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Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 10 August 2010: Anon, I can hear your hurt and your pain... but you can't change people, you can only change yourself.. I always perfer couples to compromise on the issues of pornography. But if they can't, you can always leave the guy who hurts you so much.
... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 10 August 2010: Q... you know I like "Don't ask, don't tell, and don't search" when it comes to pornography... it's awful, but things were better before the woman's revolution and the internet... men have always looked at porn, but women didn't notice because they ... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 10 August 2010: Hey Q, we done with arguing now.. the orginal poster is looking for solutions and suggestions...
Look at kneeling 69, do you think if she asks to try that it will keep porn of his mind for a little while?...... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 9 August 2010: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml
If he can do 69 kneeling, I think it's more than fair tat he has a day of pornography while you go get some sleep.. lol...(how the hell do they do such things)... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 9 August 2010: Good luck babes, there is nothing wrong with you not liking pornography or getting upset that he does.. likewise there is nothing wrong with him liking pornography and getting upset that you don't understand...
Compromise is what I'm asking f... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 8 August 2010: Actually, I can see areas where you and him can meet.
1. He's willing to give up pornography, but finds it difficult. But even if he can't give it up, I'm sure that he can cut down...
2. Your not totally anti-pornography, but you have had som... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 8 August 2010: Sorry babes for turning this into an argument that has nothing at all to do with you. It's interesting that you watch pornography too...
Think back, when you look at porn, do you spend your time lusting after the man, or do you watch the sex acti... (read in full...)
Wife wants an open relationship so that I will stray and she can walk away
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 7 August 2010: Post has been updated with further details.. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-wants-an-open-relationship-and-i.html... (read in full...)
Philosophical questions about sex and disabilities
Q. This question may seem long and convoluted but there is an underlying unity I can absolutely assure you if you just take the time to read between the lines and try to see how things might look from my perspective. I hope you can see when a disag...
A. 7 August 2010: People with disabilities can need sex more than anyone else.. their lives can be so lonely, and there can be few chances to be held, kissed or loved by anyone....
That's why I support prostitution.. what would some disabled men do, if they did... (read in full...)
Philosophical questions about sex and disabilities
Q. This question may seem long and convoluted but there is an underlying unity I can absolutely assure you if you just take the time to read between the lines and try to see how things might look from my perspective. I hope you can see when a disag...
A. 7 August 2010: Why should people have sexual satisfaction... wow.. very hard question.
It's a hard question because not everybody needs or like's sex at all.. There are nun's and monks who go without sex. There are people who are sworn to celibacy and they are... (read in full...)
Philosophical questions about sex and disabilities
Q. This question may seem long and convoluted but there is an underlying unity I can absolutely assure you if you just take the time to read between the lines and try to see how things might look from my perspective. I hope you can see when a disag...
A. 7 August 2010: Your question is very hard, so that is why it has taken me so long to give you a proper answer...
But while I am thinking, look at this post, this guy has put forward a different opinion on sex.. I think this would be a good post for you to read ... (read in full...)
Do men ALWAYS KNOW if they have had sex?
Q. {Mod Note - OP's own title] Help! Can your man ALWAYS tell if HE'S had sex in the morning? My guy is telling me he didn't because he would KNOW, but when I came back in the room 30 minutes later, he had no boxers on and was cuddling, when I clearly ...
A. 7 August 2010: Calm down.. I doubt they had anal sex, but your boyfriend was drunk and can't remember anything... I'm guessing the gay friend was drunk as well...
I believe this was a case of alcohol, loss of memory and mistaking identies.. your boyfrien... (read in full...)
Do men ALWAYS KNOW if they have had sex?
Q. {Mod Note - OP's own title] Help! Can your man ALWAYS tell if HE'S had sex in the morning? My guy is telling me he didn't because he would KNOW, but when I came back in the room 30 minutes later, he had no boxers on and was cuddling, when I clearly ...
A. 7 August 2010: If this were a woman, you would never have left them sleeping in bed after they had been drinking so much.... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?
