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Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 13 October 2010: I'm here... sorry guys had a problem with a little irritating net nanny, give me some time to catch up and read what you've all been talking about.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 14 September 2010: Disagree with your statistics Person12345, but here is where we totally meet.... the pornography we currently have is too painful for so many people. We need better and less degrading pornography. We need more women making pornography rather than ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 9 September 2010: PS: I don't like watching male strippers, I find it embarrassing. And if your embarrassed, the male strippers target you to embarrass you even more. If I ever get married, I'm hopping my girlfriends take me to Amsterdam to see a live sex show ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 9 September 2010: I'm from the UK, we have male strippers over here,and it's common for women to hire them or arrange a girls night out for some sexy fun. The most famous are the Chippendales, and we've a movie called "The Full Monty". Watch that, it is a very good ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 8 September 2010: I worked in health before, and we fast tracked clients needing contraception as part of their work. The term was always "working women or man", and even at the lower end, the choice seemed to be prostitution and pornography gave them higher wages, ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 8 September 2010: No I don't think your anti-sex at all, and yes, it might sound like I accuse you of that. I read your posts and you don't portray someone who is anti-sex...
However, as I said, the evidence you bring up here, lacks intellectually rigour and vali... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: opps.. sorry, I talk lots.. gonna go and hit the books now, and take your ideas about further research.. thanks person12345... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: PS: Maybe them teen's you mentioned, don't like porn so much but see so many marriages which end in divorce...
Just because you record a phenomena, doesn't mean that porn is the cause... maybe they have more options than older folks to date and... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: Sorry, but because some people get addicted to pornography, dosen't make it a danger to everyone. Because some people have a difficult time in the industry, dosen't mean that everyone does. Because you think that pain and sex is wrong, dosen't ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: I went to the most popular porn site, and I didn't have to dig long.. what you say about the MAJORITY of porn, of what porn users like is wrong... I wasn't lucky and just happened to find less degrading things... What is viewed, and what is enjoyed ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 5 September 2010: "As for boredom/anal, since 1995 (around when internet porn became widespread) anal sex rates among teens doubled."
Problem with your statistics, that around this time, George W Bush targeted funds to promote abstinence and no sex in schools.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 4 September 2010: !Both portrayals are harmful, but in the sense that men get their ideas about how to treat women and sex and sexuality and general can be distorted." (Person)
Yep, this is the issue that concerns me.. not with adult men and women (I've no experien... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: We had a whole pile of Chinese shipped illegal to Britain to work at catching sea fish... They were not in the sex trade, but they were under the same slavery conditions. They were more than mistreated, a ton of them got washed away and died. We ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Sex trafficking is illegal... that is more to do with the "war on drugs" than anything else... It is a technique to frighten people when you try to tie sex trafficking and pornography together like this. If you know of somebody being forced into ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Commando Dude, remember we are all trying to play nicely on this thread although we all have different views. Please don't make things personal, we are just talking and sharing ideas.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Also checked for the top viewed porn film on the same website. Woman has sex with boss. Has a story, a little bit of acting. Man and women are smiling. Women and man kiss. Woman get's oral sex. Movements are gentle. No talking, just "mmmmmm". ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: "Women in porn aren't human, they are bitches, whores, cumbuckets, sluts, etc... They are also almost always covered in semen at the end. They are three holes two hands, things to be penetrated"
Again, I must ask, what type of pornography are you ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 3 September 2010: Katy Did and Miss Golightly (original poster) wonderful, wonderful posts... you both bring to the table so many issues, it's hard to tackle them all... wonderful discussion, I am very much enjoying this post.
Katy Did, you seem to take a feminist... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 2 September 2010: You get more than just a free jail pass.. you get thanks and admiration for coming back and showing your face and being willing to stand by your views. I know this subject is hard, and it's more easy to stay anonymous. But I'm so happy that you've ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 1 September 2010: But reader anon, now you want to police people's thoughts, and that is very difficult and it's also dangerous. People think all kinds of things, not only men, but women too. It's a good thing we can't read minds, otherwise we'd find out the your ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 1 September 2010: Nope, that's still wrong isn't it.. it's 85% of people who use porn.. sigh.. ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 1 September 2010: Mmmm.. anon, this was set up to be a positive post where people can express themselves. I'm really sorry you feel that way about somebody else.
