dont know how...
A. 7 August 2010: Our Dear Aunt Tisha gave me this website address, which I think will be most helpfull to you.
http://www.momdadimpregnant.com/
Please contact your doctor, at 15 you should be old enough to be seen without your parents, and they should keep ... (read in full...)
My wife wants an open relationship and I think it is just an excuse for her to be able to leave!
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 7 August 2010: Original post here... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/wife-wants-an-open-relationship-so-that-i.html... (read in full...)
My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?
Q. hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...
A. 7 August 2010: Babes, you didn't really need specsavers, they can't really help you.. But you were scared, so I wanted to make it easier on you to do something and feel a little sucessfull. When you try something and feel like you have won, it makes it easier to ... (read in full...)
My wife wants an open relationship and I think it is just an excuse for her to be able to leave!
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 7 August 2010: You two need to go to get some marriage counselling.. there you can bring up any anger or resentments and can also find ways to compromise and expand your activities in the bedroom..
You need professional help from outside, because at the mome... (read in full...)
My wife wants an open relationship and I think it is just an excuse for her to be able to leave!
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 7 August 2010: Why didn't you just update your original post.. I remember you from before.. many of the aunts who answered may not be able to find you now.. anyway.. thanks for providing the additional information that we asked for..
Sigh.. you married a virgin... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 6 August 2010: Mrs Anon.. you don't like men very much do you? Why don't you turn lesbian and sleep with women, I think this would solve the problems you have with men liking pornography...
But maybe not, you seem to forget that many, many women like pornogra... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 6 August 2010: Why isn't the fact that so many women have so many issues with it and get so hurt enough? (Anon)
Maybe because many women get hurt and upset about a whole pile of things.. maybe because many guy's think it's unfair for women to control what the... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 5 August 2010: Your man is rude and insensitive, that's a completely different matter and nothing to do with pornography. No one likes to be told that they are not pretty, no one wants to feel ugly or needy..
He had no right to say things that dent your con... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 4 August 2010: opps, forgot to give you the link...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-watching-porn-am-i.html
Feeling adequate because of pornography is a problem of your confidence and will remain, even if he gives up porn.
Hating pornography be... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 4 August 2010: Same here babes.. check your box..
Dear caller.. please read this link... there is a very important post by one of our female aunts (Kaede) that tries to explain how people use pornography and how they think about it.
Pornography a... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 4 August 2010: This is a mistake that many women make.. they assume that because a man likes the look of one type of woman, they must be ugly if they look different..
I've never understood this. It dosen't sound like love, it sounds controlling, possesiv... (read in full...)
My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?
Q. hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...
A. 31 July 2010: Get a friend to take you in the car.. as Chigirl says, you can scream, shout, drag yourself across the floor, but you MUST GO AND GET YOUR EYES SORTED...
Don't worry about the embarrasment... I've been there, and yes, sometimes I am on the floo... (read in full...)
My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?
Q. hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...
A. 31 July 2010: I got eye problems and have had two cornea transplants... (I got some dead guys eyes, and I thank him for them everyday... poor guy was young and on a motor bike..
Glucoma is the worst eye disease there is, and blindness will definately occur wi... (read in full...)
My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?
Q. hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...
A. 31 July 2010: Gleaucoma... without treatment you will go blind.. go into specsavers instead, they can be found on the high street. Tell them about your phobia and ask if they will help you.
Phobia's are serious, but Glaucomo will make you blind so you have no ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: "Virginity is just one of the many attributes that an individual wants in a person." (shoccs)
This is something that I don't understand. Are all virgin's nice, kind and thoughtfull.. Are there no virgin criminals in jail? (apart from kids tha... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: Buddhist way is the best.. jealousy is a mind poison, it's the worst possessive side of us trying to destory our lives..
Either use Buddhist meditation techniques, to realise the mind has many thoughts, not all of them pleasant, but most of them ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: Brilliant MissManners, some of them angry anon's got a fantastic post closed with their own worries and woes..
It's nice for them to have a space to express their anger in a healthy way, rather than destroying another person's chance at happines... (read in full...)
Why wont he ask me out? I really want him to!
Q. Hey people please someone answer this for me. I really like this guy and all his frends tell me he is constantly talking about me and he really likes me they have been telling me this for about 2 months now, when he's with me I can see the way he ...
A. 18 July 2010: Hahaha.. you better come back and tell us how the date went...
You done really well.. be proud of yourself.... (read in full...)
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