Q. [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...
A. 6 August 2010: And many people pretend to like pornography, because their freinds and peers try to convince them that it's ok...
lol.. you got a nice guy, relax and enjoy, if he does porn, it'll turn up in a couple of months without you even needing to look.... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 6 August 2010: Mrs Anon.. you don't like men very much do you? Why don't you turn lesbian and sleep with women, I think this would solve the problems you have with men liking pornography...
But maybe not, you seem to forget that many, many women like pornogra... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 6 August 2010: Why isn't the fact that so many women have so many issues with it and get so hurt enough? (Anon)
Maybe because many women get hurt and upset about a whole pile of things.. maybe because many guy's think it's unfair for women to control what the... (read in full...)
Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?
Q. This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...
A. 6 August 2010: Lemon should do it.. lemon will work as a light form of bleach.... (read in full...)
Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?
Q. This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...
A. 6 August 2010: Don't you just hate people who live in the sun... I'm offended again, because you just reminded me that the sun has gone now.. lol... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?
Q. [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...
A. 6 August 2010: ps: There are feminist who are anti-pornography, there are feminist who support in and defend sexual freedom..
But you are right, it's a wonderfull subject to research, especially as it's a hidden activity, and therefore finding out the real tru... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?
Q. [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...
A. 6 August 2010: "It's a big deal to a majority of women actually"
A large percentage of women, and most men do not have a problem with pornography... currently arround 30% of women admit to watching and enjoying pornography.. last statistics I saw said 48% of w... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?
Q. [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...
A. 6 August 2010: Why don't you just relax and wait until he's done something wrong. At the moment you've judged him with no evidence, are worried about him, and making your life hell..
Isn't it better to wait untill he's done something wrong. Being anti-por... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him even though he wont wear condoms and I'm not on birth control?
Q. i've been with my bf for 1year. hes my first love and im his he's two years older than me.. we are both vigins.. and homecoming night b4 his big game.. i well lets just say i wanna have sex with him.. he gave me i ring and we are getting married ...
A. 5 August 2010: Heck your not even old enough to drive a car yet... My prediction... you have sex with the guy, you get pregnant, you two fight, your friends disappear, you struggle for money, kid starts screaming, eventually the guy runs away and you never see him ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him even though he wont wear condoms and I'm not on birth control?
Q. i've been with my bf for 1year. hes my first love and im his he's two years older than me.. we are both vigins.. and homecoming night b4 his big game.. i well lets just say i wanna have sex with him.. he gave me i ring and we are getting married ...
A. 5 August 2010: So you two want to be parents.. Have you put down money for this child your going to have?... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 5 August 2010: Your man is rude and insensitive, that's a completely different matter and nothing to do with pornography. No one likes to be told that they are not pretty, no one wants to feel ugly or needy..
He had no right to say things that dent your con... (read in full...)
I love my teacher & I think he likes me back. Any advice?
Q. MODS NOTE: OP's own title. Okay first off I'm new to this site, so if its in the wrong category, my bad. Anyways I had this teacher 1st semester. At first he was like a normal teacher, then after the 2nd semester started he started to act all funn...
A. 5 August 2010: No, nothing unusual going on here. Yes your teacher likes you, probably because your a good student, or have the potential to be one. Teacher's like different students more than they like others, they can't help it, they are only human and and ... (read in full...)
Lies about her past........
Q. me and my girlfriend were talking about her past early in our relationship and she said she had anly slept with 2 other people only 7 times and only had oral once... i read her diary and it said she had slept with 3 guys and one guy was 7 times and ...
A. 5 August 2010: Why did you read her diary?... (read in full...)
I need a woman by Saturday!!! Help!
Q. Dear cupid, I've got to go to my older brother's wedding on Saturday just can't get woman to go with me. If I can't get a girlfriend by Saturday I won't get to go to my older brother's wedding. I'm very shy with women and I've tried everything to ...
A. 5 August 2010: If your that shy, maybe you can do some wedding tasks.. handing out drinks, or giving out the wedding hymns.. something to make sure you communicate with people, and have a reason to start conversation with them.