Person 12345, I can see where I went wrong. No good at sums you see. From what you are saying, ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 30 August 2010: Hey, original poster, miss Golightly. I got a question for you. You've tried very hard to change your attitude and solve the problem of porn in your relationship.
But still sometimes it makes you feel bad. Can I ask why?... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 29 August 2010: One last question? Apart from no discussion about masturbation addiction.. what prevents women from getting addicted to porn... a low number of women look at pornography, but by your statistics, one in four of them must have problems with ad... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 29 August 2010: From what I can see, your one in four people who are so called "addicted" have a very simple solution.. they find a woman who doesn't have porn issues and then the problem is solved... Not much of an addiction if it can be solved so easily.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 29 August 2010: I'll put it this way, a higher percentage of porn users are addicted to porn than the percentage of alcohol users who are addicted to alcohol, but we still warn people that they could develop a dependence on alcohol and warn people about it's ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 28 August 2010: "15-20 of addicts do get addictive!!!!!!!".. that seems very high to me... but your probably going by the questionnaires that are on the web... addicted includes people continuing pornography even though their partner dislikes it.... I did one of ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 26 August 2010: "We need to make sure when people are young, they learn that porn is a) addictive"
But this is where me and you disagree.... it sounds like you think that everyone who looks at porn must have an addiction problem... but surely before you stated s... (read in full...)
Do guys go to clubs with the intention of pulling girls?
Q. ok thanks to everyone who responds, i really appreciate it. I know this will probably seem so obvious to people and also possibly stupid but I would love some input. ok well i went out last night and was with my flatmates at a student bar/club...
A. 23 August 2010: Remember what we said, be careful and find out if he wants sex or is willing to build a relationship..
Yippie.. hahaha.. have fun.. ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: "Actually my boyfriend hated that "eye crap" I'd wear (for different reasons) so I wore it a lot less." (personwithnumbers)
I think we are moving towards compromise.. I'm trying for no total ban, but to indulge in pornography less and to keep it ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: "But I think a lot of the problem is that men don't just want the visual, there's some kind of feeling of entitlement to ogle lots of other naked women."
Be careful when you say such things, especially if the pig is around. He tends to get very... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: Yes "aunt out of hiding and now moving" it's that middle group that is the problem... and yes their needs should be met as well..
Fair compromise for me is, he's allowed to look at porn outside the house and he tries to reduce his usage, she does... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: "I just think it's different with the porn thing from make-up, from going out with the guys, from whatever because it hurts her deep down at her core and while in a relationship, it seems like you should just want to do everything you possibly can ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 23 August 2010: Your missing the point... Asking a man to never look at pornography even in private is controlling..
Asking a woman to stop wearing make-up and dress like her grandmother is controlling.
Both are based on the other persons insecurities. I... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 22 August 2010: Where is everybody... bohoooo.... I'm all alone now...
Anyway, I got a question.. I lifted it from an anonymous lady who answered a question on porn.. I thought it was interesting, so I'll post it here...
"What if he turned around saying th... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of coming out because of the conservative society
Q. Dear readers I’m a 26 years old male professional and successful and I’m virgin. I want to live my life as many people do, find a girl, get married and have kids. I love girls and they are sexy and attractive but when I think about sex I feel th...
A. 22 August 2010: Your over 26... you can do whatever you want, your a big boy now, you don't have to tell your parents everything. Get on a train, get on a bus, go on dates where they can't come. Parents don't come on dates and they won't be in your bedroom.. ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 22 August 2010: OK.. I understand now, thanks to wikipedia..GGW indeed..... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 22 August 2010: What's GGW.. please translate for British readers...
And I should have guessed it was you... lol.. I could see your beliefs through your opinions, but you have been totally respectful towards us people with different points of view... Now that's t... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 22 August 2010: No dear, your aunt in hiding, and yes your arguments are very good indeed.. thank you very much for sharing.... (read in full...)
Had sex for the first time I need advice to make it better!