People always need help at weddi... (read in full...)
I need a woman by Saturday!!! Help!
Q. Dear cupid, I've got to go to my older brother's wedding on Saturday just can't get woman to go with me. If I can't get a girlfriend by Saturday I won't get to go to my older brother's wedding. I'm very shy with women and I've tried everything to ...
A. 5 August 2010: Go to the wedding as a single man.. weddings are the best place to meet and talk to a woman. Your brother will have single female friends, so will the bride and her family. You'll be at a social event that lasts for hours, you will have reason to ... (read in full...)
Do men ALWAYS KNOW if they have had sex?
Q. {Mod Note - OP's own title] Help! Can your man ALWAYS tell if HE'S had sex in the morning? My guy is telling me he didn't because he would KNOW, but when I came back in the room 30 minutes later, he had no boxers on and was cuddling, when I clearly ...
A. 5 August 2010: I agree with quiet-echo.. there may have been some cuddling and some masturbation activity, but there was no penetrative sex. The anus is very different from the vagina and needs more active participation.
It could be the case that your partner ... (read in full...)
Philosophical questions about sex and disabilities
Q. This question may seem long and convoluted but there is an underlying unity I can absolutely assure you if you just take the time to read between the lines and try to see how things might look from my perspective. I hope you can see when a disag...
A. 5 August 2010: "I admit I have a very paranoid sense of how society works and it feels like people are cold, irrational, arbitrary, and insensitive, the fact that people are overtly insensitive about sexual matters simply confuses me to no end." ... (read in full...)
Do you women think this could have happened?
Q. Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...
A. 5 August 2010: Thank you for the update.. I did't read the aunts answers, just read your question and fed back to late..
Yos is our highly regarded uncle on this question.. yes, you feel hurt and betrayed.. that's emotion, but with your logical mind and your hea... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 5 August 2010: look carefully.. q is a pink pig and I say no more.... (read in full...)
Is my coming out so traumatic to my parents that they block it out?
Q. well, a few months ago i came out to my parents. they gave me the works. crying, arguing, anger, bullshit. basically my parents weren't, and still aren't okay with my sexuality, my sisters on the other hand, they're fine, they don't care. well, i've ...
A. 5 August 2010: Indeed Q, but parents want gradchildren and that's why the problems come up..
Luckily in time, the become accepting of the way that you are, at the end, gradchildren are nice, but happy children that they brought into life is the most importan... (read in full...)
Curiosity about men's sexual organs
Q. Hello! I have a few questions about men [physically]. I know men have erections when they see a pretty woman. But I have a few questions that I want clarified and confirmed. 1.] What is the longest penis size ever documented? 2.] Men usually talk...
A. 5 August 2010: Also, if your having these kind of questions, please speak to your mum or dad.. they know you have questions about sex and been waiting a long time for you to bring the subject up so they can explain things properly..
They may not know all the ... (read in full...)
Curiosity about men's sexual organs
Q. Hello! I have a few questions about men [physically]. I know men have erections when they see a pretty woman. But I have a few questions that I want clarified and confirmed. 1.] What is the longest penis size ever documented? 2.] Men usually talk...
A. 5 August 2010: Hi babes, welcome to dear cupid.. we will try to answer but we are not experts or encylopedia's, we are just normal people who want to help out..
1.] What is the longest penis size ever documented?
Don't know.. look in the library for the Guin... (read in full...)
Boy have I been through quite a wringer of a relationship
Q. So I decided recently to end my 4 year relationship with my boyfriend. I am 22 years old and he is 29. I felt that he had a bad habit of inconsideration and selfishness in my eyes. On the occasions over the years when I came to him and expresse...
A. 5 August 2010: How to cope.?. keep up the dancing.. lol.. that's important.. and keep being yourself, you seem like a lovely lady, but the man was wrong for you.. independant woman you are right now.. work on yourself, have fun and learn.. the right man will come ... (read in full...)