Q. Hey ! Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and we're both virgins. He really enjoyed it and i did aswell but it was kinda painful! is this normal? i didnt bleed and i heard thats what usually happens? , also i want to know ideas how...
A. 22 August 2010: For you, bubble baths and lots of kisses.. For him, lots of kisses and lots of compliments... the movies lie, yes it hurts at first sometimes and it's not a lot of fun. Practice makes perfect but please make sure you use protection.
Next time.. m... (read in full...)
How do I make sure everything is the truth before I get married?
Q. Hi, I am about to get married. To a man that I do love with all my heart, Yet he had some problems in the beginning of the relationship. So as of now I want to make sure that EVERYTHING is truth. I will not judge him on it. I just need to know. Pa...
A. 22 August 2010: Thank you anonymous for your kind words.. I think you are a very nice woman. Yes you can love a man who has been bad, but he is like a little boy, you will have to take charge and make sure that he behaves properly.
It's hard what you want to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!
Q. Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...
A. 22 August 2010: Q.. the sex has slowed down, he jumps when she touches him, he leaves her alone and chooses to use a porn magazine, he says "he felt like i was in his little personal bubble."...
Does that sound like a man in love to you?... (read in full...)
How do we tackle the disagreements before we marry?
Q. Hi I am due to get married in 3 months time and am getting anxious that me and my finace have different expectations about what marriage will mean to us. We have recently bought a house together, but I feel he is constantly testing the boun...
A. 22 August 2010: Wow... you can't get married, this will lead to divorce..
You expect your husband to always tell you where he is going, and you probably expect to do most things together. You believe that two people become one.
He believes that he is still... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was trying to get me to leave the room to masterbate!
Q. Ok, so if you've ever seen those things on the internet where the girl or guy is asking for help because they walked in on their partner masterbating, well here's another one. Now you see, i don't have a problem with the guy masterbating, bu...
A. 22 August 2010: It sounds like your relationship is in trouble. A guy dosen't jump up and push you away when he's in love. Forget about the porn, that's not the real issue. For some reason your guy is turning away from you and wanting space to be on his own..
... (read in full...)
Sleeping with Married People
Q. I am lucky: I have it all. I am tall, rich, good looking, athletic, well-educated. I, however, have a problem: I am attracted to married women. I am only really turned-on by being with a friend's (or co-worker's) wife. I love conquering the ...
A. 22 August 2010: Actually Nicegirl, you ring some bells there.. maybe this guy is a latent homosexual and too frightened to admit that he likes men not women. Maybe having sex with the wives of his friends, is his attempt to get close to the men.... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my FWB about a possible title on our relationship?
Q. so i've been seeing this guy for about 9 months now. we started off as friends with benefits, but its more then that. we hang out constantly, and we dont see other people. we always have fun. and at first, he used to always kiss me when dropping me ...
A. 22 August 2010: You have a title.. he's your friend and you both have sex... if he wanted more from you he would tell you.
You don't have to "suck it up", FWB should be fun. If it's not fun or you want more, go and find yourself a proper boyfriend. You can't do... (read in full...)
Do guys go to clubs with the intention of pulling girls?
Q. ok thanks to everyone who responds, i really appreciate it. I know this will probably seem so obvious to people and also possibly stupid but I would love some input. ok well i went out last night and was with my flatmates at a student bar/club...
A. 21 August 2010: Always meet my partners at clubs, but that's because dancing is important in my culture.. not sure about the kissing thing, to me that's a bit too fast.. I save my kisses untill I know someone better..
Yea, sure guys call you when they meet you... (read in full...)
What can I do to convince her to call the cops on him?
Q. Help my friend guys!! About a year ago my friend joined a group on facebook and put a link on its wall to some pictures of her in sexy outfits. A guy messaged her saying that he thought she was sexy. She accepted his friend request even as he said ...
A. 21 August 2010: Yes.. it dosen't make sense on so many level's, but if she's going to the police then hopefully they can deal with the whole thing...
... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: I did promise to answer you questions, and no I didn't forget, but the research from Miss anon aunt who is hiding, has been compelling and interesting..
Now I see you thought I was making fun off you.. no, pure misunderstanding on your part. W... (read in full...)