Boy have I been through quite a wringer of a relationship
Q. So I decided recently to end my 4 year relationship with my boyfriend. I am 22 years old and he is 29. I felt that he had a bad habit of inconsideration and selfishness in my eyes. On the occasions over the years when I came to him and expresse...
A. 5 August 2010: Hi babes, this is the space to vent and say your peice.. your writing is controlled, your words specially picked, I know their is a lot more hurt and emotion that your allowing to show here..
Yes babes, it can't work.. you have told us all the ... (read in full...)
Is my coming out so traumatic to my parents that they block it out?
Q. well, a few months ago i came out to my parents. they gave me the works. crying, arguing, anger, bullshit. basically my parents weren't, and still aren't okay with my sexuality, my sisters on the other hand, they're fine, they don't care. well, i've ...
A. 5 August 2010: Respect vintage.. your analysis is sound.. just speaking like a frightened parent who is sad about the choices that their children make...
They choose their life, but now you must choose yours of course, but please have sympathy for them and the ... (read in full...)
Do you women think this could have happened?
Q. Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...
A. 5 August 2010: lol.. with me, it was forced kisses and hands that hurt and gropped.. enough for me to learn that when you are drunk, some men can become beasts... ... (read in full...)
Do you women think this could have happened?
Q. Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...
A. 5 August 2010: Yo.. it's me number one man pig (wave)
Yep, it's the drink dear poster, makes us women vunerable and then men with no manners attack... suffered such assults when I was a teenager.. I experienced everything you woman suffered, and she would ha... (read in full...)
Wife wants an open relationship so that I will stray and she can walk away
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 5 August 2010: Is this advice you wanted, divorce her and walk away.. are things really that bad, or did you have an arguement that got out of hand.
With sex, most things can be solved if you two calm down, realise that love is involved and want to get your pro... (read in full...)
Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?
Q. This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...
A. 5 August 2010: SirenaBlusera, I am highly offended by your post.. of course we get sun, we don't live in the north pole.. this is the UK, we got two weeks sun, a wonderfull summer, and now we is back to grey days, lots of rain and we is waiting for snow..
We ca... (read in full...)
Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?
Q. This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...
A. 4 August 2010: Try exfoilation.. rough corse sea salt or similar abrasive stuff on you skin may remove the layer of tan that you find disgusting.... (read in full...)
Is my coming out so traumatic to my parents that they block it out?
Q. well, a few months ago i came out to my parents. they gave me the works. crying, arguing, anger, bullshit. basically my parents weren't, and still aren't okay with my sexuality, my sisters on the other hand, they're fine, they don't care. well, i've ...
A. 4 August 2010: "my question is can something, like my coming out to my parents, be so traumatic to them, that they block it out?"
YOU DEPRIVE THEM OF GRANDCHILDREN.. YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN ARE THE FUTURE, THEIR WAY OF BEING REMEMBERED AND PROVIDING SOMETHIN... (read in full...)
Do men ALWAYS KNOW if they have had sex?
Q. {Mod Note - OP's own title] Help! Can your man ALWAYS tell if HE'S had sex in the morning? My guy is telling me he didn't because he would KNOW, but when I came back in the room 30 minutes later, he had no boxers on and was cuddling, when I clearly ...
A. 4 August 2010: I don't understand the problem.. men wake up with a hard on, if your in the bed they start that bloody funny stuff.. they are half asleep, and in my humble opinon will masturbate of have sex with anything that has a suitable form..
What's wrong wi... (read in full...)
Stuck in a LDR. Is it ok to look for a FWB?
Q. i am a 23 year old lady who is in a stable relationship.however my boyfriend and i are miles away we see each other once in a while like once a month or once in two weeks.when we see each other we make love and we both get contented however the rest ...
A. 4 August 2010: In a long distance relationship, it is perfectly reasonable to ask your boyfriend if you can find a sex friend for company.. If the boyfriend says no, then respect him, but with him so far away, he will realise you may be lonely and may be glad you ... (read in full...)
Is tossing the salad a reglular part of lovemaking?