Opinions on what true love is?
Q. what is true love?...
A. 21 August 2010: Easier to answer "what is fake love"..work on that one first.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: "Thanks Miamine for your sarcasm "but this brings us back to real life and Miss Golightly's original post." Perhaps if you had a relationship on the rocks after 14 years due to porn, you might be a bit less nasty and a bit more empathic. On the ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of coming out because of the conservative society
Q. Dear readers I’m a 26 years old male professional and successful and I’m virgin. I want to live my life as many people do, find a girl, get married and have kids. I love girls and they are sexy and attractive but when I think about sex I feel th...
A. 21 August 2010: Brilliant advice from Hugo95.. in Britian we have no problem with homosexuality, even in conservative societies they understand. They may take it badly at first, but they will get used to it, and since gay people can get married and adopt, they ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get over retroactive jealousy?
Q. hello. im 20 yrs old and so is my girlfriend, we have been together for ages, its been like 2 years, we are pretty fine together . she is so understanding and loving and everything . she lost her virginity with me , i just love her so much, bu...
A. 21 August 2010: I understand your sentiments janniepeg, but lying makes things worse.. then men with jealousy issues go insane wanting to know the "truth"..
Far better is to say "none of your business, I never talk about my past ..." just leave it at that.. n... (read in full...)
Is he cheating on me or just being friendly?
Q. Hello fellows, i would appreciate your sincere advices. so i met a guy 6 months back , we dated for a couple of months then he moved to another country and started acting funny , vanishing sometimes reappearing a week later and so on, i decided to ...
A. 21 August 2010: I think this guy is eating pizza, and it's not made from your oven, so it's best if you get rid of him as soon as possible. Dump him, he dosen't sound like a faithfull man.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get over retroactive jealousy?
Q. hello. im 20 yrs old and so is my girlfriend, we have been together for ages, its been like 2 years, we are pretty fine together . she is so understanding and loving and everything . she lost her virginity with me , i just love her so much, bu...
A. 21 August 2010: Yes it's very possible.. you need to realise that your mind is trapped watching video's of the past.. if you can control the mind and redirect it to more pleasant things, these thoughts won't torment you so much.
As Marriedlady says, please l... (read in full...)
Why is my wife suddenly masturbating all the time?
Q. hi andrew my question may sound strange but my wife is going through the menopause and she doesnt have much interest in sex but she will spend all night , everynight masturbating which she thinks i dont know about and then complains how tired sh...
A. 21 August 2010: Actually she may be dry and find sex uncomfortable.. see if you can tempt her into bed and use some lubricant... this is a brilliant time to learn more about her body.. forget about penetrative sex for a moment, just see if she'll allow you to ... (read in full...)
Honey boobs!
Q. Hi, For a very long time my hubby has had a wish that he wants to put honey on boobs and nipples so that he can lick my boobs and suck my nipples. Please advise... is it safe and okay?...
A. 21 August 2010: Honey has a reputation for promoting youthfull skin... I suggest you say thank you to him for his suggestion... Have fun, but remind him that honey does contain lots of calories.. :)
PS: It will not be messy and sticky if he manages to lick up ... (read in full...)
How can I truly rid myself of this married man?
Q. My only true love pops in and out of my life. He's my first and only "everything". He's "popped in" right now. He's married and claims he doesn't love his wife, they married due to her pregnancy and they just cohabitate. He tells me I should be ...
A. 21 August 2010: He pops in and out of your life.. he'll probably be back.. take this time to get strong, make yourself be beautiful and spend as much time with your girlfriends or dating other men as much as you can... He plays with your emotions because he can, ... (read in full...)
Survivors of Abuse
Q. It is just so hard to hear so many girls have been sexually abused. Every girlfriend I ever had was abused. My new one was. I have yet to hear the details but I allready know this is going to classify as "horribly sexually abused". It is n...
A. 21 August 2010: If she dosen't want to talk.. that's what she wants to do.. now go and find some fun stuff that will make her relax and smile again... smiling and having fun will help her too... Not everybody wants to talk, and as they are the ones who suffer, what ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Couldn't agree more. There's been a rise in unplanned teen pregnancy recently and this has been cited as a possible reason (obviously no one really knows).
In the UK (and I think across Europe) there has been a drop in unplanned teenage pregnanc... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: We are all totally agreed that pornography is not for children, and our efforts should be (anti-porn and pro-porn) to put in controls to make it harder for them to access it.... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: "In terms of sex versus porn addiction, porn is much riskier than sex in terms of addiction I can't say why for sure it is so much riskier, but some think it's because in some users it's actually a much more intense experience than sex alone."
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Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Yippie.. a true scholar.. thank you for the references and links...
Miamine goes off to read interesting research... :)... (read in full...)
Sleeping with Married People
Q. I am lucky: I have it all. I am tall, rich, good looking, athletic, well-educated. I, however, have a problem: I am attracted to married women. I am only really turned-on by being with a friend's (or co-worker's) wife. I love conquering the ...
A. 21 August 2010: "I am lucky: I have it all. I am tall, rich, good looking, athletic, well-educated. I, however, have a problem: I am attracted to married women. I am only really turned-on by being with a friend's (or co-worker's) wife." (Anon)
You have nothing ... (read in full...)
Survivors of Abuse
Q. It is just so hard to hear so many girls have been sexually abused. Every girlfriend I ever had was abused. My new one was. I have yet to hear the details but I allready know this is going to classify as "horribly sexually abused". It is n...
A. 21 August 2010: I know what you mean... I've spent all my life hearing tales of abuse and cruelty...knew that men liked to rape women from the time I could walk...
It's very difficult helping people with such secrets.. I usually give them what I feel they nee... (read in full...)
Why is my wife suddenly masturbating all the time?
Q. hi andrew my question may sound strange but my wife is going through the menopause and she doesnt have much interest in sex but she will spend all night , everynight masturbating which she thinks i dont know about and then complains how tired sh...
A. 21 August 2010: Not good enough aunts.. if she was male you wouldn't be so understanding.. if she has sexual needs that aren't being met, how will her husband know if she dosen't discuss them...
You need to do the talk talk thing, and "I don't know, I'm tired, o... (read in full...)
Why is my wife suddenly masturbating all the time?
Q. hi andrew my question may sound strange but my wife is going through the menopause and she doesnt have much interest in sex but she will spend all night , everynight masturbating which she thinks i dont know about and then complains how tired sh...
A. 21 August 2010: I have to be fair.. I am angry when men turn to masterbation and turn away from sex with their partner.. So I must be angry with your wife too.. This is not fair. If she has problems that she's hiding away from by using masterbation to decrease the ... (read in full...)
Why did he hug me so long?
Q. Me and my boyfriend went on our first date yesterday. at the end, he hugged me for ages, i mean like really ages. afterwards, i suddenly became shy, he was going to kiss me, but i turned my head away. i havent heard from him since. what i really ...
A. 21 August 2010: He likes you.. hugging and kissing the girl you like feels good. You turned away and did not kiss him, now he thinks you don't like him and he thinks he did something wrong. If you like him, you need to phone him up and tell him that you thought ... (read in full...)
How do I make sure everything is the truth before I get married?
Q. Hi, I am about to get married. To a man that I do love with all my heart, Yet he had some problems in the beginning of the relationship. So as of now I want to make sure that EVERYTHING is truth. I will not judge him on it. I just need to know. Pa...
A. 21 August 2010: Ok, trouble with the police, but you will not leave him and will not turn him away.
Stop the wedding, tell him you refuse to be married untill you know everything. Tell him not to lie, if he lies you will divorce him if you ever find out.
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Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Yea.. the lack of condoms bothered me.. until I researched more.. the industry are very, very big on STD tests.. if your not clean you don't work...I think they are tested every 6months and often in the middle of shoots.
One sex worker with an ... (read in full...)
In love with a virgin but he cant be with me because I am not a virgin!
Q. So i am about to be 20 years old in month, during my freshman year i met this guy who was out of the ordinary. Hes 22 years old, and hes a virgin for religious reasons. But yet hes messed around with girls, including myself. We are in a ...
A. 21 August 2010: Sorry babes, but virginity is very important to him. He will not be able to enter into a long term relationship with a non-virgin and will not be able to marry one.