Q. Mod Note...OP's own title: Hey everyone. Is it normal for a man to be turned off by the idea of having anal sex with a woman and by the idea of tossing a woman's salad (pleasing her anus orally). I'm in love with my girlfriend and I find h...
A. 4 August 2010: Sorry correction.. bad typing.. he didn't find it disgusting.. lol.. he liked her reaction because she enjoyed it so much...... (read in full...)
Is tossing the salad a reglular part of lovemaking?
Q. Mod Note...OP's own title: Hey everyone. Is it normal for a man to be turned off by the idea of having anal sex with a woman and by the idea of tossing a woman's salad (pleasing her anus orally). I'm in love with my girlfriend and I find h...
A. 4 August 2010: Example.. we had a guy whose woman got sexy by the thought of him pissing on her.. he was horrified and wondered if this was normal... The aunts on dear cupid told him to try it in the shower...
He had fun, the lady was gratefull, it was as disgu... (read in full...)
Is tossing the salad a reglular part of lovemaking?
Q. Mod Note...OP's own title: Hey everyone. Is it normal for a man to be turned off by the idea of having anal sex with a woman and by the idea of tossing a woman's salad (pleasing her anus orally). I'm in love with my girlfriend and I find h...
A. 4 August 2010: There is nothing "NORMAL" in sex... there are billions of us on this planet, all sucking, fucking and doing whatever... it dosen't matter what other people think of as "NORMAL", all that matters is that you and your partner can shut the bedroom door ... (read in full...)
Was she really a virgin?
Q. Hey, i have been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years now and when we started dating she was a virgin and i wasnt and eventually we ended up having sex and obviously i was the one to take her virginity. My question is and something that has ...
A. 4 August 2010: Hahaha.. strontiumdog good answer... I keep feeling that something is wrong with me because I'm 40 and no longer a virgin.. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks sex is dirty and gross!
Q. Just wondering what everyone thinks of this and how you may go about dealing with this. I have tried discussing this nicely with my fiance' but he says he doesn't think there is a problem. But I am concerned there is an underlying problem. He thinks ...
A. 4 August 2010: Very confused about your post.. you say he has sex with you, but he's not romantic... don't understand why you say he "thinks sex is dirty and gross".. You say he intitates sex.. is it not frequent enough for you?.. I really can't understand the ... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 4 August 2010: opps, forgot to give you the link...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-watching-porn-am-i.html
Feeling adequate because of pornography is a problem of your confidence and will remain, even if he gives up porn.
Hating pornography be... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 4 August 2010: Same here babes.. check your box..
Dear caller.. please read this link... there is a very important post by one of our female aunts (Kaede) that tries to explain how people use pornography and how they think about it.
Pornography a... (read in full...)
Wife wants an open relationship so that I will stray and she can walk away
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 4 August 2010: You two had an argument, she said some hurtfull words.. she dosen't mean what she says, you know that, your just angry and trying to look for people to make you feel better..
What is the real problem, what goes wrong in the bedroom. Do you want... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 4 August 2010: This is a mistake that many women make.. they assume that because a man likes the look of one type of woman, they must be ugly if they look different..
I've never understood this. It dosen't sound like love, it sounds controlling, possesiv... (read in full...)
Why is it mainly women posting on here and not men?
Q. Hello Aunts I have one general question on the forum. Why do only women post questions here ? why so less questions being raised here by Men?. what are the thoughts on this. I know it is complex question and not a single and easy answe...
A. 31 July 2010: There are many men who ask questions on this site. Men's problems seem to be about the size of their penis, or how to get rid of jealousy over their partners past. We also have a lot of questions from men who want to find out how to be more ... (read in full...)
How to help a shy man...
Q. i've been trying to find a girlfriend for my very shy friend. But they won't go out with him just because he is shy. He thinks women don't like shy men that they want confident men. He thinks he wasting his time trying because he is shy....
A. 31 July 2010: lol.. hi John Morgan...
Your wrong about women, there are all types... some like bold men, some think they are too arrogant.... there are many women like me who love the shy guys, makes me think of ways to corrupt them... lol.. :)... (read in full...)
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