You have done nothing wrong. But for religious people who think virginit... (read in full...)
Why do people keep photos of their ex?
Q. Why do people keep photos of their ex'? I girl i've been seeing for almost a year keep photos albums of her ex' on her bookshelf in the living room. There must be hundreds of them. Should i be freaking out here? She gets angry if i keep anything ...
A. 21 August 2010: Why do people keep photo's of anything at all..
I'm sure that the pictures of her ex includes locations and events and people from her past.. people keep pictures for when they are old and they loose their memory and can't remember what they did... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: From Wikipedia..
Robert Jensen.. As a strong pro-feminist, Jensen has focused much of his work on the radical feminist critique of pornography and of masculinity. He also has written about white privilege and institutionalized racism. Jensen i... (read in full...)
I simply cannot come to terms with my man watching porn
Q. I am one of those dreaded women that simply cannot come to terms with my man watching pron. I have struggled with this since the day I started dating guys. I have literally done everything I can think and everything people have suggested to make ...
A. 21 August 2010: Sigh.. the terms you use show a lot of self-hatred. Why do you think something is wrong with you and your to be "dreaded" because you dislike something that other people like. Why do you feel the need to compromise with the world instead of ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Miamine hides whips and chains so not to offend Askoldersis... Miamine takes dictionary out, to look up long words like dopperme... (cheap way of getting education)
Will be back to answer Lucyloo's as soon as I process this intelligent stuff...... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Sorry, I don't mean to minimise the true pain that sex addiction causes.. but I'm also very weary of the "fear mongering"... making people afraid of sex will have very destructive effects..
As to what the woman who hates porn but loves the man ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: One more thing.. if more and more porn users are using degrading pornography, then where does the whole amateur scene come from.. From what I can see, the amateur scene is fairly new and has gone from few users (and producers) to millions ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: It's because of this that the new DSM manual is removing the word addiction, because it has been so generalised it can no longer be used to explain clinical malfunctioning that needs treatment and help.
If we can all be addicted to anything... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: From what you say, if we remove the pornography, we are all still in danger from addiction to orgasm.... makes one want to stop sex altogether..
And then there's the danger of getting addicted to anything on earth... yes there is also sports a... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Sorry, sorry, sorry.. last question I promise...
"If most men look at degrading porn, and it affects their brain. What happens to the women who watch pornography, do they begin to hate themselves?"... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: Sorry one more questions anon...
1. You believe that watching porn affects the brain in some way. If your watching degrading pornography for study, how is it effecting your sexuality?
2. Is your study of degrading pornography not ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 21 August 2010: "Just because of the existence of other kinds of non-degrading porn does not mean most porn that most men watch isn't degrading."
1. How do you know MOST men watch degrading porn?
2. What type of porn do you classify as degrading?... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 20 August 2010: "So let me ask you, if as a woman she finds it degrading to women, but you find it arousing, is that a good thing to be aroused by degrading women? You think it's healthy?" (anon)
I'll bite, and this is a difficult one.. Healthy is the same as ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Non-compromise is also good.. you have standards, you set them and you keep to them.. But I'm an atheist.. I declare this on my first date.. I don't think it's the job of the religious to tell me that they like God.. If I don't like something, it's ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Exactly Cerbus.... I'm not a porn lover, actually I watch it very rarely.. my problem is that I LOVE ROMANCE AND EROTIC NOVELS... I love the millionaire prince that dates the secretary and then they have sex on the floor.. like many women, words are ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Hi, I just want to add this answer given by one of our aunts.. (Kaede) I hope she doesn't mind.. but this is very close to how I think, and is one of the best answers to a pornography problem that I have ever read. Because I have used pornography, ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Hi Sis...lol.. and I know your not too keen on the whole porn thing, so I'm surprised we find ourselves in agreement.
Thanks anon, we got to give you a name.. lets call you miss Golightly, and I thank you for starting this thread. I think I'... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 19 August 2010: Totally agree honeypie, it's best if people can compromise over difficulties with pornography, that really is the best way. I also agree that it is not helpful when us aunts and uncles get into big discussions on people's threads, totally ... (read in full...)
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